Happy and Harley

[Mr_Stiffy]

Wait til the world finds out about Anders and I.

"Finds out" what, that sometimes you let him be the big spoon?

 

[EggMcMoofin]

Wait til the world finds out about Anders and I.


The world will never be the same.

We've seen the photos...and the videos...and we STILL haven't figured out how what you did together was possible.

 

[FreeOnes_Adam]

We've seen the photos...and the videos...and we STILL haven't figured out how what you did together was possible.

 

[larss]

It's my kickass stamp collection, isn't it? I'm telling you people here... lovely ladies love postage. It's totally a thing. I swear.

It's all the licking practice that a large stamp collections entails.

 

[dpantski]

I think some people have problems distinguishing between someone who is a stuck up celebrity who has let fame go to their head and someone who just happens to have a job that puts them in the public eye. Being famous doesn't make someone aloof and condescending and whatnot providing they're grounded in reality and sensible.

Anyway that's not really important, congrats to Happy and Harley! Should we start fusing your names together and call you Harpy now?

 

[HappyHapyJoyJoy]

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to HappyHapyJoyJoy again.

Ugh, but I had such a good reason this millionth time.

Huh... I honestly have no idea what that reason is...

i dont know. you did say you had a stamp collection...

I... may have exaggerated that. And by exaggerated I mean lied. And by lied I mean I don't think I own a single stamp that isn't affixed to an envelope. I... I just wanted everyone to think I was cool! :bawling:

Is that even a word?

It's a perfectly cromulent word. Ask anyone. Also, if you have to ask if it's a word you have obviously never watched Harley eat a sandwich. It's so cute!

Wait til the world finds out about Anders and I.

You figure the pull page ad Anders took out in the NY Times didn't get the job done?

It's all the licking practice that a large stamp collections entails.

That... would probably not impress Harley...

Oh, and thanks to everyone who has offered their congratulations... or in Bob's case condolences.

 

[Mr_Stiffy]

It's a perfectly cromulent word.

Good work.

Ya bastard.

 

[jitna]

I... may have exaggerated that. And by exaggerated I mean lied. And by lied I mean I don't think I own a single stamp that isn't affixed to an envelope. I... I just wanted everyone to think I was cool! :bawling:

i feel so betrayed!

 

[D-rock]

Wait til the world finds out about Anders and I.


The world will never be the same.

Let me guess, the world will be shocked when they see video evidence of you and Anders doing actual work without Petra forcing you to do it at the tip of a stabby object.

 

[FreeOnes_Adam]

Let me guess, the world will be shocked when they see video evidence of you and Anders doing actual work without Petra forcing you to do it at the tip of a stabby object.

All she's missing the the black executioner's hood. :dominatrix:

 

[bobjustbob]

Let me guess, the world will be shocked when they see video evidence of you and Anders doing actual work without Petra forcing you to do it at the tip of a stabby object.

No, the world would be shocked to see Petra actually in the office. To take the effort to find and use the pointy stick herself? Ha. This is the same woman that claimed her schedule was bogged down finding someone to get ice and red cups for a party in LA.

 

[D-rock]

No, the world would be shocked to see Petra actually in the office. To take the effort to find and use the pointy stick herself? Ha. This is the same woman that claimed her schedule was bogged down finding someone to get ice and red cups for a party in LA.

One thing I wonder about with the whole tape dispenser thingy is if they never use it, and thus never go and replace it because they don't use it how did it get empty in the first place? I think there must be a conspiracy, or at least a really weird and unspeakable tape fetish for Anders.

 

[bobjustbob]

One thing I wonder about with the whole tape dispenser thingy is if they never use it, and thus never go and replace it because they don't use it how did it get empty in the first place? I think there must be a conspiracy, or at least a really weird and unspeakable tape fetish for Anders.

I forgot about the tape thing. They keep it in another building. Is tape the only thing they keep way over there in it's own building?

 

[FreeOnes_Adam]

No, the world would be shocked to see Petra actually in the office. To take the effort to find and use the pointy stick herself? Ha. This is the same woman that claimed her schedule was bogged down finding someone to get ice and red cups for a party in LA.

I had one job, and that was not it.

 

[Supafly]

Would that sentiment be treated just the same if I had met him at a bar, club, party, wedding, grocery store, or library? Would you treat other girls the same, regardless of whether they show off their naked bodies online? Say a customer was hitting on a waitress, got her number, and they started dating. Would every other customer who ever hit on her have a right to get upset because she didn't date them too and cry, "Why not me?"

