Would You Share Your Wife?

First off. I have used the search but couldnt find anything satisfying, tho the one thread where one mate talks about his wife's offer for a FFM was nice. I know this type of stuff is dangerous and risky for a relationship but I dont want this thread to be about that.

Would you share your spouse? Share what turns you on about sharing your partner, and how. I know this might get pretty personal and uncomfotable but whatever - nobody here knows you, so dont hold back.

Personally, I got into thinking about this stuff with an ex of mine. We never actually did anything, but we had fantasized a lot on the phone. It firstly began with her admitting that she would like to give my brother a blowjob, while 3 of us were together at some place. "Only him, ok? Im no slut" shed say, but our thoughts went far. She conffessed about how she liked all these boys, and how shed enjoy me bringing over a couple and us gangbangin her. This got really tense as we would imagine ourselves as husband & wife. Later she would ask me "how would u think if I called ur brother at times and invited him over?" - she was practically asking me if she could fuck others while I wasnt there. On normal conditions I would outrage to such a question, but no, to be honest, I would LOVE her to invite guys to fuck her.

After a while I began calling her "my little slut" and she loved it. We even thought about stuff like me coming home from the job, yellin that im home and when she doesnt respond I go check the bedroom to find out shes fucking a guy (my brother, or one of my friends) on our bed intensely. During these times we found out about these websites where they do such scenes and we loved it! I would die to have her lie her head on my lap and hold her hand as another guy fucks her. Or even thinking of her being fucked by like 3 or 4 guys, dicks stuffed in her pussy ass and mouth, and me saying I love you when she loooks at me, only to hear her moan her response due to the cock in her mouth. Fuck, whats even better is imagining saying her that I love her while she is being rammed hard by another man, and she not even caring to respond and instead complimenting the guy fucking her. Or having her invite guys to gangbang her in our bedroom, and not allow me in, thus me having to stand outside the door, whacking off to her moans, and only seeing her once they re done as she comes out all tired and dirty with their jizz all over her face and body.

I guess I loved this notion of freedom in her. I loved the way she would ask stuff little by little, pretending as if shes not interested whereas shed actually be dying for it. For ex, she asked how would I think if she kissed and made love to a guy in front of me, I'd love it, so she got to confess that once she heard I was confortable with it. Btw shed hate FFM, and even tho that really turns me on, with this chick I would just be rock hard thinking of her such dirty fantasies. She was also into having nice long polished fingernails, and loved to suck, and have cum all over her, so these stuff only made it better.

I dunno how much I loved her as a girlfriend (not really much since I had more intimate relationships even as we were going out), but she truly turned me on in a way nobody ever could. Im getting hard even now thinking about all this. So if u got such stories/fantasies, post em, and nevermind the ethical view for this post =]
 

ChefChiTown

The secret ingredient? MY BALLS
I would never share my wife, ever. I know that there are people out there that are all about "open" relationships, but...fuck that. When I get married, I want my wife to be dedicated to me and only me, as I will be dedicated to her and only her.
 
I get mad enough having to share my g-friend with her gynecologist. I just never understood men who were into the whole "open relationship" bit. It just seems to go against biological imperative. I mean, the whole purpose, biologically speaking, of sex is to spread your seed and ensure that your bloodline continues. If your mate is out getting poked on by some other guy, then there is a chance that it's his bloodline getting continued... besides, I could never look my girlfriend in the eye again if I knew some other ape had his greasy mits on her.
 
in a heartbeat.

is that a yes, or no? and as ive said, please elaborate on what you would want to see her do

personally i would love that girl to be as slutty as possible, and I would love the appreciating look on guys as they gaze at her. I mite post her pics on the thread about posting exs/gfs, she may not be hot to everyone, but she turned me on big time
 
I couldnt see myself having an "open relationship". So no. I dont think so. Cant say I'm the most jealous guy around, hell I've even been told by my significant other that I am not, but I cant say I like the idea of another guy banging her in any of her orfices. Thanks, but no thanks. Though if that's your thing, rock on! Just not my pleasure so to speak.
 
Any husband who wants to stay married should never dance this dance. Its risky, dangerous business and has led to more misery than pleasure in the long run. If you want open sex... stay single. :2 cents:
 
Any husband who wants to stay married should never dance this dance. Its risky, dangerous business and has led to more misery than pleasure in the long run. If you want open sex... stay single. :2 cents:

I told in the opening that I am aware of that and I agree. Mine is only fantasies, but im looking forward to hearing more exciting ones, or maybe even real ones.

i want my wife to fuck 8 black dudes. then take on 4 mexicans. then finally, i want her to be killed. good enough for you?

LOL...chill out mate. you do whatever floats your boat, I didnt mean no offense there dont get me wrong. Im just saying I enjoy a particular type of stuff and am here to hear more from such people like me. No need to exaggerate stuff. In fact, tbh Im hoping its not just me who thinks this way =]
 
I can see the attraction in it as strictly fantasy, but would never consider actually doing it. In porn I always enjoy seeing girls who really love dick enough to be banged etc, but like everyone says, the fantasy and the reality are 2 very different things. My wife and I have discussed it only hypothetically, and we agreed that the only way a threesome could work without being damaging would be if it was with someone we could BOTH enjoy, therefore it would have to be a girl.
 
Nope. I believe that if I ever reach a point where I'd be willing to see my (hypothetical) wife doing another guy, I really should re-evaluate my relationship with her.
 
I get mad enough having to share my g-friend with her gynecologist. I just never understood men who were into the whole "open relationship" bit. It just seems to go against biological imperative. I mean, the whole purpose, biologically speaking, of sex is to spread your seed and ensure that your bloodline continues. If your mate is out getting poked on by some other guy, then there is a chance that it's his bloodline getting continued... besides, I could never look my girlfriend in the eye again if I knew some other ape had his greasy mits on her.

So you're saying it is better if the men just cheat, right? Since men are the ones (by far) who cheat. They don't seem to mind an "open relationship" for themselves, but not their women. Double standard, much?
 

BNF

Ex-SuperMod
She wouldn't be mine to share since I wouldn't own her.

If she needs to go that way, despite my protest, then the choice is hers - and the consequences too.
 
So you're saying it is better if the men just cheat, right? Since men are the ones (by far) who cheat. They don't seem to mind an "open relationship" for themselves, but not their women. Double standard, much?

I didn't necessarily read his post that way, but I can see how you might have considering how often the bogus (imo) "biological imperative" argument is used in an attempt to justify double standards.

As for the original question: No
 
No way. If I had a wife I would want her to be all mine. The thought of a friend's junk in my wife's vagina is not something that would turn me on, it would be a huge turnoff actually.
 
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