What should Crissy Moran do?

[McRocket]

As some of you know, Crissy Moran quit 'porn' for Christianity.

However, if you read her MySpace page http://www.myspace.com/yourfriendcrissy. she sounds not amazingly happy (though not amazingly unhappy either) and rather hardup for money.

So if she came to you and asked you what should she do, what advice would you give her?

 

[poggy]

Welcome back McRocket :eek: :wave: :thumbsup:


Sorry just had to say that. As that the only reason I've posted here :o

As I've never followed Crissy so wouldn't know sorry!

 

[Licker696969]

Come on guys! This is her decision.

What we think she must do/ what we like her to do / what she is going to do... It all doesn't matter. It is still her decision!

Everybody say christians judge...,We will judge her by voting in this poll...

Why should we vote on her decision...? It is not going to change anything...

 

[McRocket]

Come on guys! This is her decision.

What we think she must do/ what we like her to do / what she is going to do... It all doesn't matter. It is still her decision!

Everybody say christians judge...,We will judge her by voting in this poll...

Why should we vote on her decision...? It is not going to change anything...

The question was what advice would you give her were she to ask you. I see nothing harmful about that.

Obviously you do. Fair enough.

Quite frankly, I think she went too far. And I think - from what I have read on her My Space site (and I have read all her posts) - that she doesn't sound very happy now. And frankly, except for her new boyfriend, she sounds rather unhappy, to me.
I greatly admire her for quitting porn and taking a stand.
But I also think she did the old 'threw-the-baby-out-with-the-bath-water' thingy.
She could have just retired and continued to monitor and run her site and retain the profits from it. She also could have removed all videos and photos from it that were of a pornographic nature. All that would be left would be of her in various states of undress. No toy insertions and no 'pink' shots. Just her - at worst - nude. Nudity is not pornography, imo.
She could have continued to make a living (instead of being broke which she seems to be now). She could continue to teach members about the pitfalls of pornography. And she still could have been a Christian.
What if she wants a family one day? Just think of all the money that she could have made that she could pass on to them?

It is her life and I honestly have much more respect for her now then when she was in the industry.

But judging from her MySpace entries, it sounds like she went too far and is unhappy.

I think she could have done more good for herself, her future and for the pornographic community if she had stayed on in a 'cleaned up' capacity.

But, she has made her decision and I wish her well.

 

[jumbo_jim]

She should regain control of her site so she can profit from her previous work.

 

[Clarkie25]

she should do whatever she wants to do and what makes her happy.

 

[BNF]

she should do whatever she wants to do and what makes her happy.

It would make me very happy if she went right back to what she was doing. :2 cents:

It's up to her and I've got no influence, so I have no opinion at all on what she should do.

 

[Calm]

Where is the "Do interracial gangbangs" option?

 

[Ax3C]

I spoke with her the other night after I e-mailed her about Michael's passing and she sounded quite content and happy to me ... aside from being dismayed and shocked regarding our friend's passing. We spoke of our friend's life and the choices he made. We talked about her blogs and her faith ... and she is quite happy. And I'm happy for her ...

I don't think it's really fair or necessary for us to sit here and toss conjecture back and forth about HER life.

She made a choice that fit within her own personal desires and goals. Who are we to decide what's best for her just because we enjoy seeing her "nekkid"???

Let the woman be. She's of age and if this new path makes her happy (regardless of whether or not she "seems" happy by the tone of her blog entries and by our own interpretations) then so be it ... it's HER choice, not ours.

Quite frankly, I'm extremely supportive of her decision. She's a wonderful person, as I've discovered, and just as beautiful on the inside as the outside. I wish her all the best in the world and I truly hope that her faith continues to grow and that she continues to write about her new path and her new life.

No one here on this Board, posting all agape and wild-eyed in her threads, has lived the life she has. I think it's rather presumptuous of us to sit here and arbitrarily decide her "fate", as it were.

Leave her be. Let Cristina do what she feels she must for herself. If this is what she wants to do, then who are we to sit in judgment of her?

:2 cents: :hatsoff:

 

[sputnikgirl]

I don't have that much sympathy for her financial situation. There have been plenty of people who've made their money, gotten out of the industry, and have provided their families with a modest lifestyle. At the very least, she could take out student loans and pay for an education....she could be a nurse or another occupation that doesn't take 4 years. Or she could be a motivational speaker.

I wouldn't advise her to go back to porn. That would be career suicide, because she'd be ridiculed as a hypocrite. Not to mention a huge let-down to all the people she's "saved" from the industry. If she's unhappy, hopefully she gets the help she needs. But I really don't feel sympathy for her situation. It seems like a pretty ill-conceived plan to me.

 

[McRocket]

I spoke with her the other night after I e-mailed her about Michael's passing and she sounded quite content and happy to me ... aside from being dismayed and shocked regarding our friend's passing. We spoke of our friend's life and the choices he made. We talked about her blogs and her faith ... and she is quite happy. And I'm happy for her ...

