How do I get my wife to go with another man?
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- niyla styers
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If you've been together 10 years and are a couple of “pervs,” it would seem to me to be a simple act of telling her what you'd like to do.
But since I'm guessing you're not wanting the direct approach, I would suggest starting with the 2 of you having a causal conversation about sexual fantasies, both hers and yours. (And who knows, You Might get lucky.) Whatever you do, don't start with what you're wanting as the first thing or even the first few things. You want to bury it behind things that are hopefully more outlandish but not too obscene (things like an FFM or MMF 3 way, her being with another girl as you watch, or her getting fucked by another guy as you watch), so that the idea of you wanting to watch her suck or stroke another guy's cock isn't as far out there in comparison. And if you don't already use sex toys in bed, then you'll need to add that little fantasy after the desire to see her suck or stroke another guy. Be careful to not push too hard, and if you have to, keep the discussion as more of a curiosity and for the sake of fun than actually acting on them, but still leaving open the possibility of maybe the 2 of you acting on some of the milder fantasies or fulfilling them with a twist to make them easier to fulfill.
It's this twist that you're looking to exploit if you must, as to start with, you want to ease her into performing a sexual act on another man while you watch by having her do it to a harmless dildo first. If she already has a dildo, then you can ask her to just get it out one night, and if not, you'll need to bring up the discussion of sexual fantasies and express the desire to maybe fulfill some of them, starting with something easy, like adding toys to sex. The point here being to get her to select a dildo to her liking and that she'll be comfortable with sucking, but it would be best if it were more realistic to better simulate the desired end action.
Start with asking her to suck on the dildo as you go down on her, the professed purpose being to lubricate it for when you toy her pussy with it in a few minutes, but the real purpose for you to get her to suck it for your benefit. Don't watch more than the occasional glance, just enjoy the sounds and make sure you give her good oral. After you use the dildo in her pussy and when you move on to having sex, ask her to suck on it while you're fucking her from behind, where you can watch over her shoulder and tell her how much it turns you on (and your actions behind her should also speak to this) and ask her if she's enjoying it (you're wanting her to enjoy it), referring to the dildo as a cock and only as a cock except for when you initially ask her to get it out.
You'll want to do this several times, but not too frequently, and then when she's used to the request and happily does so most if not every time, ask her to do it while you watch because she looks so lovely doing it. As you watch, caress her body and finger her, telling her the whole time how good she looks doing it and how much you're enjoying watching her. The idea here being that you want to make this about her, and not you, so once she's put on the show, make sure you fuck her good while telling her how turned on her act has made you.
Eventually, she should get to the point where she'll want to put on the show for you as a prelude to sex, but if not, move on to asking her to suck the dildo with her facing you so that you can look into each other's eyes, and as you tell her how beautiful she looks sucking the toy (this being the first time you actually refer to the dildo as anything but a cock as she's playing with it), you know she'd look even more gorgeous sucking on a real one and that you would love to see her sucking another guy as you watch, and ask her if she would like to do that.
Since a blowjob is much more intimate than a handjob, and often hand work is involved in a blowjob, you should have no problem getting her to jerk a guy if she'll suck him.
You may also want to use a dildo with a suction base so you can mix things up a bit by sticking it beside you on the shower wall or to the top of a table (or anywhere else it'll stick), where she can go back and forth sucking it and you while jerking the other or jerking you both at the same time.
But since I'm guessing you're not wanting the direct approach, I would suggest starting with the 2 of you having a causal conversation about sexual fantasies, both hers and yours. (And who knows, You Might get lucky.) Whatever you do, don't start with what you're wanting as the first thing or even the first few things. You want to bury it behind things that are hopefully more outlandish but not too obscene (things like an FFM or MMF 3 way, her being with another girl as you watch, or her getting fucked by another guy as you watch), so that the idea of you wanting to watch her suck or stroke another guy's cock isn't as far out there in comparison. And if you don't already use sex toys in bed, then you'll need to add that little fantasy after the desire to see her suck or stroke another guy. Be careful to not push too hard, and if you have to, keep the discussion as more of a curiosity and for the sake of fun than actually acting on them, but still leaving open the possibility of maybe the 2 of you acting on some of the milder fantasies or fulfilling them with a twist to make them easier to fulfill.
It's this twist that you're looking to exploit if you must, as to start with, you want to ease her into performing a sexual act on another man while you watch by having her do it to a harmless dildo first. If she already has a dildo, then you can ask her to just get it out one night, and if not, you'll need to bring up the discussion of sexual fantasies and express the desire to maybe fulfill some of them, starting with something easy, like adding toys to sex. The point here being to get her to select a dildo to her liking and that she'll be comfortable with sucking, but it would be best if it were more realistic to better simulate the desired end action.
Start with asking her to suck on the dildo as you go down on her, the professed purpose being to lubricate it for when you toy her pussy with it in a few minutes, but the real purpose for you to get her to suck it for your benefit. Don't watch more than the occasional glance, just enjoy the sounds and make sure you give her good oral. After you use the dildo in her pussy and when you move on to having sex, ask her to suck on it while you're fucking her from behind, where you can watch over her shoulder and tell her how much it turns you on (and your actions behind her should also speak to this) and ask her if she's enjoying it (you're wanting her to enjoy it), referring to the dildo as a cock and only as a cock except for when you initially ask her to get it out.
