Making your own sex tapes

How many of you here do this?

I am starting to think that it is the logical next step. That if you watch a lot of porn, you will eventually want to film yourself and your wife/girlfriend going at it.

Some general questions: Is this a bad idea to even bring up with your woman because even if she agrees to it, how long will she be willing to let the tape exist? In the days of Paris Hilton and Pam Anderson most women (and men?) would be nervous about having their own sex tape out there even if they aren't celebrities. And is it possible that if you do do it and even if everything goes to plan, you will still be freaked out to watch yourself on tape having sex? That it seemed like a good idea but will turn out to be a turn off.

How easy is it to do? I know it isn't brain surgery and there are plenty of amateur tapes out there to learn from but things often are more difficult then they at first seem.

It does seem to be a way to live out fantasies. I have never filmed any of my sex yet but I might be at the start of a relationship with a girl who reminds me of Carrie-Anne Moss from the Matrix movies and my lust-o-meter is almost through the roof. I keep having thoughts of us both wearing those long leather coats and...well, I'll keep it to myself.

Anyway, if anyone has any thoughts on this subject of any kind, I'd love to hear them. Thanks.
 
Actually my gf brought the idea up once but somehow we never did it (the filming, not the thing itself). I don't think it's such a big turn-on after all but to each his own.

Based on this I'd say it's probably not such a big deal if you just asked her opinion about it. Since you said you currently are in a rather early stage, I probably would give it some more time though ;)
 

McRocket

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First off...what are you doing to that poor cat in your avatar?

Second. If you do it, make sure that you won't mind if it does get into someone else's hands. If I was a woman; I would let my man do it only if I got to hang onto the tapes/recording.

But even for the guy; don't do or say something that is REALLY embarrassing for you. You never know what a woman could do if your relationship goes sour. She could get hold of the footage and play it on the web if she is pissed at you and know's it would embarrass you.

Always assume the worst.

Oh, and to Vegas Yankee. Who is the woman in your avatar or sig or whatever it's called?
 
Thanks for the replies, guys.

The cat was just one of FreeOnes choices for avatars. I am not the world's biggest cat lover but damn, that is a cute picture.

What to do with the tape is, of course, the biggest question. I don't think I would let it out of my possession and I couldn't blame any woman for having the same idea.

I am starting to think that this is the type of thing you might do, watch once or twice and then destroy the tape. Unless you are married or in a very strong, long term relationship.

Also, I think a bj would, obviously, be the easiest thing to film and perhaps easiest to talk her into. But, as Vegas Yankee said, it is still very early yet.
 

McRocket

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The Fog said:
Thanks for the replies, guys.

The cat was just one of FreeOnes choices for avatars. I am not the world's biggest cat lover but damn, that is a cute picture.

What to do with the tape is, of course, the biggest question. I don't think I would let it out of my possession and I couldn't blame any woman for having the same idea.

I am starting to think that this is the type of thing you might do, watch once or twice and then destroy the tape. Unless you are married or in a very strong, long term relationship.

Also, I think a bj would, obviously, be the easiest thing to film and perhaps easiest to talk her into. But, as Vegas Yankee said, it is still very early yet.

Cute? The cat looks like it's in agony to me. LOL.

Not that I am any expert; but it sounds like you have a really good handle on the whole filming situation.
 
mcrocket said:
Cute? The cat looks like it's in agony to me. LOL.

Not that I am any expert; but it sounds like you have a really good handle on the whole filming situation.


:) No, I think he is just yawning.

I am not sure if I have a good handle or not. As I wrote, the woman isn't even quite my gf yet and I don't really have a good sense on how she would react to the filming suggestion. In any case, it is hardly a deal breaker. I'd be very happy to have sex with her :nanner: even if there isn't a camera within a million miles.
 

McRocket

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The Fog said:
:) No, I think he is just yawning.

I am not sure if I have a good handle or not. As I wrote, the woman isn't even quite my gf yet and I don't really have a good sense on how she would react to the filming suggestion. In any case, it is hardly a deal breaker. I'd be very happy to have sex with her :nanner: even if there isn't a camera within a million miles.


Yawning? I never considered that.

Still sounds like you got a pretty good handle on it. YOu don't sound like you are gonna take her to bed for the first time and just before the event shout 'And.....ACTION"! :)
 
mcrocket said:
Yawning? I never considered that.

Still sounds like you got a pretty good handle on it. YOu don't sound like you are gonna take her to bed for the first time and just before the event shout 'And.....ACTION"! :)

Or whatever the cat equivalent of yawning is.

No, I don't think I would shout "ACTION" the first time. lol. You know I am sure one could hire people to do the filming for you but I am almost positive I wouldn't be, ahem, up for that. It would be too much like real porn and not making love to or fucking my girlfriend.
 
I had a Gf who asked me to film her as she was into watching herself.... In a very BIG way!!! almost to the point that it was a problem.

We used a Sony homecam set up on a tripod... She wanted to be filmed in every position possible... And loved to sit in front of the camera and mastabate when I wasnt feeling up to participating....

I started to worry a little when I came home one day and found her giving herself a pounding with a cucumber with the camera recording.... She didnt miss a beat when I walked into the loungeroom.... I just sat down on my recliner and waited for her to finish... About 10 minutes later, while she was laying there,recovering from what I thought was one most boistress orgasms I had witnessed, she smiled at me and said Hi!.... I returned the greeting and asked her how her day had been.... She simply stood up, plugged the Cam into theTv, rewound the tape and pressed play.... I sat and watched about one and a half hours of her fucking herself with different object throughout the house!!!

This was one of many incidents.... I had over 150 video tapes in the cupboard!!!

When we parted ways, I burnt the tapes so I wouldn't get bitten in the arse in the future.

I did keep one. She was an absolute hottie!!! :thumbsup:
 
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Can I have a copy???

I don't know, part of me says filming my wife would be fun, but part of watching porn is the fantasy. I don't think I'd bring it up, but if my wife wanted to, I would.
 
i have done this with my wife on a few occasions and we actually watch them together...which is a little weird but ok..

it was fun as it added a new element to the sex life
 
I think would be interesting.

I think, as an advice, if someday I do that. If the relationship broke up, I think the first thing you need to do is talk about destroying the tapes, for the two of you.
I’ve seen many homemade videos, supposedly uploaded by someone of the couple in revenge for the break up.
 
i don't know as i have never tried it. i suppose it would be interesting :p
 
ÆGEAN said:
i don't know as i have never tried it. i suppose it would be interesting :p

You and your woman could dress up like the characters in your avatar. :D

Thanks to all for the further replies.
 
making a tape is good idea
but i am scared if my own children happens to watch it !!!!!!..............Oh No
 
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