What your lover no longer does now that you've been married to/with them awhile ...

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After Saint's return and his post of the thread Do You Know What I Miss?:
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I've still been thinking about things. I thought I'd come up with a poll for those men (and women) who have been with the same lover for a few years. You can look at this as a poll "what you miss" or even ""why you cheat" or whatever you want. Just curious what most men (and women) miss in their longer-term love affairs.

Check all that apply:
- I just don't like one lover, and no fantasy will solve that
- I like chasing my lover, and my lover doesn't bother anymore
- My lover won't notice me if TV/computer, and is bothered if I get in front of it
- My lover doesn't bother with lingerie, sexy underwear or other clothes anymore
- My lover doesn't give enticing poses/dances or other visual woo's anymore
- My lover doesn't get wet (hard) like they used to
- My lover doesn't like to kiss as much, jumps right into it too much
- My lover doesn't like to bother with foreplay, or sees it as a bother/limits it
- My lover doesn't care if I get off, only if my they do
- My lover doesn't cuddle anymore, they are gone as soon as they get off