Fiance's bachelorette party is coming up

[Blix98]

My fiance's bachelorette party is coming up and she's going to a casino with her friends. She wants to make sure I'm not offended by anything she does and wants to know hat her limits should be. I know she means like going to a strip club or dancing with other guys but I'm actually comfortable with her being much more wild. I wouldn't want her having sex but I would be ok if she met a guy she liked and gave him a blowjob.

Should I be honest with her about his or keep it to myself? I think she would be surprised by it.

 

[LaLiLuLeLohan]

That's a tough one. I guess you could try joking about it and see how she responds. If she jokes back, keep going until it starts a real conversation.

Or if she asks you again whet her limits should be, tell her directly. Say that you know that she'll be with friends and drinking in a party atmosphere and tell her exactly what you're OK with and what you're not.

Either way, it's awesome that you're so open to your girl having so much fun.

 

[Blix98]

That's basically what I've started doing. I was asking her about how wild she's going to get and she said they weren't going to go too wild, they would probably go to a club at night. She jokingly said maybe she'll dance with some guys, expecting to get a rise out of me. I told her straight faced that was fine and that I'd let her do more than that. She was confused by that and asked me what I meant. I told her I'd let her do more than just dance with another guy. She asked me "like what?" and I told her "like give him a blowjob". She was shocked, she kept asking me "really?" as if to finally get me to say I'm joking but I kept telling her yes every time she asked. She seemed surprised but not offended by it which is good. I don't know if she'll actually do it but at least she now knows and I guess we'll see what happens.

 

[XXXFreak]

if your gonna let her give a guy a blowjob why not just let her fuck them too?

 

[Blix98]

They're going this Friday and Saturday. She's been teasing me about which I find hot. She's really gotten into the idea of fooling around with other guys more than I thought. We both agree that full sex is more than either of us would consider at this point. It's too intimate to share with someone else. Oral though is much more casual which is why I'm ok with it.

 

[laidoff2]

When and where is this party?

 

[Blix98]

It was this past weekend. She did go out to the a club and told me she got flirty with some guys, dancing, grinding, taking selfies and such. Nothing more than that, she wasn't ready for it and it her friends would have known something was up. She did pick up some numbers though of guys she met which she was proud to tell me about. I told her she should reach out to them, at least trade some pics if nothing else.

 

[Blix98]

Quick update, she's been trading some flirty pics with one of the guys she met. He loves them and his comments are such a turn on to the both of us.