Who is more secretive?

[ajitpd]

I your opinion/experience who is more secretive, men or women?

If you reveal your gender along with the answer, it would be more convenient to understand your perspective.

If you ask me, I'd say women.

Yes, I am a male.

 

[Dawn]

I would say men.

Men aren't speaking about many things about themselves in general while women do.

I am male.

 

[assholebythedoor]

woman because they have to be unless they don't want to, woman have choices. Its not woman are hard to talk to. Sometimes they are bothered or busy trying to figure there selves out. Any how ever you say, it depends on who they are.

 

[calpoon]

I can't understand anything you say middlefinger.

I'd say men intentionally conceal the truth more. But women omit far more information and expect everyone (men) to instinctively know it without it being said.

 

[Embryoyo]

women omit far more information and expect everyone (men) to instinctively know it without it being said.

Truth. The answer is men though. I personally never hold anything back from anyone, but as a species in whole [in general], I've found males to be much less social than women about things.

 

[assholebythedoor]

It's more of how you were raised, you couldn't say men or woman because every individual is different. Gender has nothing to do with it. Only the situations change when your talking to a woman or a man.

 

[ajitpd]

I'd say men intentionally conceal the truth more. But women omit far more information and expect everyone (men) to instinctively know it without it being said.

Although, I don't completely agree with this but it is very well-said.

 

[YMIHERE]

I would tell you but its a secret.

 

[LBP 76]

It's nothing to do with sex.

Some men are. Some women are.

 

[Petra]

I'd say women. We tend to have those hidden agendas, after all. :1orglaugh Men are rarely intentionally secretive, they're just.....men.

 

[LBP 76]

I'd say women. We tend to have those hidden agendas, after all. :1orglaugh Men are rarely intentionally secretive, they're just.....men.

Ever heard of a little thing called 'politics'?

 

[Petra]

Ever heard of a little thing called 'politics'?

I don't classify politicians as human beings so they don't qualify for this discussion.

 

[Lacey Black]

I think it depends on the person.. Personally I have known some very secretive Men and Women

 

[hiropro]

It all depends on the subject matter.Us blokes tend to be more reserved in talking about stuff(except sport,booze and all you fine ladies out there)

 

[ajitpd]

I'd say women. We tend to have those hidden agendas, after all. :1orglaugh Men are rarely intentionally secretive, they're just.....men.

I kinda agree on that one. But not sure about agendas. I'd say sometimes women unnecessarily tend to hide things which makes life a bit more complicated for their oved ones. :2 cents:

 

[ChefChiTown]

Men and women are both secretive, just in different ways.

Things that men are secretive about...

Where they really went last night, their penis size, their income, etc.

Things that women are secretive about...

Age, weight, number of sexual partner that they've really been with, etc.

 

[GabberMan]

I think that tradition dictates that men are more likely to be the fantasists and fetishists but recent studies suggest otherwise. I think men are told by society that they SHOULD be secretive and have fantasies. Whereas women are told to be OPEN to their female friends and NOT have fantasies.

Sorry people. Looks like we're all the same again.

 

[Galactic]

I am a male......I'd have to say it probably is split pretty evenly. I think everyone has something to hide, or something they don't just bring up and talk about openly.

 

[D-rock]

I would say women and it's not even close. Men might not talk as much, but that's more because they just don't care about things enough to bother with it. With a lot of women you need to be either psychic or have a secret decoding device just to figure out what they are feeling or thinking. With men it’s just too much effort to hide the way they feel 90%+ of the time.

 

[Ashleigh]

Women.

Men are usually too simple to make the effort to keep things a secret...unless its like infidelity or some shit. lol