There's just "something" about her?

Legzman

what the fuck you lookin at?
Guy's you know what I'm talking about. Or should. You know some chick your talking to about really anything at all. And she's not traditionally hot by your normal standards. But there is "just something" about her? What the fuck is it? She's cute to be sure, but beyond that nothing that really stands out that would normally have you drooling over her.

Ladies feel free to chime in. Maybe you've had the same kinda thing with some guy you know or used to talk to or whatever.

I'm not talking deep conversations. Just some chick you recently met, who's at least kinda cute. Not flirty talk or anything. Am I making any sense? I know what I'm trying to say. Maybe someone can say it better. But seriously I wanna know what the fuck this "something" is???
 
It's probably some fucked up idea about her reminding you of your mother, and every guy subconsciously wants a woman like their mother. :dunno:
 
Guy's you know what I'm talking about. Or should. You know some chick your talking to about really anything at all. And she's not traditionally hot by your normal standards. But there is "just something" about her? What the fuck is it? She's cute to be sure, but beyond that nothing that really stands out that would normally have you drooling over her.

Ladies feel free to chime in. Maybe you've had the same kinda thing with some guy you know or used to talk to or whatever.

I'm not talking deep conversations. Just some chick you recently met, who's at least kinda cute. Not flirty talk or anything. Am I making any sense? I know what I'm trying to say. Maybe someone can say it better. But seriously I wanna know what the fuck this "something" is???

I know exactly what you're saying. "Experts" try to explain attraction by body type, facial symmetry, pheromones, etc. I tend to think that's mostly bullshit.

The thing is, societies tend to have a general idea of what "beauty" is. Big boobs, thin waist, long blonde hair, etc. So we all kind of buy into that and think that we're odd when we find somebody outside of that mold attractive.

Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder. We just forget that it's a personal preference.
 
It's probably partly due to the fact - as you say - that you can have these conversations about anything with her and that you both feel comfortable in doing so and get along because of it.

Personality is a big deal and to find someone who is compatible "personality wise" is a source of attraction.
 
I felt the same way about a girl that had a smile like Hines Ward.

I couldn't pinpoint it at first but then when I saw Ward smile I was "Like oh Shit, I'm kinda gay for that"
 

jod0565

Member, you member...
I've often confused "there's something about her" with - she was nice to me.
 
Whenever I'm faced with a sitch like this---becoming infatuated with a nice girl--I just pause for a moment and ponder if she'll take it in the ass. If I conclude she will, then I pursue her....:dunno:

Try that technique!
 

Legzman

what the fuck you lookin at?
I know exactly what you're saying. "Experts" try to explain attraction by body type, facial symmetry, pheromones, etc. I tend to think that's mostly bullshit.

The thing is, societies tend to have a general idea of what "beauty" is. Big boobs, thin waist, long blonde hair, etc. So we all kind of buy into that and think that we're odd when we find somebody outside of that mold attractive.

Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder. We just forget that it's a personal preference.

Make sense.

It's probably partly due to the fact - as you say - that you can have these conversations about anything with her and that you both feel comfortable in doing so and get along because of it.

Personality is a big deal and to find someone who is compatible "personality wise" is a source of attraction.

She was a customer of mine, just a few random sentences the couple times I delivered to her. Not nearly enough for either of us to determine personality.

I think you were infatuated with her big knockers my friend...:hatsoff:

She has very small tits actually. As for her legs I can't tell since she wore sweat pants. Great ass though! Cute, asian. But none of that is what it is. I've dealt with all those combination before. I really can't put my finger on it.
 
Used to work with a girl that I wasn't all that attracted to physically. But we could really have some deep conversations. Real meaningful stuff. And we had had a lot in common too. I was mostly attracted to her intellectual side. We never dated, flirted mostly. I don't know if either of us were really interested in a relationship at the time.
 

L3ggy

Special Operations FOX-HOUND
Maybe she is the one?
 
Maybe she is the one?

Nah. I don't think so. Nice girl and I really liked her, but it wasn't love. I think I met "the one" already. Didn't get her when I had the chance. Oh well. Life goes on.
 

L3ggy

Special Operations FOX-HOUND
It was pointed towards Legzy, oh well.
 

Facetious

Moderated
Am I making any sense? I know what I'm trying to say. Maybe someone can say it better. But seriously I wanna know what the fuck this "something" is???
This is J-E-O-P-A-R-D-Y !
Something is : Just the right chemistry and a little bit of magic. :bowdown:


WAIT ! Did he say Asian ? :D
They are good listeners and they're very loyal in general.
 

Legzman

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