When women refer to themselves as "MILF"s..

[JaanaRuutu]

I've always thought being considered a MILF was something that one "earned", but when I started being more active in the adult world I noticed a lot of women just use it to label themselves, even though one someone says "I'm a MILF!" they're saying "I'm a mom I'd like to fuck!"..which is just silly to me.

What are your thoughts?

 

[squallumz]

the term has no real meaning anymore.

1) any girl that has a kid could be referred to as a MILF based on technicality alone. i like this one.
2) any performer who seems to be more than 30 seems to be coined a MILF. lets changed Mother to More Mature Female?
3) then there's the random times when someone called aurora snow a MILF at like age 24 and shit. come on.
4) the content owner rolls a 20 sided die for each girl. when it comes up as a 1, they are called a MILF for that set. any other number puts you at "teen."


as for referring to yourselves as one goes.. i guess if you're trying to sell yourself into that niche that works. it makes sense at least. but..normal people saying it? yeah.. i hear what you're saying.

it should be im a MYou'dLF. or something...

 

[Jane Burgess]

I think it's a disrespectful term.

 

[Mr. Daystar]

The term has become less meaningful. I look at it like this...

A MILF HAS to be over 30, and have at least one child, and still be hot. Any 20 year old can have a child, but to have 1 or 2, and still maintain a nice body and looks after all of the work in takes to be a mom, and raise children, for another 10 years...that takes work.

A cougar has to be at least 35, and have been married, then divorced, and actively seeking meaningless sex with men no older then 25, on a regular basis. A cougar can be a MILF, that has grown children that are in collage, or left home, and be in her 40's or 50's

A woman in her 40s, or 50's that isn't a MILF, could be called mature, and may or may not be a cougar.

As far as the porn world goes...who in the fuck know what those numbnuts are doing.

 

[JasonCook78]

The term has become less meaningful. I look at it like this...

A MILF HAS to be over 30, and have at least one child, and still be hot. Any 20 year old can have a child, but to have 1 or 2, and still maintain a nice body and looks after all of the work in takes to be a mom, and raise children, for another 10 years...that takes work.

A cougar has to be at least 35, and have been married, then divorced, and actively seeking meaningless sex with men no older then 25, on a regular basis. A cougar can be a MILF, that has grown children that are in collage, or left home, and be in her 40's or 50's

A woman in her 40s, or 50's that isn't a MILF, could be called mature, and may or may not be a cougar.

As far as the porn world goes...who in the fuck know what those numbnuts are doing.

^ This makes the most sense to me.

 

[vodkazvictim]

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[squallumz]

I'm a sheep.
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:1orglaugh

 

[sexyjgirl]

I've always thought being considered a MILF was something that one "earned", but when I started being more active in the adult world I noticed a lot of women just use it to label themselves, even though one someone says "I'm a MILF!" they're saying "I'm a mom I'd like to fuck!"..which is just silly to me.

What are your thoughts?

I agree completely! Okay, I'm a mom, but I don't know if someone other than my significant other wants to fuck me - heck, sometimes I wonder if he really does... Women should not refer to themselves as MILFs because they really don't know. It is presumptuous and downright arrogant for a woman to call herself a MILF. I mean, really, how many of you guys would call yourselves DILFs?

 

[bigwarmload]

The term has become less meaningful. I look at it like this... A MILF HAS to be over 30, and have at least one child, and still be hot. Any 20 year old can have a child, but to have 1 or 2, and still maintain a nice body and looks after all of the work in takes to be a mom, and raise children, for another 10 years...that takes work. A cougar has to be at least 35, and have been married, then divorced, and actively seeking meaningless sex with men no older then 25, on a regular basis. A cougar can be a MILF, that has grown children that are in collage, or left home, and be in her 40's or 50's A woman in her 40s, or 50's that isn't a MILF, could be called mature, and may or may not be a cougar.

Good synopsis. We should just learn to love them all: MILFs, GILFs, FILFs, HRWIGSILTF, Cougars, WILF, SILF, etc...

I agree completely! Okay, I'm a mom, but I don't know if someone other than my significant other wants to fuck me - heck, sometimes I wonder if he really does... Women should not refer to themselves as MILFs because they really don't know. It is presumptuous and downright arrogant for a woman to call herself a MILF. I mean, really, how many of you guys would call yourselves DILFs?

Good points as well. Lets meet, we can test the theory of "someone", then you will know.

