Porn or Sex?

[wmonbear]

With the enormous variety of digital adult entertainment now available, have you ever passed up having sex with your girlfriend or wife, preferring instead to masturbate to your favorite porn star?

 

[Christa]

Me wife ans eye love watching lesbian videos before sex! "Aspen" xoxo

 

[ban-one]

Pass up having sex with her to play with myself to porn instead? No.
Choose masturbating to porn over having sex with her? Yes, when she's sick or otherwise not in the mood and my forcing myself onto her is a bad idea.

 

[Mr_Stiffy]

You must be joking.

I love porn, I really do. Whacking it is something I enjoy greatly and look forward to. But would I ever choose it over sex with a living, breathing woman? Hell no. Nothing compares to the stimulation of all the senses from feeling their warmth, hearing the shortness of breath, feeling their heart race when you're pressed together, looking into their eyes or watching the goosebumps rise on the skin or their nipples harden. There's so much I love being with a woman... the feeling of involuntarily getting hard just from a passionate kiss, the intimacy, the power of the orgasm that comes about because you can't stop yourself rather than racing to push yourself to it... the giving of pleasure to someone else. My last sex involved giving her three orgasms to only one of my own, because that's the part I enjoy best.

Given that you said "girlfriend or wife" then multiply that tenfold. I can't think of anything I'd rather do than make sweet love to that special person.

Choose masturbating to porn over having sex with her? Yes, when she's sick or otherwise not in the mood and my forcing myself onto her is a bad idea.

Well, there is that.

 

[ban-one]

You must be joking.

I love porn, I really do. Whacking it is something I enjoy greatly and look forward to. But would I ever choose it over sex with a living, breathing woman? Hell no. Nothing compares to the stimulation of all the senses from feeling their warmth, hearing the shortness of breath, feeling their heart race when you're pressed together, looking into their eyes or watching the goosebumps rise on the skin or their nipples harden. There's so much I love being with a woman... the feeling of involuntarily getting hard just from a passionate kiss, the intimacy, the power of the orgasm that comes about because you can't stop yourself rather than racing to push yourself to it... the giving of pleasure to someone else. My last sex involved giving her three orgasms to only one of my own, because that's the part I enjoy best.

Given that you said "girlfriend or wife" then multiply that tenfold. I can't think of anything I'd rather do than make sweet love to that special person.

With an experience like that, who would choose porn over sex?

 

[FreeOnes_Dana]

I personally have those day when I would rather masturbate than have sex.

 

[Mr_Stiffy]

I personally have those day when I would rather masturbate than have sex.

Some days when you just don't really want that fat hairy man sweating on top of you? I get that a lot.

 

[ban-one]

Some days when you just don't really want that fat hairy man sweating on top of you? I get that a lot.

I don't, 'cause I'm not hairy and just.... 'overweight.'

 

[bigwarmload]

Pass on a lovely soft women full of lust, ambition and desires for a few million colored pixels? What the fuck, nope not a chance.

 

[Mr_Stiffy]

I don't, 'cause I'm not hairy and just.... 'overweight.'

I was actually going for "I get days when I don't want the fat hairy man sweating on top of me." I prefer him just to go to sleep.

It was another "I'm a massive bender" joke. Maybe I should branch out into other, less subtle forms of humour.

 

[bobjustbob]

Porn over sex? Never. Watching a ball game over sex, gambling over sex, having a sammich over sex? Definitely.

 

[Anonyne#017]

There is a huge difference between masturbating when your partner is not willing or available and rather masturbating than having sex even when your partner is willing. If your partner rather plays with himself/herself more than with you, that's not usually a very good sign...

Thought I have admit that I do watch porn mostly because I'm a selfish bastard who enjoys spending some time time-to-time just with myself. Porn is just I, me, myself and my dick. There is no need to worry about anything or having women giving you different kind of pressures or being dumb enough to actually expect that all the men actually have their dicks up 24/7 ready to have sex whenever woman wants (which is mostly a myth based on men just joking a lot more with each other than what they actually have sex in reality). When I watch porn, I can just lean back, relax and enjoy the show. I can watch anything I please, fast-forward past boring parts, replay, skip or change to another prettier woman during middle of the scene to keep constant sexual stimulation going. I can finish the job off quickly or fab all day long if thats what I'd like. There is no need to stress about anything, there is no need for any kind of communication, just fantasizing and enjoy... that's so called happy-me-time. Having real sex then again requires 2 people and correct moods and that's usually when things start to get easily more complicated...

 

[ban-one]

I was actually going for "I get days when I don't want the fat hairy man sweating on top of me." I prefer him just to go to sleep.

It was another "I'm a massive bender" joke. Maybe I should branch out into other, less subtle forms of humour.

Who's this fat, hairy, and apparently sweaty man you're sleeping with instead of getting it on with me? I know I'm no Greek God, but I don't deserve this.






Better?

 

[Mr_Stiffy]

He likes toes, that's all I'm saying.

 

[ban-one]

He likes toes, that's all I'm saying.

Your accent and nerdishness does something for me too. :lovecoupl

Vanilla Bear is the other guy you're sleeping with, isn't he? He knew you're a 'TransFan' too. Ghah! I should've known!

 

[Mr_Stiffy]

(also, feel free to combine these 2 with your special Moddy powers, My Stiffy)

Only because you asked nicely.

 

[ban-one]

Only because you asked nicely.

Thank you for that.

Though, I must admit, when I first read the thing about the toes, I thought you meant me (don't know why; maybe because I'd just found out you've been cheating on me ), and it wasn't until it was too late that I realized who you meant.

 

[abejarano12]

Choosing wither to fuck my hand or fuck my partner well its a no brainer. I choose with my partner.

 

[himperv203]

for me porn is cheaper than sex

 

[Ray Ecks]

Nothing better then actual sex.