ChefChiTown
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No, I dismissed your comment because the murderer already admitted he hated homosexuals, while you you were just speculating.
If sometimes I don't reply to your comments, is not because I have nothing to rebut them with, but perhaps because your comments have become too redundant IMHO, despite all the information given.
How am I the one who is speculating when it clearly states that they are still investigating this case, because they are clearly trying to find out if it is or isn't a hate crime?
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Also, if the killer admitted that he was a homophobe, it doesn't automatically mean that he killed this kid because he was gay. That's an assumption, not a fact. Maybe he just so happened to be gay. Maybe it's just an unfortunate circumstance. You don't know what happened and you don't know why this kid got murdered, so stop assuming things that aren't necessarily true.
Perhaps because being decapitated, mutilated and burned is not exactly the same as "getting his ass kicked."![]()
You compared rape to decapatation. People in glass houses...
Ummm, interesting how some people empathize with criminal and not with the actual victim. Don't we all sometimes act naive, or just plain stupid??? Does that somehow means we should punish the criminal less severely because they took advantage of a lapse of judgement?
I'm not empathizing shit. Just because I'm not calling for the accused murderer to be put to death doesn't mean that I condone what he did. You are taking this case personally, as you feel a meaningless connection with the victim - I get it. But, don't expect everybody to feel the same way you do. Personally, I think you are clearly over-reacting, but you don't see it that way. You feel as if your anger is justified, and that's fine. You have every right to feel the way you do, about anything, but just because you have that right doesn't mean that everybody has to (or will) agree with you.
...the whole community becomes terrorized and fear for their lives just for being who they are.
Yes, because they want to. My ex-girlfriend is gay, but she's not living her life in terror just because some stupid people did some stupid things to other gay people; other gay people that she doesn't even know.
Is it a sad thing that this kid got murdered? Yes, it is. Does it make it even more sad, just because he's gay and it could possibly be a hate crime? Nope, not at all. Like I said, terrible shit happens to everybody, each and every day, so why should people feel worse about cases like this? Why? Because he's gay? What does that matter? Why should people feel worse because he's gay? If this kid was straight, it wouldn't even be news to most people. People would almost ignore this story if this kid wasn't gay, but, since he is gay, people are supposed to feel terrible about it just because he's not straight? That doesn't make any sense. I mean, what if he was bi-sexual? Should I just feel slightly worse than I would if he was straight?
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Obviously most crimes have an element of hatred, but when we talk about "hate crimes", we are refering to those that happen when the crime is motivated by bigoted sentiments towards a community as a whole.
Once again, you and your community talk. Let me ask you something...
Do you feel as if you are part of the community that is being effected by this crime? You don't know this kid. You don't live by this kid. You've never seen this kid or talked to this kid and you've never even known that this kid existed until just recently. Yet, you still choose to act as if you, and "the community", has some sort of deep, meaningful and whole-hearted connection with this kid and that you're directly effected by the events that took place in HIS life?
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As I stated before, my ex-girlfriend is gay. Do you think she's now full of fear and angst, just because this kid got murdered? Do you think she's terrified for her life and overwhelmed with a sense of being outcast? Do you think she lives her life in a constant state of terror, continuously fearing for her life, just because she's "different" and this kid's murder somehow sent her and her fellow "community" a message of hatred? No. No, she doesn't. Why? Because, she doesn't choose to make herself different by trying to associate herself with people and situations that have no bearing on her life what-so-ever. That's exactly what you're doing right now.
It's unfortunate that this kid was murdered, but it doesn't effect your life what-so-ever. Everybody feels hatred and everybody has a reason to be fearful for their life. People need to stop using their differences (sexuality, race, gender, etc) as a tool to gain sympathy from the world.
Just like we punish terrorists more severely because they want to kill us just for being American, we should also punish those who seek to terrorize a community of people because they are "different."
See, here's the thing - you aren't helping your cause in this being "different" bullshit. It's people like you (you aren't the only one) that cry about being treated like an outcast just because you are "different", but turn right around and remind the whole entire world that you are, in fact, DIFFERENT. So, if you want to be treated as if you aren't different, don't make it a point to remind everybody how different you are, how bad you have it, how society shuns you, etc.
Also, this is not even close to being similar to terrorism. The fact that you are even trying to compare the two just proves how unnecessarily upset you are about this. Americans get murdered every single day in other countries, because they are Americans. Where are your threads about those news stories? Why don't you choose to make a connection with those people?
Why only get riled up about a gay kid who got murdered?
...we both know the answer to that already.