The terrible experience of wishing a Happy Birthday to Brooke Jameson

[ramonfreeones]

The terrible experience of wishing a Happy Birthday to Brooke Jameson AKA Carmen Jay

More than anything else this is a warning.

I have this stupid emotion of wanting to wish happy birthday to people like favorite actresses and musicians as well as favorite models with a card that I make. It is not always possible for me because at least it takes me 30 minutes to do it.

Sometimes the person in question sees them and likes or even thanks them and many others don't even see them or ignore them. Ok, I'm used to it.

With Brooke or Carmen [whatever she wants to be called] I had already wished happy birthday her and she had thanked me, so I thought it would be a good idea to repeat this year.



I made her a card for her but since now that I use more instagram than last year, I also upload that in my stories using the tag of the person I'm wishing happy birthday, I also did it this time.

I wasn't following her on instagram so I investigated her instagram. She has it posted on her Twitter where she announces her ****** dates and from her twitter account she invites you to follow her on instagram without any kind of warning.

And I want to make it very clear that when I saw that she used the name Carmen on instagram I had already made the card, which took me 40 minutes.



Well, today, finishing her card [and another model's card], I decided to first upload them to my Instagram stories and then on Twitter.

I had already uploaded on both platforms when I see a private message from her on Instagram that even had a voice message.



https://voca.ro/15khtCGn2Ifv


She told me that "how dare I relate both names, that I was disrespectful and that I should remove it." ["kindly" ]


As soon as I read and heard that, I was obviously very confused.

I removed the card from my Instagram stories and also on Twitter before she saw it there.

She made me feel like someone who had sent her a picture of a phallus instead of a Happy Birthday wish card that cost me time and work and more. So unfair. Better she would have ignored me like most people.

During these decades as a designer I had received many types of comments but nothing as confusing as this, or at least I don't remember something like that and my head began to want to think about all this.

Does she have a double standard or is she bipolar or both, perhaps?

Does she pretend to be someone on Twitter and someone else on Instagram? And if so, why doesn't she warns you?

Because Carmen [or Brooke], if you are reading this, you were the one who put together those names and you were the one who linked those ways of calling you and those accounts. Not me.





And in case for some crazy reason you didn't want me to put that on my Instagram stories [which usually less than 10 people see regularly], you definitely could have just said "Can you please just put that on Twitter only, not here".

How are we supposed to guess how we can call you?

How are we supposed to guess who they are or what personality they represent on each social platform?

Perhaps many might think that I exaggerate, but the truth is that this is not good at all. And if that were the case, I would swallow this like so many other criticisms and things, but no, I can't. And if I can warn other people, even better.

It is very true that there are trolls who ****** and harass models and adult performers but also models and adult performers come to troll polite fans for no reason like in this case with me.

Well Carmen, don't worry, the solution here is easy. I no longer wish you anything and no longer support you on your social media to avoid problems with you of any kind and I suggest everyone to do the same. The end.

 

[ramonfreeones]

I must make a clarification. Where she mentions her instagram from Twitter, in that video she does say that they should not mention her name "Brooke Jameson". Until now I'm realizing that

A set of things:

- I was working more than two hours in a row just upload those cards.

- I had to search for her instagram.




Still, it's not like she would have told me all that. I keep what I said before.

We all make mistakes and if it was very important to her, she should have written it and even so she has combined both names in her porn career. So I continue without understanding her attitude towards me. 🤨

 

[Steve-FreeOnes]

Does she have a double standard or is she bipolar or both, perhaps?

I'm an organizational psychologist

*chef's kiss*

 

[FreeOnes_Adam]

I approved this thread, and I only slightly regret it.

 

[ramonfreeones]

*chef's kiss*

What happens is that organizational psychologists, unlike clinical psychologists, is that we detect disorders in people and everything related to the work environment, but we do not treat people or anything, I don't have a license to do that. In fact, we organizational psychologists depend on clinical psychologists.

That's why immediately what I started to think is if she had a mental disorder 😅 LOL

My message with my card and the response I received had no relation or meaning. I was actually a bit shocked, to be honest.

I approved this thread, and I only slightly regret it.

That comment is more than enough for me 😁 👍

 

[Steve-FreeOnes]

What happens is that organizational psychologists, unlike clinical psychologists, is that we detect disorders in people and everything related to the work environment, but we do not treat people or anything, I don't have a license to do that.

 

[ramonfreeones]

I do not have a license to do so, obviously referring to giving therapy to people who are not my goal or work. In everything else I am an authority,

I have sent an immense number of people to take therapy and courses so that they can continue exercising their job Where I not only require clinical psychologists to let me know the assistance of the people in question, but also that they can demonstrate what they learned and make a presentation at the end of their process in order to continue working. Companies hire me for that and for many other related things.

 

[Steve-FreeOnes]

I do not have a license to do so, obviously referring to giving therapy to people who are not my goal or work. In everything else I am an authority,

I have sent an immense number of people to take therapy and courses so that they can continue exercising their job Where I not only require clinical psychologists to let me know the assistance of the people in question, but also that they can demonstrate what they learned and make a presentation at the end of their process in order to continue working. Companies hire me for that and for many other related things.

I'm sure this is all true but I'm not sure I would trust the psychology of somebody throwing a wobbler online because a porn star didn't like his birthday card and almost immediately resorting to the age old 'is she bipolar I wonder!' borderline slur in his rant.

I hope you have better luck with Brooke / Carmen's Christmas card.

 

[Little Red Wagon Repairman]

 

[ramonfreeones]

I'm sure this is all true but I'm not sure I would trust the psychology of somebody throwing a wobbler online because a porn star didn't like his birthday card and almost immediately resorting to the age old 'is she bipolar I wonder!' borderline slur in his rant.

I hope you have better luck with Brooke / Carmen's Christmas card.

No my friend, the Christmas card is your turn to give it to her. It looks like you two could understand each other very well. 😁

And about the bipolar disorder thought, I thought it very seriously and not as a "slur" because I don't play with that. Mental disorders are serious. It was a very serious question that I asked myself in the heat of the moment that I very honestly mentioned in this anecdote and for the people who usually interact with her as I said from the beginning, a warning. I'm even doing her a favor so they don't call her "Brooke" anymore, she doesn't like to be called like that. I wish someone had warned me because I'm always very careful about how to call people. But in this situation there was no way to do it, I just wanted to wish her happy birthday, but it all apparently turned out to be a big insult.

In everything I have written here I have not spit venom on anyone, I have not insulted or told lies. That's why I put all the evidence and everything as it is.

We consumers and followers don't have much voice when something bad happens to us, that's also why I did it. I hope this doesn't happen to anyone else.
I know stuff like this is controversial and a lot of people don't like it, it's something unpopular. You get to receive more negative comments and sarcasm than objective comments or reflective thoughts and for the same reason I thank FreeOnes_Adam for allowing me to express myself here.
I haven't written anything like this before either and I won't do it again, from this I learned things too.


But to finish and for all of us to chill ❄️ I will attach a phrase that Carmen herself posted on her Instagram:
[🤐 She should have remembered this before answering me, by the way 🤐]

 

[Torre82]

August is here.
How r you going to get yelled at, this year?

 

[ramonfreeones]

The funny thing about this is that she was the last model I had issues with, even Ashten [RIP] and a few others have put my greeting cards in their OF 🥳

And surprisingly a whole year has ****** since this, I practically didn't even remember if you don't revive this topic 🤯

I had simply been interacting with the wrong person, in this case, It was not my fault. Fin. 😇