My friend and his girl are scared of oral sex.

[MarsAshes]

Yep, you heard me right. I had a great chat with him earlier this week and the dude is totally screwed up on the subject, as is his girl. They just can't do it - it involves things (and body parts) that from a hygiene point of view they just can't accept. And as for what happens at the "climax".....well!

"Ain't it a great world!" as Dr.Cox might say.

I guess it doesn't help when one of them has parents from a medical background who's treated alot of patients for various infections due to oral sex. Yeah, that's gotta be nasty. Eww. So the parents have advised them not to do it.

I can't get him to shift on the subject, it's a no-no.
Do you think you can?

 

[Supafly]

Have they watched oral porn videos?

I got an ex into anl sex by watching some clips with her...

 

[DJCowboy]

What if they both just took a shower and went at it!? Blow jobs are my favorite thing (to receive) about sex and I also love going down on a girl! These two are missing out!!

For him if they're really worried, he could buy those ultra thin condoms and she could give him oral with that on

 

[Facetious]

Have them both bathe thoroughly prior to the ordeal, you know, get rid of the body odors, that should get 'em off to a better start. A good dooshisn on her part couldn't hurt either.:drool2:

 

[Mayhem]

What if they both just took a shower and went at it!? Blow jobs are my favorite thing (to receive) about sex and I also love going down on a girl! These two are missing out!!

For him if they're really worried, he could buy those ultra thin condoms and she could give him oral with that on

Have them both bathe thoroughly prior to the ordeal, you know, get rid of the body odors, that should get 'em off to a better start. A good dooshisn on her part couldn't hurt either.:drool2:

Yup. These were going to be my suggestions.

 

[puffypig2]

Why do you care about if another dude is getting his cock sucked?

 

[Ace Bandage]

Why do you care about if another dude is getting his cock sucked?

If she's good, maybe he'll share? :dunno:

C'mon, you've been a wing man before, right?

 

[too fast]

Perhaps they should talk to Sabrina Deep

 

[STDiva]

I'll suck his dick and go down on her for a fee.

 

[squallumz]

too bad so sad.

 

[Shifty]

Well, seeing as it happened to your friend I suppose it applies to everyone on the internet.

 

[bobjustbob]

If they both don't want to do it then why should they? That's none of your business. Let them be happy with what they do.

 

[Facetious]

If they both don't want to do it then why should they? That's none of your business. Let them be happy with what they do.

So true. On that account, let's just say...

It's ok ol' Marsy boy, you can ask us anything here, it's just between you and us... everything that is said here stays here. Is there anything else you would like us to help you with? o-O

 

[cooldude_11235]

Some people like tossing salads...some don't. to each their own.

 

[Red Spyder]

How old are they? I was like that when I was like 19, was barely getting sexualy active, and I would not even kiss my then girlfriend after she had sucked my cock. Now as a grownup I went down on this "friend with benefits" even after she had done it with her husband without protection the day before and didn't mind tonguing her after she sucked on my cock and swallowed the load. So I guess if they're in their early 20's or late teens it might be kind of yucky, like remember when we were little kids and all girls had "cooties"? With experience, they'll grow out of that.

 

[Jobwell Dunn]

They should read that study that was done on microwave ovens. I was ready to eat off the floor after reading it.
And if the guy doesn't want to eat his girl out, maybe someone else can do it for him... like yourself or even myself! I'd like to very much.

 

[D-rock]

Some things just aren't for everybody. It's often easier to except that and move on.

 

[Rey C.]

Some things just aren't for everybody. It's often easier to except that and move on.

^^^This^^^

I wouldn't see it as something that I should be trying to convince either one of them to try if they aren't into it.

Plus, as the medical professional in the family has pointed out, there are risks from certain sexual activities. If there wasn't, then no one would have or be getting STD's, would they? Risks are risks, not guarantees. I might walk outside during a lightning storm and be OK. You might be standing beside me and get toasted. IMO, it's better to just let people do what they feel is best for them.

 

[MarsAshes]

Why do you care about if another dude is getting his cock sucked?

Dang, I forgot to slip in the note that he's keen to explore everything they can do - but they have a few concerns. We started talking about it because he saw it as a "guys only" topic. I guess his biggest fear is looking like a letdown in the bedroom. But yeah, like you've all said - I should just let nature take its course with those two. No point trying to help out in any way. Let them decide for themselves.

 

[Boobinator]

I don't think it's that weird. I prefer a nice handjob over a blowjob, and I know a lot of girls who don't like getting eaten out. I've never tried anal sex, nor do I have any longing to do so. My point is everyone has their own boundaries - instead of questioning you should congratulate him for finding a like-minded girl.