Like setting outside that mountain for in lord of the rings (i honestly enjoy their company and chatter but.. priorities, right?
Then it opens!... Kinda. You push into it, you find that no matter what, you are still dry and she can only share so much. Per thrust. So you aren't really "in" for a good 3 pushes.
Then... Depending on how long it had been her age, the situation, etc..
It is either "omg why do ppl get jobs and throw game (impress, flirt, etc) to get this? I like jerking off, more"
orrrrr.. if it's been forever and you went into the night knowing, hungry af.. waiting thru dinner and chat and smooches..
Then it becomes magical. Even touching the area with your purple plunger creates the shakes. Sliding inside slows down time like the matrix, you lose focus and could probably create a sex crime because you NEED this. Then, if you are young.. instinct rushes in and you are just a passenger in your own wad of flesh.
If you're old, it's like picking up that weapon and enjoying the trigger pull, the sights, the report of each shot.. it's home.
Then you cum whenever and you either do the helpless, don't wanna move at all kinda thing, or you get your wife a warm towel and create aftershocks so she'll be reminded that you are 1000 lbs that doesn't feel like moving, but you luff her so by Jove, your putting in work!