I think I have a problem

[kalel32688]

I think Tera Patrick has some kind of hold on me. I never met the lady, but I have seen pictures of her. Whenever I "take care of some personal business" (i.e. masturbate), I think about her, and this seems to only happen whenever I have pictures of her.

This whole thing has prompted me to delete those pictures of her, and avoid Tera all together because I can't think about a married woman while masturbating (even though there is a possibility she is being abused). I'm not looking to go to Hell, and I most certainly don't want to became one of those guys who sleep around with married women, especially those who are bored with their marriages or in an abusive one at that. I don't wanna became that person.

Now, I'm collecting some pictures of Tera, and I'm hoping that she doesn't pop up in my mind when I go to take care of some personal business.

Can someone help me here, give me some guidance?

I would appreciate that very much.

 

[pitino]

it's not about Terra's marriage, is about Terra's beauty and sexiness...i don't see a prob!

 

[Tachi]

Kalel, I wouldn't worry about it. As Pitino mentioned, you're not into her because she's married so you shouldn't feel guilty about it. She is a porn actress after all

 

[master-bator]

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I think Tera Patrick has some kind of hold on me. I never met the lady, but I have seen pictures of her. Whenever I "take care of some personal business" (i.e. masturbate), I think about her, and this seems to only happen whenever I have pictures of her.


Take it from the Master-bator just don't worry about it and have fun Master-bating.

 

[Ax3C]

Kalel, I wouldn't worry about it. As Pitino mentioned, you're not into her because she's married so you shouldn't feel guilty about it. She is a porn actress after all

In addition... fantasies are a healthy expression of human sexuality. It's natural to fantasize about others. When it becomes a problem is when the fantasies are acted upon (i.e., stalking, affairs, adultery, etc., etc.)

Just relax and enjoy the fantasies for what they are... FANTASIES. You don't have a problem at all so you shouldn't feel guilty. You're going through what everybody else on this Bulletin Board has gone through at one time or another.

Don't worry, Kalel. It's a natural progression of the human psyche and sexuality to fantasize, okay?

:thumbsup:

 

[D-rock]

When you start to get turned off by hot chicks.......then worry.

 

[jod0565]

This whole thing has prompted me to delete those pictures of her, and avoid Tera all together

Now, I'm collecting some pictures of Tera

I'm confused or did you not mean to write that?

Nicole Sheridan is married and I love her movies - I don't feel bad watching her, I don't even think of that, I think of her being a super sexy woman.

 

[tunsty]

Sorry, but I'm going to have to say this..

How weak-minded can some people be?
Looking at pictures of a married pornstar makes you an adulterer!?
This has to be some sort of wind-up.

 

[da_Sickness]

let's just say... you didn't know. now back to your original programming *wank wank*

 

[jdb67]

Now, that is what I refer to as "hook line & sinker!!!"

 

[4G63]

I don't get this... She's a porn star!!!!! Your supposed to look at her.
Don't look at your Neighbors wife, but Tera Patrick is A-okay.

 

[kalel32688]

Uh...sorry, guys. I couldn't go through with it. Every time I think of Tera Patrick, I can't stop thinking about her. It's like she dominates my fantasties, and I don't like it. And yes, part of this problem is that she is married, and yet, there are two new parts to all of this: she has a stepson, and her husband, Evan Seinfeld, has sex with other woman while she only has sex with him.

I don't mean to judge, but that doesn't sound like a marriage to me. Sure, this Evan guy treats her right (from what I read on the Internet), but for me, marriage is about two people sharing physical intimacy with each other, not with other people, as is the case with Tera and Evan.

I can look at Aria Giovanni and she's married, and I don't think about her whenever I masturbate. I hardly ever think about Sandra Shine (who is probably married but I don't know for sure).

Guys, do any of you ever think about what God thinks of this whole thing? Sure, I'm one of those guys still trying to figure out what it takes to be a Christian, but I can't help but stick to the whole "don't lust after your neighbor's wife" thing. Yes, Tera is a pornstar, but her husband is my neighbor. Sure, we don't live on the same street, but he's my neighbor, he's my brother in suffering in this sorry world, even though I am a bit put off by him (it's all those tattoos).

Folks, take a moment and think about what I'm saying here. When you think about pornstars (especially those who are married) while mastrubating, do you feel guilty and/or dirty about it at all afterwards? Now, I'm not trying to get you to change; I'm just concerned for you. I can't help myself; human nature I guess.

Well...????

 

[Jizm]

We all have problems, join the club.

 

[member2686]

This has got to be one of the dumbest fucking threads ever. "I think I have a problem - I have a guilty conscience about jerking off to a pornstar." :wtf:

Gotta love the "hook, line, and sinker comment..." Too true...

Tunsty, time to add this thread to your poll! lol

 

[D-rock]

I wouldn't feel any guiltier looking at some pornstar creating a fantasy for me than I would reading a book where I imagine the characters in my head doing bad things. You don't feel guilty after watching a murder on TV do you? It's not real. Imagination is just one of the nice byproducts of free will.

 

[agggelos21]

This has got to be one of the dumbest fucking threads ever. "I think I have a problem - I have a guilty conscience about jerking off to a pornstar." :wtf:
Gotta love the "hook, line, and sinker comment..." Too true...
Tunsty, time to add this thread to your poll! lol

i have to agree with Nightfly!
the name kalel reminds me someone from the past!!!

 

[member2686]

Yeah. He reminds of the "How can I meet pornstars?" guy from Qatar or wherever he was from - the guy who asked for pornstars' phone numbers. :rofl2:

i have to agree with Nightfly!
the name kalel reminds me someone from the past!!!

 

[agggelos21]

Yeah. He reminds of the "How can I meet pornstars?" guy from Qatar or wherever he was from - the guy who asked for pornstars' phone numbers. :rofl2:

oh yeah!!!!tunsty put it in one of his polls.
and then he desappeared for a while!but he came back!
and i think this thread is dumper!!!

so tunsty you know what to do!!!!
another "dump" thread from kalel!!!! :rofl:

 

[Peter Gazinya]

don't mean to judge, but that doesn't sound like a marriage to me

I think that's your whole problem right there, you DO judge everything, everyone, yourself especially. Judging Tera and her husband, who the hell are you to define their marriage?

When I jerk off I think of jackhammering away at Tera's oiled up asshole while her husband fucks her two sisters on the other side of the room. I'll probably prop up Tera on a stack of bibles to get a better angle to slide my cock in and out of her asshole :nanner: . I can only get hard though by looking through the San Fernando Valley's court documents, looking for recently married porn stars because single porn stars, no matter how how they are, just don't do it for me.

I like to take pictures of all the single pornsluts I used to be attracted to (that is until I realized that ruining marriages is a HUGE aphrodisiac for me) and wrap them in wedding gowns and jerk off. I have this one picture of Tera Patrick being assfucked by a man that is NOT her husband while sucking another man's cock (again not her husband) that I stuck on top of a piece of wedding cake. Then I start reading common wedding nuptials (in sickness and in health, etc.) and I have my neighbor's wife jam her thumb in my butt and that usually does it. I blow monster spunk loads all over everything; the wedding cake, pictures of Tera Patrick committing adultery, my neighbor's wife ,and single chick photos wrapped in wedding gowns.

Should I feel guilty? :dunno:

 

[member2686]

I don't know about feeling guilty, Peter Gazinya, but you certainly should be aware that you have a SERIOUS fetish for assholes, both your own and women's. lol :tongue: