:wave: hi people, i have a question about swinging. my wife and i have been married for 13 years now and we used to do a little of this but haven't now for about 2 years. we moved to a different town about then so we are not around the people we used to know. we have talked alot about getting some new friends and she really would like to find a girlfriend. she talks about it during sex alot! and says we should go out and find a friend. but....it's like she wants to do it and gets all excited about it but when we get ready or have time to do it she backs up or acts like she is not really into it. she says she wants it to just happen but we never get into a position where it can. ...can anyone tell me what to do or give some input on your experiance's. thank you. it's getting very frustrating.....
