Potential new girlfriend has a stalker ex, what do I do?

I met this girl two weeks ago and she works with me. With have had one date and plenty of phonecalls and she came around my house on my birthday to drop me a card and make out for 5 mins ha! anyway she seems really needy like she really likes me and calls quite a bit, I call her in the day and if I don't txt her later on she says "you forgot me" and we have been getting really serious in chats, a bit too soon.

Seems like things are going wrong. Two days after this she canceled a date giving no real reason, telling me she can't get off work even though she works in the day. Then she tells me she can but as there isn't any money in her account she doesn't want to go out. We will see eachother at work also.

I speak to her that night and then she got into some really flirty and dirty txt messages with me, asking me "what do I like to do to my girlfriend" over and over intil I would get more perverted. I thought she was testing me out or something.

Anyway when we first met she mentioned her stalker ex and that he never knew where she lived. Today she tells me he knocked on her door and walked in with flowers. He speaks to her mum, and she told me she ignored him. They were together many years and they broke up recently.

She then tells me he started emailing her. I asked her why she was telling me this and that these situations are not good. She told me she wanted to get it off her chest and that it's stressing her out. She was with him for years but he cheated on her and she also said he gave her the worst time of her life near the end.

She said she can't really do anything. She took her facebook off so he wouldn't contact her etc. I was a little "too nice" during most of our past conversations but thats because I REALLY like her and the fact she even bothered to see me on my birthday was lovely. Today she said she would like to meet me next week.

What should I do? If I ignore her out for even a day she gets pissed off and I also can seem to ignore her txts because she gets pissed off. Right now I'm worried this guy is going to get her back and this ******* sucks it happens to me alot guys. What can I do?
 

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