Wife Loves Porn... HELP

Hi Guys,

Not sure this is the right area but here goes....

I recently found out my wife has been surfing porn... Needless to say i find it very hot and want to help her find some more stuff. She showed me a video that was BDSM stuff, much hotter and kinkier than most of my choices. I think she was trying to gauge my reaction and approval, but she is still shy about it. I want to appear not to be an expert by stumbling on some fun tube sites. A few questions:

1: Please recommend some tube sites that have categories, including bdsm...
2: Please recommend some sites that are free from the redirects and popups about "call 1800 because your computer has a virus" I don't want her to get scared and stop.

Thanks for your help, I would love to keep her hot and looking for more stuff...
 

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Wow, guys I did not expect this. I am reaching out as a long time lurker looking for advice. Not bragging nor lying. She got into a pretty kinky mood when 50 shades came out, but has kept it pretty secretive from me except for a few occasions. By her history she is looking at stuff a few times a month and seems to close out when the popups get too bad. I think she is shy about it and I don't want to to come on too strong, but help her find more stuff. I'm worried about malware and viruses and evil looking popups and hoping to find some good tube sites that I may not already know. Hope to find some that actually host the vids to avoid dead links and redirects. Looking to safely nurture her curiosity and not have my computer get infected in the process..lol.

Thanks
 
It took 50 shades of crap for your wife to find a kinky side? Lame.

You're able to deduce at which pop up your wife closes the browser, experienced in hosted videos, redirects, malware and viruses. But can't find porn on the internet?

If you can't talk to your wife openly about these things, without the charade of "nurturing" her interests, finding porn etc etc, then your pretty much fucked.
 
It took 50 shades of crap for your wife to find a kinky side? Lame.

You're able to deduce at which pop up your wife closes the browser, experienced in hosted videos, redirects, malware and viruses. But can't find porn on the internet?

If you can't talk to your wife openly about these things, without the charade of "nurturing" her interests, finding porn etc etc, then your pretty much fucked.

Thanks that was helpful...

50 shades is lame, but it got her started, not sure why that is not believable?

I can find porn, i'm looking for more direct hosted sites that i can help her find. Just looking for some recommendations.

When i talk to her she gets shy and backs off. She was not raised to look at this, she feels kind of bad i think and is exploring on her own. If i push too hard it will make her uncomfortable, so maybe i am fucked, but hoping not.

Not sure why this topic is such a lighting magnet.
 
50 shades is lame, but it got her started, not sure why that is not believable?

It's believable to me. It may seem "lame" to guys who are such hardened (no pun intended) porn consumers they routinely need to up the ante in terms of extremity to find their thrill. But I know a bunch of women who found 50 shades very erotic, and some were surprised at how much so.

I remember discussing this sort of thing once before when some other guy was asking what directors made porn movies that tended to appeal to women. I mentioned Andrew Blake and of course a number of regulars dismissed him as "lame" as well. But the fact is he does make movies that tend to appeal more to women than most directors.

I'd suggest starting her off with a Blake movie... most of which do include bondage as a theme. Possibly "Night Trips". Go rent one on DVD rather than watching it on a tube site. His movies are also very high quality aesthetically which tends to appeal to women but can of course can get lost watching tube sites. If it turns out that's too mild for her well you can always up the ante the next time.
 
Thanjs, she would probably feel a bit weird about the DVD stuff, I think if she does in online when I'm not home it feels more private to her. I'm planning on leaving some links open and see if she explores some more. Like I said she is shy and secretive about it and it may take a while to get her more comfortable.
 
I knew my wife loved porn before we started dating.

You and I are similar in that she got me into more stuff that I probably would have on my own. Stuff like rough lesbo, bondage etc.

I'd say let her explore and show you what she likes and after awhile then show her what you want to do/watch.

Have fun!
 
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