How to close the deal on a girl?

[jasn88cubs]

I'M awful at trying to get a girl to become boyfriend/girlfriend.

i either look clingy or that I don't have any interest at all.

so what's a good way to seal the deal?

Here is where I am

I met a girl on a dating site and we talked there for a month. then we talked on facebook for about a month. we got along great and i asked her if she wanted to go do something so we could meet up and hang out.

So we went bowling and had a great time. when we left she gave me a hug and i asked if we should do something again soon and she said yes i think we should. i asked if we should consider it a date and she said yes

then i screwed up and said should we make it offical then and she didnt know what i meant. i aske dif she saw this as a date and she said no i just thought it was us meeting. i said yes it was and apoligized for making it seem like i was pushing it to fast. she gave me another hug and said its ok. I basically felt like an idiot.

so know I'm confused on what to do next. Just keep hanging out with her and letting it happen?

I'm also confused on how often I should communicate with her. Again I don;t want to look clingy but I also want to show interest.

thanks