You'll want to do this several times, but not too frequently, and then when she's used to the request and happily does so most if not every time, ask her to do it while you watch because she looks so lovely doing it. As you watch, caress her body and finger her, telling her the whole time how good she looks doing it and how much you're enjoying watching her. The idea here being that you want to make this about her, and not you, so once she's put on the show, make sure you fuck her good while telling her how turned on her act has made you.
Eventually, she should get to the point where she'll want to put on the show for you as a prelude to sex, but if not, move on to asking her to suck the dildo with her facing you so that you can look into each other's eyes, and as you tell her how beautiful she looks sucking the toy (this being the first time you actually refer to the dildo as anything but a cock as she's playing with it), you know she'd look even more gorgeous sucking on a real one and that you would love to see her sucking another guy as you watch, and ask her if she would like to do that.
Since a blowjob is much more intimate than a handjob, and often hand work is involved in a blowjob, you should have no problem getting her to jerk a guy if she'll suck him.
You may also want to use a dildo with a suction base so you can mix things up a bit by sticking it beside you on the shower wall or to the top of a table (or anywhere else it'll stick), where she can go back and forth sucking it and you while jerking the other or jerking you both at the same time.
Wow! Thank you very much for your suggestions - I will give that a go! Yes, we do use sex toys; I have various cock rings (normal + vibrating ones), a prostate massager and a FleshLight. She has a couple of bullet vibes and a dildo and some vibrators. Shall I let you know how things go?!
I know what you mean, but I just really, *really*, have an urge to watch her pleasure another man. I consider myself to be reasonably well endowed (!) but I'd love to see her blow or stroke off a seriously huge cock.
ok..let me give you some good advice if you must do this. find a guy out of town...chat with him and get to know him well. make sure he is clean and decent. take your time and get to know him as a person. DON'T do this with a guy that you see on daily bases or a friend . trust me on this one...after you have your fun you will want it to go away unless you get a wild hair again you or her never have to see this guy again. don't lay the time you been married on the line for a hour of fantasy. you don't have to. you can meet guys on swinger sites and find out everything you want to know. take your time and make sure they are a CLEAR understanding
Thanks for all your advice. I want to do it so that she doesn't know the other guy etc. We just meet, do it - and that's it done. The nearest thing we have done to this is a few years ago one night I had her hand cuffed and blindfolded and I began fondling her etc, but I'd arranged for another guy to come round and I got him to lick her out. She was obviously aware it wasn't just me there and she loved that experience.
Antonella Kahllo
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I agree with Smithus, It can be very risky, what if they like each other and suddenly they develop physical feelings, one thing can lead to another..
babybattersplatter
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Just install a hidden nanny cam pointed ot your bed and leave for work and moniter the tape periodically.
If needed try putting ben gay or sciracha powder on your tongue and eat her out when she is drunk then she will be so mad that
she will never let you close to her ever again and you will eventually get your sex tape
If needed try putting ben gay or sciracha powder on your tongue and eat her out when she is drunk then she will be so mad that
she will never let you close to her ever again and you will eventually get your sex tape
ALWays Ash
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Just tell her hon. My hubby and I were together 2 years when he told me his desires for a m,m,f, threesome. It took a couple years after that for us to act on it. It's been fun. Just sex. We chose much younger men. It took three to find the best one. There's no pressure when you feel that the guy coming into your bed is only there for sex. What young guy wants a woman 13 years older than himself, other than for sex? Hope this helps a little from a woman's perspective. Xoxo Ashleigh
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Just tell her hon. My hubby and I were together 2 years when he told me his desires for a m,m,f, threesome. It took a couple years after that for us to act on it. It's been fun. Just sex. We chose much younger men. It took three to find the best one. There's no pressure when you feel that the guy coming into your bed is only there for sex. What young guy wants a woman 13 years older than himself, other than for sex? Hope this helps a little from a woman's perspective. Xoxo Ashleigh
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Just tell her hon. My hubby and I were together 2 years when he told me his desires for a m,m,f, threesome. It took a couple years after that for us to act on it. It's been fun. Just sex. We chose much younger men. It took three to find the best one. There's no pressure when you feel that the guy coming into your bed is only there for sex. What young guy wants a woman 13 years older than himself, other than for sex? Hope this helps a little from a woman's perspective. Xoxo Ashleigh
babybattersplatter
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I will not comment and quickly close my account as always ash did
Let me have at her for 30 minutes for a tutorial on rounding the bases.
Believe me she you and I would be able to find an acceptable agreement
Let me have at her for 30 minutes for a tutorial on rounding the bases.
Believe me she you and I would be able to find an acceptable agreement
It would be better if you find out that she's doing that without your permission. That's called cheating but approved by husband
Everyone with higher level of sexuality, wants to try something new, and that's right. I know several couples who don't have problems with that "cheating". Both partners know they have some secret affairs,but no one have problem with that.So, yes for exploring sexuality, having unlimited sexual partners.
Everyone with higher level of sexuality, wants to try something new, and that's right. I know several couples who don't have problems with that "cheating". Both partners know they have some secret affairs,but no one have problem with that.So, yes for exploring sexuality, having unlimited sexual partners.
babybattersplatter
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ever stop to think she not wanr to pass on aids or another std or crabs to you from another guy
Here is something for you https://noveltrove.com/the-making-of-a-hotwife
