Text Dating & Women

[Plastique]

Hi All,

Looking for a woman's perspective on this as I'm in a bit of a bind.

I found someone to date through a dating website about 6-7 months ago. After the first couple of weeks we switched from emailing to texting. It took a little while but we then got to phone calls, but now we're back to texting again.

I've been trying to get an actual date, but to no avail. We now seem to be stuck in a text relationship, even though she lives just 15 miles away. I think she's into me but, given that she keeps avoiding the issue of an actual date, I'm confused as to whether or not I should keep at it or just cut my losses.

I really like this girl, even though she can be hard work (she's told me she's high maintenance and hard to please, and she's definitely no Stephen Hawking, but she can be sweet and is extremely sexy), but I've been out of the dating game for nearly a decade, so am wondering if this extended period of texting without an actual date is normal these days...

So ladies, I'm wondering if this is the way people date thse days?

I look forward to hearing your views.

Plaz

 

[L3ggy]

 

[Mr_Stiffy]

How much do you reckon your phone bills have totalled since starting to text and call this lady?

 

[Plastique]

Well, they started off around £25 per month, but now they're up to £80.

 

[gunslingingbird]

If you've tried for that long and she's not willing to meet you, and if she told you that she's high maintenance, I would say you should move on. Yeah, she might appear to be sweet, but it's obvious that she wants nothing more with you than just someone to talk to.

 

[twat36975248664224]

I'm not a women but I put my input in. I've had a sort of similar experience with something like this. She could be nervous about meeting you and that is why she keeps avoiding a date. She could also just want to keep it just a friends thing, or hopefully you aren't being catfished.

 

[L3ggy]

I'm not a women.

So sad.

 

[vodkazvictim]

Hi All,

Looking for a woman's perspective on this as I'm in a bit of a bind.

I found someone to date through a dating website about 6-7 months ago. After the first couple of weeks we switched from emailing to texting. It took a little while but we then got to phone calls, but now we're back to texting again.

I've been trying to get an actual date, but to no avail. We now seem to be stuck in a text relationship, even though she lives just 15 miles away. I think she's into me but, given that she keeps avoiding the issue of an actual date, I'm confused as to whether or not I should keep at it or just cut my losses.

I really like this girl, even though she can be hard work (she's told me she's high maintenance and hard to please, and she's definitely no Stephen Hawking, but she can be sweet and is extremely sexy), but I've been out of the dating game for nearly a decade, so am wondering if this extended period of texting without an actual date is normal these days...

So ladies, I'm wondering if this is the way people date thse days?

I look forward to hearing your views.

Plaz

I didn't want you to find out like this, but...
...hi
:hi:
:wave:
Asking relationship advice on a pr0n forum full of perverts and liberals? What the fuck is wrong with you?!

 

[Mr_Stiffy]

How long into the communication did you admit being into :

Being fucked by a shemale, or a girl wearing a strapon.

?

 

[Jack Davenport]

I absolutely hate texting.

 

[SpexyAshleigh]

She might have a penis. And yes I'm being serious. Have you ever seen Catfish?

 

[squallumz]

you're not dating until you meet someone. this world is going insane.

 

[vodkazvictim]

you're not dating until you meet someone. this world is going insane.

Going?

 

[squallumz]

Going?

done did?

 

[Deepcover]

I'm not a women but I put my input in. I've had a sort of similar experience with something like this. She could be nervous about meeting you and that is why she keeps avoiding a date. She could also just want to keep it just a friends thing, or hopefully you aren't being catfished.

She has him in the friend zone. Not good.

 

[Harley Spencer]

So many things here.

She told you she's high maintenance and hard to please, so maybe she's hinting that she's not interested in you and is acting that way because she's afraid to tell you to leave her alone and that she's not interested outright, so she's hinting at it in the hopes that you'll let it go and move on.

Like others have said, it could be a catfish. She might be pretending to be someone she isn't, using someone else's pictures, and is too afraid to show her what she really looks like. Someone who isn't confident about their looks so they create a fake image of themselves.

And like fixxx said, maybe she's just too nervous to meet you.

 

[fkknuckle]

Wait wait wait am I reading this correctly.....you haven't met in person????? You aren't dating dude! Tell her to pony the fuck up and meet up with her or tell her to go fuck off somewhere else!

 

[Mr_Stiffy]

I just want to point this out, from the "who made you cum" thread :

Is it sad to say that I jack off to pics of my other half? Well, sad or not, her pics make me cum on a daily basis

Plastique, this suggests one of two things :

(1) The woman you're text romancing is extra-curricular to this "other half" which makes you an intended cheating bellend, OR ;
(2) You already refer to your text lady as your "other half" despite the fact you've never met. Which makes you a sad twat.

Choose.

 

[RASQ]

Hi All,

Looking for a woman's perspective on this as I'm in a bit of a bind.

I found someone to date through a dating website about 6-7 months ago. After the first couple of weeks we switched from emailing to texting. It took a little while but we then got to phone calls, but now we're back to texting again.

I've been trying to get an actual date, but to no avail. We now seem to be stuck in a text relationship, even though she lives just 15 miles away. I think she's into me but, given that she keeps avoiding the issue of an actual date, I'm confused as to whether or not I should keep at it or just cut my losses.

I really like this girl, even though she can be hard work (she's told me she's high maintenance and hard to please, and she's definitely no Stephen Hawking, but she can be sweet and is extremely sexy), but I've been out of the dating game for nearly a decade, so am wondering if this extended period of texting without an actual date is normal these days...

So ladies, I'm wondering if this is the way people date thse days?

I look forward to hearing your views.

Plaz

it sounds like you don't get pussy often, hence, why you still take this lame texting relationship bullshit. I understand ur worried about how long it will be till the next time a chick is even interested in you, but jesus man, grow some fucking nuts and cut ur loses. I suggest you tell her, "im not getting anywhere with you, goodbye, cunt" Then get a hotel room, three hookers, and an eightball. don't think, just do it!

 

[Mr_Balls]

She is dating or wants some local dude next her. Believe me bro I went through the exact same thing in Ventura and nearly got killed, I left and joined the marines. That is not advice but be careful.