I don't think it's really fair or necessary for us to sit here and toss conjecture back and forth about HER life.

She made a choice that fit within her own personal desires and goals. Who are we to decide what's best for her just because we enjoy seeing her "nekkid"???

Let the woman be. She's of age and if this new path makes her happy (regardless of whether or not she "seems" happy by the tone of her blog entries and by our own interpretations) then so be it ... it's HER choice, not ours.

Quite frankly, I'm extremely supportive of her decision. She's a wonderful person, as I've discovered, and just as beautiful on the inside as the outside. I wish her all the best in the world and I truly hope that her faith continues to grow and that she continues to write about her new path and her new life.

No one here on this Board, posting all agape and wild-eyed in her threads, has lived the life she has. I think it's rather presumptuous of us to sit here and arbitrarily decide her "fate", as it were.

Leave her be. Let Cristina do what she feels she must for herself. If this is what she wants to do, then who are we to sit in judgment of her?

:2 cents: :hatsoff:

You make it sound like what we decide here is what she is going to do.

She was a porn star that openly coveted monies and conversation from members of this board (which is fine). She came on here many, many times and talked about her life and about others as well.
Now we are not allowed to ever discuss her decision(s) or offer sincere suggestions ever again simply because she left behind what many on here still utilize?
Besides, I sense only sincerity (other then a joke here or there) from the responses so far. And no cruelty, disrespect or insults of any kind. Just sincere advice.
I see absolutely nothing wrong with that.

And I would hope for the same if the person in question was me.

 

[Ax3C]

You make it sound like what we decide here is what she is going to do.

I can suggest anything about anyone publicly, whenever I wish. Just as they can about me.
She was a porn star that openly asked for money from the public. She openly coveted monies and conversation from members of this board (which is fine). She came on here many, many times and talked about her life and about others as well.
Now we are not allowed to ever discuss or pass judgment on her decision(s) ever again simply because she left behind what many on here still utilize?
Besides, I sense only sincerity (other then a joke here or there) from the responses so far. And no cruelty, disrespect or insults of any kind. Just sincere advice.
I see absolutely nothing wrong with that.

Play nice, McRocket.

Don't pick apart my post and imply something that cannot be directly attributed to me. You created this poll and solicited opinions from the member constituency. I merely posted my opinion of how you worded your initial post and some of the subsequent replies.

Did I "forbid" anyone from speaking about her decision??? If so, please tell me where I said this.

What I DID say was this:

I don't think it's really fair or necessary for us to sit here and toss conjecture back and forth about HER life.

If she so chooses to ask for help from others - and they give it to her of THEIR own volition and choice - who are you and any of the others to pass judgment on HER??? She merely asked for help because SHE WAS STARTING A NEW LIFE. It's not like she was deceiving anyone ... she gave a full accounting of where every last red cent was going. And ... she hasn't asked for anything else since then. She's gainfully employed in the legal industry and last time I checked, she was quite happy and was beginning to finally realize some financial stabilization.

Shit, man ... be happy for her.

She openly coveted monies and conversation from members of this board.

Please tell me WHEN she came on FreeOnes and asked for money, McRocket. You need to back the hell up and re-state this sentence, because it's a damned lie. She asked for help ONLY on MySpace in her blogs. You stepped over the line on that one sentence. And I WILL call you out on it, too.

Fuck me, I commend her for having the courage to swallow selfish pride, admit that she needed help, and put herself out there and be subjected to criticism and ridicule, and all manner of fucking bullshit from people. It tales a mighty strong and courageous person to ask for help. At least SHE asked for help, unlike our now deceased mutual friend.

If a friend needed my help, I would gladly give whatever, be it money, time, love, food, shelter, clothing, et. al., to help them out. Help others to help themselves, my old friend.

Regardless of what you personally may think, it's not up to you, me, or anyone else to wonder or speculate why she should or should not do something. You have no right to do that. Nor does anyone else. She is her own woman and quite capable of making her own decisions.

Enough. Know what I mean? She's left the business for good for all we know. And I'm happy for her. Why even ruminate on the what if's, what could be's, and what should've been's? :dunno: It's pointless.






My God ... I even sound like him now.

 

[Undertaker]

i voted "Go right back to what she was doing before." Because she's a looker but she should do whatever the fuck she wants to do

 

[member006]

It didn't take long to get the blood flowing in here I see.

Everyone that knows me at all here already knows my answer. I'm not in the position, nor do I feel anyone else is to give even an opinion. Like everything in this life there are many things no one is aware of that have to be included into making this decision. If anyone thinks she is telling all pertinent personal information on MySpace or to "net friends" I think it should be rethought. She is a person just like us, with friends and family in her life daily. People that put their arms around her shoulder and take meals with her. I think that's where the "whole" situation is being discussed and will be decided. Sorry, I just strongly feel that "personal" is just that.

A life changing decision is very personal if you are a porn star or a WalMart checker. Let her have her space and time to straighten things out with the help of those with her, making her decision when she is ready. I know it doesn't matter what I or anyone thinks, so I didn't vote. Sorry.

LL

 

[Calm]

Come on guys! This is her decision.

What we think she must do/ what we like her to do / what she is going to do... It all doesn't matter. It is still her decision!

Everybody say christians judge...,We will judge her by voting in this poll...

Why should we vote on her decision...? It is not going to change anything...

I'm so sick of this politically correct bullshit. Well no shit this is her decision, I really thought that this poll will give me the option to control her life and make decisions for her. Heck, this isn't "Be Crissy Moran".

It's only human to gossip about people, especially stars who now have problems. Crissy's had a good life, she was earning good money from porn, she's been beautiful for her entire life (we know that opens up A LOT of doors for you) and, judging by you saying she sounds unhappy NOW, she was happy, and maybe still is. Happy, rich and good-looking, I'm neither of those (probably why I'm so bitter). So I'm sorry if I don't sit here and shed a tear for her misfortune.

Crissy's life is not why I posted though, I posted because it's sickening to see so many people afraid or unwilling to post their opinion in order to be politically correct. What happened to freedom of speech? If I can't write down my opinions on the internet, under total obscurity, then where can I?
And when someone actually decides to post their own opinion they have to add "but this is her decision" or "just my 2 cents" as if anyone would reply you could simply take it back and not have to face with the consequences of your opinion.
People should have opinions and opinions should offend people at times.

P.S.
I express myself using bitterness and sarcasm and it's not meant to offend anyone personally so if you reply don't focus on that or the fact I used the S word.

 

[angelfire1972]

It's all OK Crissy...

 

[member006]

I'm so sick of this politically correct bullshit. Well no shit this is her decision, I really thought that this poll will give me the option to control her life and make decisions for her. Heck, this isn't "Be Crissy Moran".

It's only human to gossip about people, especially stars who now have problems. Crissy's had a good life, she was earning good money from porn, she's been beautiful for her entire life (we know that opens up A LOT of doors for you) and, judging by you saying she sounds unhappy NOW, she was happy, and maybe still is. Happy, rich and good-looking, I'm neither of those (probably why I'm so bitter). So I'm sorry if I don't sit here and shed a tear for her misfortune.

Crissy's life is not why I posted though, I posted because it's sickening to see so many people afraid or unwilling to post their opinion in order to be politically correct. What happened to freedom of speech? If I can't write down my opinions on the internet, under total obscurity, then where can I?
And when someone actually decides to post their own opinion they have to add "but this is her decision" or "just my 2 cents" as if anyone would reply you could simply take it back and not have to face with the consequences of your opinion.
People should have opinions and opinions should offend people at times.

P.S.
I express myself using bitterness and sarcasm and it's not meant to offend anyone personally so if you reply don't focus on that or the fact I used the S word.

First off I don't feel your post was just at me, at least I hope not, but I do feel the need to answer it though. I for one only voice my "opinion" at any given time. What I write is what I'm feeling. If it sounds "cautious" it only sounds that way. Believe that, shy I'm not. I have rock and rolled with the best of them here. I won't apologize for "not wanting" to gossip about someone I don't know. It's part of who I am. I simply don't have enough information to form any opinion on the situation. I don't know the woman. :dunno: Finances and life altering decisions are a personal thing to me, so that was my opinion and answer. I just feel that way.

I won't address the "freedom of speech" comment at all, I've already addressed that here.

LL

 

[Ax3C]

First off I don't feel your post was just at me, at least I hope not, but I do feel the need to answer it though. I for one only voice my "opinion" at any given time. What I write is what I'm feeling. If it sounds "cautious" it only sounds that way. Believe that, shy I'm not. I have rock and rolled with the best of them here. I won't apologize for "not wanting" to gossip about someone I don't know. It's part of who I am. I simply don't have enough information to form any opinion on the situation. I don't know the woman. :dunno: Finances and life altering decisions are a personal thing to me, so that was my opinion and answer. I just feel that way.

I won't address the "freedom of speech" comment at all, I've already addressed that here.

LL

Say it loud, LadyLove ... say it loud and proud. :hatsoff:

 

[bigbadbrody]

Crissy should have some totally hot and steamy HLA

 

[Stevie]

Crissy should have some totally hot and steamy HLA

I like that. Her one and only scene/shoot I cared for was at Lesbian Teen Hunter with Lisa Daniels.

Other than that, she was just another girl taking her clothes off in front of the camera; doing poor hardcore shoots every once in a while. With an annoying voice at that. But hey, like everything else in porn, for every 1 that dislikes something, 2 more enjoy it.

Now, I clicked into her MySpace, but the wording of "God", in what looks like every optional space, bothered me a bit.