This is one of the attitudes that bugs me the most about girls who work in the adult industry. There have been numerous threads on here about seeing a porn star in the grocery store or other public place, who's slept with which porn star before or after they became famous, and many others along those lines. Do you know how many girls are doing porn, whether for a big company or small homemade videos? Thousands. There is no doubt in my mind that every single person on this forum has come across at least one girl in porn in their lives, whether they knew it or not, and many aren't recognized. We're just regular people. Millions of people have seen me at the grocery store, going on walks, sitting at the beach, at parties, at regular jobs, etc. Dozens have slept with me, and I've been in plenty of relationships. Very few have made a big deal out of it.

If anyone were to get angry that I'm dating someone who was/is my fan, perhaps rather than asking, "Why not me?" they should be asking, "Why him?" What makes him stand out from the rest? Why don't I sleep with every random fan who's ever paid me a compliment? Maybe because there's a little more depth to winning me over than a fat wallet and a cat call.

That is the same annoying attitude that every so-called nice guy has whined about girls supposedly only dating assholes. Maybe those guys aren't really all that nice, and who wants to sit around listening to a guy crying about not getting girls all the time? Self righteousness, entitlement and pity doesn't make anyone appealing. And something tells me that if all these nice guys suddenly, magically started getting laid left and right, pretty soon they would be just as cocky and equally assholish as the guys they used to bitch about, just the same as when someone poor becomes rich, someone ugly gets a makeover, a nerd becomes popular, it goes to their heads, they get massive egos, they lose all their old friends, everyone starts to hate them, and they end up right where they started. Alone and wallowing in self pity.

Anyway, if you knew much about me or bothered to read my forum posts over the years, you'd know that I don't leave much of my life out of my work. I am an open book. I've posted about my past relationships, sex problems, boyfriend problems, talked about my experiences with drinking, drugs, how high school was for me, some of what my family is like, my financial situations, etc. It's part of who I am and what makes me Harley Spencer. I like to stay as real as possible. The only things I'm not going to tell the world include my personal address, who my family is, what school I went to, what my cell phone number is, or anything else that might otherwise clue someone in to stalk me. Aside from that, I really don't care what people know about my personal life, and if anyone gets upset about it, that's not my problem, and they have bigger issues to worry about than why I'm not sleeping with them. They could start by looking in the mirror. Do some soul searching. Read a book. Take a psychology class. Think of someone other than themselves for a change. Maybe everyone else isn't the problem- maybe it's the guy in the mirror.

Oh and by the way, I don't cam. See first sentence of the last paragraph.

I usually cut out some of the quoted text to condense it down to the point which I find sums it up. This one is on-spot in its whole length.

Over the years, I came from a sheer consumer of online erotica and porn to this forum, and had first contact in actual ineraction, not just as imaginary bedside playmates, with some of the women were absolute fantasies before.

Then it moved on, as, so to say, I learned that Unicorns take a poo and laugh at random jokes as much as I do.

But it really became a fantastic experience to become a moderator here and actually lend them a hand regarding handling people who call themselves fans but go way overboard in the process. Here comes the thing: WAY too many people still think about the women in the adult business as some sort of Creatures from Planet Porn who are to be treated like the aliens that they are. Which - as Harley points outr - they are not.

So if you can wrap your mind around the thought that they are women and people just like the girl working along with you, or you bump into at the grocery, you get it right.

And maybe you can begin to even understand: Every woman likes to be friends or date or be in a relationship with a man who likes sex and who knows she is not some sort of different - people are people

 

[FreeOnes_Adam]

I usually cut out some of the quoted text to condense it down to the point which I find sums it up.

take a poo

Nicely done.

 

[Supafly]

Where's da sammich, bro

 

[GodsEmbryo]

A new era of suffering for Harley has begun I see... :crying: I'll be here for you Harley, don't give up

Harley Spencer[/URL][/B], post: 8696408, member: 579739"]We are both super happy laying in bed every day watching movies and playing games.

Happy... dude... My joyful man... You're doing something wrong dude.

 

[bobjustbob]

Harley Spencer[/URL][/B], post: 8696408, member: 579739"]...We are both super happy laying in bed every day watching movies and playing games.

That kind of simple charm will soon fade. Imagine your life looking forward to that a year from now. Dump that lazy cheap bum now before it becomes too comforting and too late.

 

[Harley Spencer]

A new era of suffering for Harley has begun I see... :crying: I'll be here for you Harley, don't give up

Happy... dude... My joyful man... You're doing something wrong dude.

We are also having plenty of sex.

That kind of simple charm will soon fade. Imagine your life looking forward to that a year from now. Dump that lazy cheap bum now before it becomes too comforting and too late.

That can happen in any relationship, almost inevitably. I'm not worried about it. Been there, done that. Plus I happen to enjoy playing video games (Dragon Age Inquisition just came out a week ago and I have been glued to the screen ever since) and love movies, so it works out.

Maybe the trick is to find someone you enjoy getting comfortable with.