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So I've been with my girlfriend for over 2 years now. Very much in love (both sides) and it is the first serious relationship for both of us (sexually and romantically)
A few months back, someone we know and her boyfriend (who also has a wife, long story, but she knows and its cool) asked my girlfriend to have a threesome with them, and without me there/involved at all.
I was ok at first, but insecurities and ill-feelings (mainly jealousy I'll admit) towards the guy had me put a stop to it before it happened. Me and the girlfriend argued about it a bit (I should of said no from the start to be fair) but we were ok again.
Then recently she has brought up the idea of us ******** with people solo. She's given the green light to a few people we both know for me, and I gave her the greenlight for the woman in the above situation.
Tonight she asked what the rules were for the guy in the above story, and I said nothing at all, not even watching my gf and his gf together. She was a bit 'boo' about it but seems ok. She says me with other women she approves would be fine but I'm not sure she would be ok with it if it actually happened, and I'm not sure I'd even want to ***** with anyone else, permission given.
So, should I be worried that she no longer just wants me? I'm still not sure if I'm open to the idea of us having a semi-open relationship at al but I dont want to be that guy who stops his gf doing anything or come across as controlling.
Am I out of line (should be more trusting and permissive, I do think she loves me and wants to be with me and not others in a serious way) or is she for wanting anyone else? She is bi, and I dont have such an issue with other women and her but still sort of niggles at me.
Am I being too uptight?
So I've been with my girlfriend for over 2 years now. Very much in love (both sides) and it is the first serious relationship for both of us (sexually and romantically)
A few months back, someone we know and her boyfriend (who also has a wife, long story, but she knows and its cool) asked my girlfriend to have a threesome with them, and without me there/involved at all.
I was ok at first, but insecurities and ill-feelings (mainly jealousy I'll admit) towards the guy had me put a stop to it before it happened. Me and the girlfriend argued about it a bit (I should of said no from the start to be fair) but we were ok again.
Then recently she has brought up the idea of us ******** with people solo. She's given the green light to a few people we both know for me, and I gave her the greenlight for the woman in the above situation.
Tonight she asked what the rules were for the guy in the above story, and I said nothing at all, not even watching my gf and his gf together. She was a bit 'boo' about it but seems ok. She says me with other women she approves would be fine but I'm not sure she would be ok with it if it actually happened, and I'm not sure I'd even want to ***** with anyone else, permission given.
So, should I be worried that she no longer just wants me? I'm still not sure if I'm open to the idea of us having a semi-open relationship at al but I dont want to be that guy who stops his gf doing anything or come across as controlling.
Am I out of line (should be more trusting and permissive, I do think she loves me and wants to be with me and not others in a serious way) or is she for wanting anyone else? She is bi, and I dont have such an issue with other women and her but still sort of niggles at me.
Am I being too uptight?
