I have often been very frustrated with my "gf". So here is the situation. We have been together for almost 3 years. She has tried to cheat on me at least twice that I know of. The reason I say tried is because she claims no intercourse occur. And I know this for a fact because one time I have seen her emails and myspace account and the other time she accidently saved her conversation onto the computer for whatever reason. The frustrating part hasn't even begun yet though. Those times that I suspect she is unfaithful, I confront her. Her answer is always "NO you never believe me" then she turns me into the bad guy for not trusting her and somehow she gets upset. Later after I found concrete evidence that she was having dinner with the guy several times somehow she turns angry saying that I invaded her privacy by going into her email account. In fairness I did not hack her accounts or anything, there was a time in our relationship where we both exchanged password for all our accounts and I just happen to remember hers. So eventually she says sorry and she wont do it again. Now this has happened twice so naturally I dont trust her. I am frank her with that I dont trust her and that her words dont mean much right now until she can gain my trust. So now I try to keep an eye on her and wants to know what's she doing but in turn she is now saying she needs her space. I told her this was not the way to regain my trust and she got upset at me although she was the one who has been deceitful. I can sense the relationship will be ending any time now but what else to do but shrug.
Oh and one of her lame excuses was "if you would marry me I wouldn't stray." My response to that was " how the fuck do you want me to marry me if you're cheating every 6 months". She is always saying all her friends are married and I'm not committed cause we're not even engage. and we argue about this often. She always says where's my ring I also reply stay faithful. Once I bring up her past infidelities she get outraged and argument ensues. I have no idea how someone can be outraged for their own dire mistake.
Not to mention her ****** thinks I'm a horrible person from what she tells them about me.
So I vented quite a bit there. But here's the question does anyone know a girl/guy like that? Somebody that even though they're lying and is caught in the lie, will still try to lie to get out of it? Once they've been exposed, they'd still try to make it seem somehow they are innocent and try to turn you into the bad guy for "Dont you believe me?" even though they have given you every reason not to. Someone who has done something wrong and has the nerve to make demands like marriage for example. So am I one of the unluckiest guys in the world to have to deal with this? or do these types of people exist somewhere else too. Because frankly I think this behavior is ridiculous and why I put up with it I dunno.
Maybe chronic lying is a clinical disease? and these people just need treatment?
End rant. Thank you for reading and any honest comments.
Who needs psychologists when you have strangers on the internet.
Oh and one of her lame excuses was "if you would marry me I wouldn't stray." My response to that was " how the fuck do you want me to marry me if you're cheating every 6 months". She is always saying all her friends are married and I'm not committed cause we're not even engage. and we argue about this often. She always says where's my ring I also reply stay faithful. Once I bring up her past infidelities she get outraged and argument ensues. I have no idea how someone can be outraged for their own dire mistake.
Not to mention her ****** thinks I'm a horrible person from what she tells them about me.
So I vented quite a bit there. But here's the question does anyone know a girl/guy like that? Somebody that even though they're lying and is caught in the lie, will still try to lie to get out of it? Once they've been exposed, they'd still try to make it seem somehow they are innocent and try to turn you into the bad guy for "Dont you believe me?" even though they have given you every reason not to. Someone who has done something wrong and has the nerve to make demands like marriage for example. So am I one of the unluckiest guys in the world to have to deal with this? or do these types of people exist somewhere else too. Because frankly I think this behavior is ridiculous and why I put up with it I dunno.
Maybe chronic lying is a clinical disease? and these people just need treatment?
End rant. Thank you for reading and any honest comments.
Who needs psychologists when you have strangers on the internet.
