I've always wondered...

MalenaMorgan

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I've always wondered this: most lesbians are better at giving girls head because they know what they like/ what feels good-
So, does that mean gay guys are better at giving guys head for the same reason?
 

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I think it simply depends on who you are with that makes it better or worse.

In my case, if I am with another guy, I would much rather go down on him than have him go down on me. I enjoy giving in that way more than receiving, and frankly, I don't think guys are all that good at giving head. I have not had a ton of experience though, so I am not the proper judge. However, I have been told that I am fairly good at giving oral by both men and women. I simply enjoy pleasing someone.

I guess the true test is to compare them side by side at the same time, but I am not really into both at once. It's a mental thing. So far I haven't had a guy do it as well as a girl. I think it depends who is really into it and who just does it because they are "supposed" to or feel like they need to do it or have to.

I find this topic really interesting, so I hope some of the others will fill us in on a bit more. I'm always willing to share on here.

Great thread MalenaMorgan! :)
 
I've always wondered this: most lesbians are better at giving girls head because they know what they like/ what feels good-
So, does that mean gay guys are better at giving guys head for the same reason?

Depends on comfort level and communication more so than gender I think, and among lesbians I'd lean toward saying there might be a starting advantage to women's credit: I think for some women, it ends up that they can often find themselves being candid and descriptive with other women, not just because of physical similarity but just a sense of trust or comfort. By contrast, I'm not sure men have that as preternaturally, but it would be worth seeing if there's a wide difference. Ultimately I think every "best oral I've ever received" story I've heard boils down to "we were in sync and the responses to the physical, audible, and all other give and take was perfect", which tells me it's learning how to find that sync that gets you the most pleasure, not necessarily vice versa.
 

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honestly its been my expirience that guys are better at it. I've had some handjobs from girls that were straight up painful but when it comes to oral sex i think alot of it has to do with enthusiasm. girsl that ive been with that truely enjoyed giving head were great at it but you can really tell when a girl is doing it cause she thinks she should rather than out simply enjoying the act. i personally really enjoy performing oral sex on women and men and i think that propably makes it more pleasurable for them. theres alos definetly some truth to the argument that men/women are just better or more comfortable with their own equipement.
 
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I think it simply depends on who you are with that makes it better or worse.

In my case, if I am with another guy, I would much rather go down on him than have him go down on me. I enjoy giving in that way more than receiving, and frankly, I don't think guys are all that good at giving head. I have not had a ton of experience though, so I am not the proper judge. However, I have been told that I am fairly good at giving oral by both men and women. I simply enjoy pleasing someone.

I guess the true test is to compare them side by side at the same time, but I am not really into both at once. It's a mental thing. So far I haven't had a guy do it as well as a girl. I think it depends who is really into it and who just does it because they are "supposed" to or feel like they need to do it or have to.

I find this topic really interesting, so I hope some of the others will fill us in on a bit more. I'm always willing to share on here.

Great thread MalenaMorgan! :)

This!

I never went down on a guy before but I do love going down on girls...I kinda get shocked when they give me exciting compliments on my oral skills...Idk I tend to cringe...
 
guys are way better at hand jobs but maybe not at oral, guys know how to make you come too fast so they can heave their turn. You need one that really wants to do it
 
I've laready had good and bad blowjobs form both man and woman. It's really a matter of wanting to do it, be enthusiastic about what you're doing. But I have to agree that the good blowjobs I've had from man were a bit better than the good ones by woman.
 
I've never sucked a real dick before, but I know for a fact I'd be better than most girls. I'd just blow the way I want to be blown. Simple as that. I can also deepthroat, so that helps lol.
 
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