Watching a porn w/out masturbation = Longer or shorter sex later?

[doggystylz84]

I watch a lot porn when my wife isn’t around or just not in the room but I prefer to not jack off unless it’s an necessity (ie 3+ days without sex). This way, I still have the desire to eff my wife since im not blowing my load to porn all the time.

My question is, would this make you last longer in the sack or shorter? It seems like the answer must be shorter since I’m watching porn, getting all worked up but there’s no pay off. Im getting a boner on and off all day and then the time comes to finally have sex, im ready to bust a nut in 1 second. Lol

Thoughts?

 

[~~whimsy~~]

To eff my wife? That's funny.

I'm getting a boner on and off all day.

Bust a nut in 1 second.

:1orglaugh :hatsoff:

 

[Skyraider22]

I watch a lot porn when my wife isn’t around or just not in the room but I prefer to not jack off unless it’s an necessity (ie 3+ days without sex). This way, I still have the desire to eff my wife since im not blowing my load to porn all the time.

My question is, would this make you last longer in the sack or shorter? It seems like the answer must be shorter since I’m watching porn, getting all worked up but there’s no pay off. Im getting a boner on and off all day and then the time comes to finally have sex, im ready to bust a nut in 1 second. Lol

Thoughts?

I heard you should rub one out before sex it makes you last longer but there are so many hints and tips out there I would not know which one to use.Me personally I look at a lot of porn as well and still jack off a lot but I still have that desire for my wife I guess different strokes for different folks No pun intended

 

[STDiva]

It's all mental. If your mind is into it, You Might as well be jerking off.

 

[KimoraKlein]

It might be BS, but I always hear male talent talking about how they 'save up' loads by not jerking off and popping for a few days before. That's more cum-amount specific -- as for actual sex duration, I'm not sure.

 

[No_Man]

It might speed things up in the short term, but it probably lengthens it in the long term. Frequent, quick masturbation has been linked to premature ejaculation in a lot of men. The body gets so used to popping at the first sign of arousal that it loses control quickly during sex. So while you're building up a lot of sexual tension that will need to be released, you're also training your body not to consider simple arousal to be a trigger for orgasm.

 

[lechepicha]

I always hear male talent talking about how they 'save up' loads by not jerking off and popping for a few days before. That's more cum-amount specific

couldn't agree more :hatsoff:

to answer the question of the thread: LONGER sex later, in my case.

 

[Wainkerr99]

It might speed things up in the short term, but it probably lengthens it in the long term. Frequent, quick masturbation has been linked to premature ejaculation in a lot of men. The body gets so used to popping at the first sign of arousal that it loses control quickly during sex. So while you're building up a lot of sexual tension that will need to be released, you're also training your body not to consider simple arousal to be a trigger for orgasm.

What he said.

In any case, even if you do orgasm sooner that time, what is to prevent you from regaining an erection after, say, half an hour? In the meantime, you could have foreplay. It doesn't have to be a routine event. I read somewhere Sting and his wife used to tease each other for days on end. It made sex more exciting when they eventually did do it.

Kudos to you if you do hold out. Who knows, maybe eventually you'll watch less porn on your own.

 

[Hot Mega]

Is strictly a matter of whether or not your adrenals and testes are in good enough shape to continue to produce testosterone...period.

You can whack your noodle 2, 3 or 4 times before sex if you have not overworked your adrenals and testes....

Nutrition and stress are the keys in terms of whether your adrenals and testes produce lower, enough to more than enough testosterone.

Long story short, stay hydrated and eat foods like yogurt, bananas, celery, nuts, etc that promote hormone regulation and production and you most likely won't have to worry about whether or not to rub on off.

 

[doggystylz84]

Great answers people! I'll add a bit more.

It's not that i'll LOSE my desire for sex if I jerk off, especially if its been awhile, but if I wait, im ready to bend her over a soon as i see she her instead of calming waiting for bedtime. :tongue: Also, I can easily last another round after a 30mins to a hour since im 25. But understandably, after she knows ive blow the first load, she's not as into it the second time since she think im not as into it....and im not after 5 years. lol. When we first met i would do 2, 3 rounds a day.

Sometimes is nice to bust a secret nut a few hours before we have sex but i usually don't have enough privacy for a long jerk off session and i don't want a quickie since it leads to premature ejaculation.

 

[Lonilover]

Not a problem for me dude, i can jerk off on porn and do my woman afterwards (or before that) as well. just only need some time in between

 

[Spleen]

Not a problem for me either. Masturbating over porn just seems to make me want sex even more.

 

[tiger1977]

My question is, would this make you last longer in the sack or shorter?

To answer your question, yes, yes it does.

 

[Smallville417]

I believe longer. I still prefer not to jack off before sex with my girlfriend though.

 

[Doc Scurlock]

It might be BS, but I always hear male talent talking about how they 'save up' loads by not jerking off and popping for a few days before. That's more cum-amount specific -- as for actual sex duration, I'm not sure.

That's true, if you don't whack for say a week then you'll have a nice sexy time explosion but you won't last very long simply because it needs to come out one way or another.