From experience, if you have been with a hot girl, this question is for you. How do you approach them? and if then what do you say?
How to approach a hot girl?
- Thread starter izabelplayer
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Usually "If you dont scream, I wont cut ya." Seriously though, it has nothing to do with what you say; cheesy lines etc..
It's all about being confident, If you walk up to her timidly she will not be interested.
You have to approach her with the attitude that she should be speaking to you not vice versa, just dont act like a narcissist dick.
It's all about being confident, If you walk up to her timidly she will not be interested.
You have to approach her with the attitude that she should be speaking to you not vice versa, just dont act like a narcissist dick.
Skyraider22
The One and Only Big Daddy
Be yourself don't be fake be cool and calm everything else will workout.Trust me I'm a Doctor:1orglaugh:1orglaugh
approach with your dick hanging out.
Big Poppa Pump
- My Name Is My Name -
Go up to the girl and say "How YOU doin!" 
Yeah, no cheesy pick up lines for any girl. Just talk to them as if you're meeting a new friend. Ask questions about them. If you're at a bar and you're both waiting to order your drink, I usually offer a shot instead of a drink (it saves me money instead of a mixed drink) and I let them choose the shot. After that, I would limit the conversation for just a little bit at the bar itself and then wander off to your friends for a little bit and try and somehow run into her later and strike up another conversation. I dunno, usually works for me. One of my friends is not shy at all about approaching women and he gets them following him almost everywhere, his problems come later on in the night because he's a lush and then they are no longer impressed when he's wasted so if you're trying to meet a girl and impress her, do not get shit-faced, do that later when you are at least friends if not dating and then you'll be somebody she can take care of or just wanna strip your clothes off when you're passed out
The key to approaching a hot girl is to think of all the ways she has been treated and approached before.
If she is "hot", she has obviously heard every pick up line, and every joke there is. Don't walk up and introduce yourself and make small talk.
Be kind of a smart ass. Let her know that her beauty doesn't phase you. Treat her like a normal girl, or better yet, an ugly girl. Be in control and she will have a slight attraction to you, even if it's 1%.
For instance, I was at a bar, and there was an attractive girl next to me, and a not so attractive girl behind her. I asked the bartender to give the lady (I pointed in her direction) her favorite drink. The hot girl started to say her drink order and wasn't too flattered (she's obviously been in this position before). I interrupted her and said, "Oh, sorry, I meant her" and pointed to the other girl who was shocked. I put a 5 and a few 1 dollar bills on the table and walked away. For the rest of the night the hot girl kept looking my way and walking by in front of me.
The key was that I treated her in a way she wasn't used to being treated. You'll stand out.
If she is "hot", she has obviously heard every pick up line, and every joke there is. Don't walk up and introduce yourself and make small talk.
Be kind of a smart ass. Let her know that her beauty doesn't phase you. Treat her like a normal girl, or better yet, an ugly girl. Be in control and she will have a slight attraction to you, even if it's 1%.
For instance, I was at a bar, and there was an attractive girl next to me, and a not so attractive girl behind her. I asked the bartender to give the lady (I pointed in her direction) her favorite drink. The hot girl started to say her drink order and wasn't too flattered (she's obviously been in this position before). I interrupted her and said, "Oh, sorry, I meant her" and pointed to the other girl who was shocked. I put a 5 and a few 1 dollar bills on the table and walked away. For the rest of the night the hot girl kept looking my way and walking by in front of me.
The key was that I treated her in a way she wasn't used to being treated. You'll stand out.
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Approach as if she were an average looking chick. Do not buy her a drink or act as though you're meeting a new friend or that's exactly what you will get.....a friend! Talk to her like already know her. Because you're a cool guy that does this kind of thing all the time and you "already" have a few hot chicks.:yinyang:
Ace Bandage
The one and only.
If she's really hot, you just walk up and say, "Hey let's get a look at that snatch." This works 90% of the time.
jod0565
Member, you member...
Wow. I'm so glad there are so many helpful members here.
I've learned a lot myself.
Now to go apply what I need to do - learn to gore, buy chloroform, rob one with my dick out, stay out of her friend zone, treat her like a normal girl but differently, and be cool.
Got it.
Oh, and ask to see her snatch!
I've learned a lot myself.
Now to go apply what I need to do - learn to gore, buy chloroform, rob one with my dick out, stay out of her friend zone, treat her like a normal girl but differently, and be cool.
Got it.
Oh, and ask to see her snatch!
jasonk282
Banned
One last though, you might need to smack her and spit on her, I have seen it in porn they seem to like that
generally i find that hot women prefer when i make small-talk with her breasts instead of her face.
frankly, i prefer it too.
frankly, i prefer it too.
That's so crazy it just might work!!! :thumbsup:
Or you could try acting gay. It seems like "hot" girls love to hang with gay guys. Sure, you won't get in her pants.... at least not right away.
All you have to do is have sex with another guy and you're in! I can't try it, cause I'm kinda shy... and not gay. But you can! Let me know how it goes! I kid, I kid. :glugglug:On a serious note, I once had a hot girl approach me! We made eye contact a couple times, but I didn't pick up on anything. Kind of just thought she noticed me eyeing her. But later on, she came up to me, introduced herself, and asked me my name. We chatted for a while and gave me her number. I honestly thought maybe she was playing me at first, but she was really serious. She was one of those girls you see sometimes that you think is almost untouchable. Didn't think I would have a chance when I first saw her, so I didn't even consider trying. Glad I didn't! :thumbsup:
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