Sage words of wisdom passed along here, thanks for the insights, gentlemen. The first thing a man needs to do in a relationship is figure out what exactly he wants out of it. I can't imagine any self-respecting fellow wanting to get married and surrender his freedom for pussy, if pussy isn't easily and readily available for you, marrying one so you have easy and ready access is just sad commentary on the fact that you aren't a self-respecting man that's worth much of a fuck.