 

[Roald]

Jane Burgess[/URL][/B], post: 7339095, member: 201847"]I think it's a disrespectful term.

Why exactly?

 

[SabrinaDeep]

I agree completely! Okay, I'm a mom, but I don't know if someone other than my significant other wants to fuck me - heck, sometimes I wonder if he really does... Women should not refer to themselves as MILFs because they really don't know. It is presumptuous and downright arrogant for a woman to call herself a MILF. I mean, really, how many of you guys would call yourselves DILFs?

In porn is hard not to call yourself a MILF if that is how ppl see you; and sometimes, even when they don't see you like that you need to find a niche for yourself and the choice goes there.
I'm not considered a MILF in the industry yet, but i start being approached with offers for MILF kind of shootings; the funny thing is that i'm not a mother yet and that this year i will turn 35, ending in theory my eligibility as a MILF.
So, i say that MILF today is nothing more than a mere niche to stimulate fantasies of buyers. Think of Lisa Ann: she is 40 and i don't know if she has children, but i don't think so and in any case it would be irrelevant about her MILF status in the industry.

 

[sexyjgirl]

In porn is hard not to call yourself a MILF if that is how ppl see you; and sometimes, even when they don't see you like that you need to find a niche for yourself and the choice goes there.
I'm not considered a MILF in the industry yet, but i start being approached with offers for MILF kind of shootings; the funny thing is that i'm not a mother yet and that this year i will turn 35, ending in theory my eligibility as a MILF.
So, i say that MILF today is nothing more than a mere niche to stimulate fantasies of buyers. Think of Lisa Ann: she is 40 and i don't know if she has children, but i don't think so and in any case it would be irrelevant about her MILF status in the industry.

I guess I was just thinking of it from my own standpoint and not from the point of view of someone in the business. Yes, porn is really fantasy and I can see your point that the term MILF is just a niche for the benefit of the buyers. It really doesn't matter if the woman has children or not - she's of that age and that's all that matters. I'm sorry to all you girls who I called arrogant and presumptuous. Duh! I wasn't thinking...

 

[SabrinaDeep]

I guess I was just thinking of it from my own standpoint and not from the point of view of someone in the business. Yes, porn is really fantasy and I can see your point that the term MILF is just a niche for the benefit of the buyers. It really doesn't matter if the woman has children or not - she's of that age and that's all that matters. I'm sorry to all you girls who I called arrogant and presumptuous. Duh! I wasn't thinking...

Oh no worries I thought i've got it that you were talking in general and no pun was taken at all.
In fact in general i agree with you that calling yourself a MILF equals to presumptuously assume that you're hot, while the judgement should be left to others.
I just wanted to explain how the term MILF works in our industry.

 

[ban-one]

It's not right for a woman to just up and say she's a MILF. It's entirely subjective to the person looking at her, but also requires the woman to be a mother in the first place. The only way to use it for yourself would be to qualify it with that you've been called it or referred to as such.

But half the time I don't pay much attention to things like MILF, mature, or cougar, because more often than not, it's false. I've seen girls who were like 25 labled as 'mature' or 'cougar,' and girls who haven't had one kid called a MILF, which is impossible as she isn't a mother.

in my book, MILF is just that, a mom/mother I'd like to fuck because despite having atleast 1 kid, she still looks like she hasn't (or close to it)
mature to me is like 45+, though that minimum age range keeps going up as I get older
cougars to me are like in their late 40s or older, and looking to have sex with much younger guys, like 18-25 or so

and any 1 girl can fall into more than 1 category, just as long as she meets the basic criteria in my mind

 

[Little Red Wagon Repairman]

How old does a broad get when she can't look into the mirror and call herself a Cougar with a serious face anymore? If we as fellas offer her cock does that make us hyenas scavenging at something that's practically dead?

 

[bigwarmload]

The only way to use it for yourself would be to qualify it with that you've been called it or referred to as such.

:boobies: PAPERS! I NEED PAPERS! SHOW ME YOUR PAPERS!

 

[too fast]

I feel people should give you the term MILF and for some it is considered an honor.

 

[assari]

Correction; Mywtf

 

[bobjustbob]

Leading man, action hero, evil villain, it's all the same. Take it and run with it.

 

[ban-one]

:boobies: PAPERS! I NEED PAPERS! SHOW ME YOUR PAPERS!

And what papers might those be?