*sigh* this is a bit of a strange one, but since I don't personally know any of you I guess theres no real reason to not give the full truth
I'm 20 years old and this 27 year old girl with 2 **** from where I used to work (I my last day was yesterday) who Ive talked to a lot and shes made it obvious she wants to date me. Anyways I helped her get 2 of our other friends together as sorta a double date but not really cause we arent going out and our friends were not yet. SO after 2 long nights of the 4 of us hanging out, no my way home tonight she called asked me if the reason I never went for her was because of her **** and if she never had them would I have.
The truthful reason is No (which I told her) because I see her as a friend not as someone to date. What I also kinda feel but didnt tell her is that she is 7 years older than me, and it kinda is the ****. The conversation went on and it developed into her basically flat out telling me that if I wanna shes ready to go with me.
Heres the problem, I've never had sex before and frankly all this toped with not having been laid it freaks me out. (yes I realize I'm half way to being the 40 year old virgin, and yes i do want to get laid but its never been the #1 thing on my mind at all times and this conversation can happen later after the problem)
SO I do find her to be attractive, but I have no clue what to do next, do I just ignore it and go on, to I just go for it, do I tell her about my situation then not do it or tell and do it, im at a total loss and I can't *****
I need some advice.:helpme:
I'm 20 years old and this 27 year old girl with 2 **** from where I used to work (I my last day was yesterday) who Ive talked to a lot and shes made it obvious she wants to date me. Anyways I helped her get 2 of our other friends together as sorta a double date but not really cause we arent going out and our friends were not yet. SO after 2 long nights of the 4 of us hanging out, no my way home tonight she called asked me if the reason I never went for her was because of her **** and if she never had them would I have.
The truthful reason is No (which I told her) because I see her as a friend not as someone to date. What I also kinda feel but didnt tell her is that she is 7 years older than me, and it kinda is the ****. The conversation went on and it developed into her basically flat out telling me that if I wanna shes ready to go with me.
Heres the problem, I've never had sex before and frankly all this toped with not having been laid it freaks me out. (yes I realize I'm half way to being the 40 year old virgin, and yes i do want to get laid but its never been the #1 thing on my mind at all times and this conversation can happen later after the problem)
SO I do find her to be attractive, but I have no clue what to do next, do I just ignore it and go on, to I just go for it, do I tell her about my situation then not do it or tell and do it, im at a total loss and I can't *****
I need some advice.:helpme:
