Sexuality Crisis

[FailingDogma]

So I’m a straight male, I’ve been dating my gf for 5 years and I’ve been with around 20 women before her and she has been with 1 other guy. She doesn’t really know how to perform sexual acts, so I decided to try it on her toy to tell her how to apply suction. It got 1 inch into my mouth and I srsly regretted it.
Am I gay now?

 

[FreeOnes_Adam]

No doubt about it. Better get used to your new special section: https://www.freeones.com/forums/categories/for-the-curious.134/

 

[Steve-FreeOnes]

She's been with you for five years and still doesn't know how to pleasure a man? Maybe your possible sexuality isn't the issue here.

 

[Pornfan99]

Doesn't Nina Hartley has a full .. instructional series of videos?

 

[FailingDogma]

Doesn't Nina Hartley has a full .. instructional series of videos?

She hardly watches porn and if she does it’s only “rough sex”

 

[FailingDogma]

She's been with you for five years and still doesn't know how to pleasure a man? Maybe your possible sexuality isn't the issue here.

She ronly enjoys laying on her back or stomach it’s really putting a strain on our sex life and I’m 22

 

[FailingDogma]

Doesn't Nina Hartley has a full .. instructional series of videos?

I’ve showed her Sara Jay videos and Arabelle Raphael. But she just isn’t getting it

 

[Mr. Daystar]

It's hardly rocket science. Even girls that haven't done it know to watch their teeth, and suck while moving your head up and down. She her a porn movie, with a blow job theme, and if you're lucky, she was a good student, and paid attention in class.

 

[FailingDogma]

It's hardly rocket science. Even girls that haven't done it know to watch their teeth, and suck while moving your head up and down. She her a porn movie, with a blow job theme, and if you're lucky, she was a good student, and paid attention in class.

Yeah you’d be surprised man. It just feels like my dick is in a hot room full of teeth

 

[jonno2004]

I'm only attracted to the top 2% of beautiful women, females get really angry with me when I tell them, but they don't get angry with gays for being gay, so I tell them not to discriminate against my sexuality

 

[Johan]

Maybe you shouldn't tell them. Or at least fin a more subtle way to make them understand you're not interested, more subtle than basically telling them they're too ugly to match your standarts...

So I’m a straight male, I’ve been dating my gf for 5 years and I’ve been with around 20 women before her and she has been with 1 other guy. She doesn’t really know how to perform sexual acts, so I decided to try it on her toy to tell her how to apply suction. It got 1 inch into my mouth and I srsly regretted it.
Am I gay now?

No, you're not gay

Being gay means being attracted by men, you could enjoy being fucked by a women wearing a strap-on, it wouldn't mean you're gay. Do, women ask themselves wether having their pussy licked by a man means they're lesbians ?
Homosexuality is about feelings, about attraction, not about sexuality so as long as you're not attracted by men, you're not gay, whatever you may do and enjoy (or not) in the bedroom (or anywhere else).

Now, to help you with that sex issue, my advice would be to use your past experiences to guide her, tell her the kind of moves your like (including during the act itself). Remember to encourager her, particularly when she's doing better (even if you think she could do better).
And don't forget to reward her by going down on her too...

 

[Mr. Daystar]

Yeah you’d be surprised man. It just feels like my dick is in a hot room full of teeth

Then you have one choice, and only one choice.. Complete honesty. Rent a oral themed movie, find that Nina Hartley how to movie, and just explain it in a very, "I'm sorry, but', sort of way, and make sure you clearly express you want to make sure you're doing your part. If you aren't eating it right, you need to know.

 

[tvstrip]

So assuming you've been faithful, you're saying that you've slept with 20 women by the time you were 17? And you've been a solid 5yr relationship since then, with a girl that you have no sexual compatibility with?

 

[Mr. Daystar]

So assuming you've been faithful, you're saying that you've slept with 20 women by the time you were 17? And you've been a solid 5yr relationship since then, with a girl that you have no sexual compatibility with?

And then there's that.....

 

[Little Red Wagon Repairman]

Maybe wave a pair of pliers at her as a hint the next time she's about to give you some oral favors.

 

[FailingDogma]

So assuming you've been faithful, you're saying that you've slept with 20 women by the time you were 17? And you've been a solid 5yr relationship since then, with a girl that you have no sexual compatibility with?

No it’s been on and off but we started at 17 last 2 years been consistent. Got messy around first year uni

 

[FailingDogma]

Maybe you shouldn't tell them. Or at least fin a more subtle way to make them understand you're not interested, more subtle than basically telling them they're too ugly to match your standarts...


No, you're not gay

Being gay means being attracted by men, you could enjoy being fucked by a women wearing a strap-on, it wouldn't mean you're gay. Do, women ask themselves wether having their pussy licked by a man means they're lesbians ?
Homosexuality is about feelings, about attraction, not about sexuality so as long as you're not attracted by men, you're not gay, whatever you may do and enjoy (or not) in the bedroom (or anywhere else).

Now, to help you with that sex issue, my advice would be to use your past experiences to guide her, tell her the kind of moves your like (including during the act itself). Remember to encourager her, particularly when she's doing better (even if you think she could do better).
And don't forget to reward her by going down on her too...

Hm this was informative thanks. I guess it boils down to communication. I’ll keep trying, maybe I was a bit rude about it in the past and that caused her to put less effort in.

 

[Xombie3000]

Just be careful, or she'll go all Lorena Bobbitt on your little Mr. Happy.

 

[Johan]

Hm this was informative thanks. I guess it boils down to communication. I’ll keep trying, maybe I was a bit rude about it in the past and that caused her to put less effort in.

Then my advice would be you go down on her first and you put some dedication on it, as an incentive for her to put some efforts too...

 

[Little Red Wagon Repairman]

Then my advice would be you go down on her first and you put some dedication on it, as an incentive for her to put some efforts too...

The way she sinks her fangs into his wiener seems like she's putting too much effort. If she went the other direction and gave a Soulless Blow Job it may bring more pleasure and less pain.