Violator79
Take a Hit, Spunker!
OK, I've been holding off on this for a while, but the time has come for everyone's advice:
About 6 months ago, I got a new neighbor and let me say she's absolutely beautiful. At first we just casually talked and that was the extent of it. But lately, I've found myself totally falling for her. There's only one little problem: she has a boyfriend. But let me tell you about him: he's unemployed, on probation, her whole family hates him and he is an asshole in the truest form. He does nothing but sleeps 23 1/2 out of 24 hours a day, bitches and argues with her over the smallest things and from I've heard, since the walls are thin, he can't even fuck her right and sure as hell doesn't make love to her like a real man should.
Now before you say it, I know I shouldn't get involved with their business and for the most part I don't. I DO, however, treat her better than he ever could. I've bought her a Steelers Super Bowl shirt and a couple days later I heard him say to her "burn it." She didn't do it. She said she'd pay me back but I told her she owes me NOTHING for it. I've made sure she was alright one night after he made her cry so hard I was seeing red. The kicker is, earlier tonight after I got home from work, I could tell they were fucked up, as in high as a kite. They had to go somewhere and I offered to drive them because I didn't want her driving in her condition. She said she was alright, but she did say she'd pick me up at the store since I went for a walk. She did come a little while later and her boyfriend wasn't with her. She told me that he's a little weirded out over how nice I am to her. I flat out told her she should dump him and gave the reasons why. She said he's jealous over how I treat her.
She said she does like me (and not as a brother, which is a big win), and she doesn't know what to do. I told her I care very much about her and if he has a problem with me, be a man and say it to my face. The only reason I haven't beat the shit out of her boyfriend is she begged me to calm down, and I listened to her. I think about her all the time. We're perfect for each other.
Now my question is: should I keep treating her better than her boyfriend and keep making him jealous? Keep in mind I don't act like her boyfriend. All I told her is I'm there if she needs me and if he ever lays a finger on her, he's going to the hospital.
About 6 months ago, I got a new neighbor and let me say she's absolutely beautiful. At first we just casually talked and that was the extent of it. But lately, I've found myself totally falling for her. There's only one little problem: she has a boyfriend. But let me tell you about him: he's unemployed, on probation, her whole family hates him and he is an asshole in the truest form. He does nothing but sleeps 23 1/2 out of 24 hours a day, bitches and argues with her over the smallest things and from I've heard, since the walls are thin, he can't even fuck her right and sure as hell doesn't make love to her like a real man should.
Now before you say it, I know I shouldn't get involved with their business and for the most part I don't. I DO, however, treat her better than he ever could. I've bought her a Steelers Super Bowl shirt and a couple days later I heard him say to her "burn it." She didn't do it. She said she'd pay me back but I told her she owes me NOTHING for it. I've made sure she was alright one night after he made her cry so hard I was seeing red. The kicker is, earlier tonight after I got home from work, I could tell they were fucked up, as in high as a kite. They had to go somewhere and I offered to drive them because I didn't want her driving in her condition. She said she was alright, but she did say she'd pick me up at the store since I went for a walk. She did come a little while later and her boyfriend wasn't with her. She told me that he's a little weirded out over how nice I am to her. I flat out told her she should dump him and gave the reasons why. She said he's jealous over how I treat her.
She said she does like me (and not as a brother, which is a big win), and she doesn't know what to do. I told her I care very much about her and if he has a problem with me, be a man and say it to my face. The only reason I haven't beat the shit out of her boyfriend is she begged me to calm down, and I listened to her. I think about her all the time. We're perfect for each other.
Now my question is: should I keep treating her better than her boyfriend and keep making him jealous? Keep in mind I don't act like her boyfriend. All I told her is I'm there if she needs me and if he ever lays a finger on her, he's going to the hospital.