How to approach men if you're really shy and which men to approach?

[bobjustbob]

I just started stripping and I found it incredibly difficult and awkward to approach men and just start up a conversation and then turn it into "would you like a lap dance?" without making it sound too ********.. and also which men should I go after? How do I know if they want me to talk to them?

 

[gunslingingbird]

I should move this to the For The Curious section.

 

[Mr_Stiffy]

Last edited by bobjustbob; Today at 05:44. Reason: This is not my question. I'm asking for a friend.

D'oh!! Of all the details to forget, eh bobsy?

Tell your friend the ones that were staring and dribbling when she was doing her main routine are the ones to go after. Just go up to them and say "I think you liked what you saw." If they respond in the affirmative but she still isn't sure, add "Well, let me know if you want a dance" and go to leave him. Some will probably perk up and say "actually now that you mention it..." If on the other hand they react like a hungry dog that's having sausages dangled in front of their face, just ask "Would you like dance?" because there's no need for coy at this stage.

That could all be bollocks, of course. I've never studied the behaviour of strippers or their clientele, or interacted with them. Not once. No siree Bob(s).

 

[assari]

bob, I did not know that you're homo, but I recommend this;

Forget the stripping and go talk to men in the normal way.

Hetero asks:

What is a shemale?

Woman in a man's body/Man in a woman's body

 

[Jack Davenport]

Tell your "friend" to start with the story of how a woman that is raising 4 ******** alone and can hardly feed them is in the dressing room of the strip joint selling sexy little outfits to the dancers to make ends meet.

Then your "friend" should ask the customer if he likes her outfit. If the guy says yes, then she should tell him that she needs 100 dollars to pay the lady for it and she can keep it and wear it all night since..I.. ahem.. I mean the customer likes it so much.

 

[lurkingdirk]

"I suppose a fuck's out of the question?"

Fifty percent of the time, it works every time.