Some advice for a guy whos got it bad?

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I've been talking to this girl I work with for a couple of weeks now. I've known her longer but it's only been within the last two weeks that we've really talked steadily. I had a crush on this girl before and after we started talking more it got even worse lol. I've never met someone that has so much in common with me before. Our childhoods, what we wanted to be when we got older (we both wanted to draw...her anime and I wanted to work for Marvel). It's crazy the amount we have in common. Now we only really get to talk online because at work we are in two different areas of the plant. So the other day we were chatting on messenger and I asked her what she looks for in a guy. She told me taller than her (check) a nice cock (she actually said that and check lol) someone who drives (****) and someone who has their own place (****....yes I don't have either...I used to but I've been going through a rough financial time right now and shes aware of this). So I asked her well what about a guy who wants those things and is trying to get them and is looking for a girl who understands that and is willing to accept that. She automatically thought I was talking about me and her and she was right but I didnt play it like that. I've really only been talking to her for a couple of weeks so I don't want to scare her off. She replied she would if she knew the guy well. She also said that any girl would understand something like that. Now my question is (especially to the ladies reading this) is that like some sort of code for yes I would date you under those circumstances but I want to get to know you more? lol. I'm fucking confused. I apologize for this being so long. Another thing is I want to ask her for her #....but I don't want to ask her too soon you know? I'm fucking lost when it comes to this cat and mouse chasing **** lol. I've never had to do this before. It's always been pretty straight forward with past women. This one is different though.