Pornstar looks like friend

[terroin]

When you discover an adult entertainment performer with a disturbing resemblance to a personal friend (particularly the friend you have the hots for & wish you could deepen the relationship, but (s)he's not interested) - what is your reaction? Do you consider it a positive or a negative? Do you look out everything that artiste has ever made and scan it for those moments when they make a face or a remark that particularly looks or sounds like your friend? And does it affect your attitude/behaviour at future meetings with that friend?
I've just had the poignant experience of realising a friend I've had the hots for is lesbian (I'm hoping not exclusively), and simultaneously finding the porn performer who resembles her - in exclusively heterosexual roles. That's disappointing - but I'll still go on looking.
Anyone had similar experiences?

 

[Steve-FreeOnes]

I've just had the poignant experience of realising a friend I've had the hots for is lesbian (I'm hoping not exclusively)

I think if you are a lesbian then that's really quite conclusive and, indeed, exclusive.

 

[xfire]

Resemblances themselves aren't disturbing, just your perception of that resemblance, but why does that bother you? Move on, bro, too many fish in the sea to get hung up on that one.

 

[Mr. Daystar]

I used to pick up at a stop in North West Ohio, and there was a girl that worked there, that was the spitting image of Nikki Charm, including the hair size, and smile. We went out once as friends only, she made that clear, and I'm glad she did. It turns out, the beauty was truly only skin deep


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