So I’m new here and this is the first site I came across when searching for adult forums. My question is does anyone here have an open/swinger relationship with their significant other? My husband and I have been married for 12 years. We have two daughters together. He has been in the navy since before we met and our first full year together was difficult because of him being deployed and not being able to be intimate with one another. After several long talks we decided to try an open marriage for us both to get what we both needed. The open marriage than turned into a swinger marriage. Now 10 years later of living a swinger’s lifestyle my husband doesn’t want to have that kind of marriage anymore. His reason being he has said he doesn’t enjoy seeing me with another man or woman anymore. He also doesn’t want me having an open lifestyle yet he wants an open lifestyle for himself while he is deployed. Thoughts?
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I'm a multiple girl man myself. When you open things up like that, it should always been full of communication. Feelings do sometimes change, but I definitely recommend you guys talk it out. Explain to him why you want to keep it (if you do) and why he doesn't want to. I'm sure you will be able to talk it out and come to some sort of agreement and/or understanding. Jealousy and insecurities can creep up. Maybe something happen recently that stirred some feeling along those lines up. Identify it and go from there.
I'm a multiple girl man myself. When you open things up like that, it should always been full of communication. Feelings do sometimes change, but I definitely recommend you guys talk it out. Explain to him why you want to keep it (if you do) and why he doesn't want to. I'm sure you will be able to talk it out and come to some sort of agreement and/or understanding. Jealousy and insecurities can creep up. Maybe something happen recently that stirred some feeling along those lines up. Identify it and go from there.
