I don't really have the appearance or give the impression that hitting me would be a good idea... for a male or a female. So no, never been in a really violent situation in a relationship - though I had a vase thrown at me once, but she "
decided" to sweep it up as fast as she threw it (for some reason

).
IMO, people should really learn to act like civilized adults and keep their hands to themselves. And that applies to females as well as males. If you don't want to get hit, don't hit. Is that so hard to understand? :dunno: