Female masturbation wasteful?

[Harley Spencer]

Fair point. But a vibrator can't rip off your clothes, throw you on the bed, hold you down, lay on top of you and put all its weight on you as it deeply penetrates you while holding you down and/or spanking your ass or reaching around and fingering your honey pot or a vibrator can't kiss your neck or nibble on your ear or caress your breasts or passionately kiss you and tell you how great you small and how wonderful it feels to have your body pressed against it and then fill you with a massively warm creampie while looking deep into your eyes and telling you how much it loves you while it holds you in its arms and brings you to bed with its arms draped over you with your body pressed tightly against the vibrator while the 2 of you spoon yourselves to sleep and enjoy the feeling you just experienced.

Vibrators/dildos are nice - they are always hard when guys are not - but my guess is more often that not you'd rather have the real thing and all it entails.

This is true. More often than not, I'd rather have the real thing. However, sometimes I just want to cum and if I relied solely on a man to give me an orgasm, I would be one sad little lady.

 

[ban-one]

I think I understand what you're saying.....

Based on the assumption (which is incorrect, but never mind) that the act of masturbation is always purely and simply a substitute/inferior replacement for sex with another human being and that that assumption holds true as much for women as it does for men (which is even more likely to be incorrect)... then what you're saying is that because by and large a woman is far more likely to be able to just go out and find someone to fuck than a man, so why should any of them have to be masturbating at any given time?

Well.... probably because just going out into the street and finding someone to fuck is just a terrible idea that can lead you to encounter all manner of creepy and potentially dangerous guys? Lord knows, if women were just out there thinking "I'll fuck anyone" then I'd be out on my street corner right now this second just sitting on the wall with a hopeful look on my face.

Wait... what did I just say??

Fact is, if you don't have a significant other or at least a booty call/fuckbuddy, a gal is just as inclined to take matters into her own hands as we are. God bless them, long may they continue.

There's also times when your regular provider of sex isn't available or you need the job done quickly because you don't have much time available, and you need satisfaction or relief right now.

 

[SpexyAshleigh]

Sex can be complicated. So can men. Sometimes you just want the D without any of the extra stuff attached (having to please a man, dealing with protection, having to seek out sex if you're single, having to deal with guys who either can't get it up or cum too fast, having to worry about cleanup and even just not wanting to be with a man and just wanting his D...) .....and thats where dildos come in. Keep in mind that for us, having sex runs a higher risk of not reaching climax than it does for you so sometimes, fucking a dude is just a waste of time. I'd rather spend a night with my hitachi than have a one night stand because the satisfaction rate is 100%, and I don't have to deal with all of the above mentioned things.

Sure, having a fancy five course meal is a great experience, but once in awhile you'll find yourself hitting up the drive-thru window for that double quarter pounder because it tastes good, is easy, cheap and just damn convenient.

 

[Anonyne#017]

Petra[/URL][/B], post: 8365148, member: 114093"]Aren't you afraid your dick will lose sensation from jerking it so much?

Seriously....

Men.

This was actually pretty serious question...

 

[Rey C.]

So far I've broken dozens of dildos and between Donna Ambrose and myself we've destroyed two fucking machines! :notworking:

Well, yeah... but letting you two try out one of those things would be like letting an F1 driver test drive a passenger car.

I have a concept that might work for you, Donna and maybe even Lady Sonia too. We're going to start with a 5.3 liter Jag V12 as the power unit. The frame will be carbon fiber (or since you're British, carbon fibre), complete with titanium hold-down bolts (got to be secured to a concrete floor). We'll put a 5 speed, dual clutch, paddle shift transmission on it, for those times when slow-medium-fast just isn't enough. I know what you're thinking: "how do I get the chance to test this amazing machine?" Well, that's the catch. It'll be built in my garage and you and the girls have to come here to try it out. But I'll have some mood lighting in there and I'll even put some ABBA or KC & the Sunshine Band on the 8-track to get you in the mood. Shoot me a PM when you're ready! You better get your name on the list now. These other OCSMs will be beating down the door once the word gets out. And I've already got Petra penciled in for this Saturday from 1PM-2:45PM.

 

[bigwarmload]

- Dicks? Not so much. Once men are able to get vibrators implanted into their penises, maybe I'll think about masturbating less.
- Oh, and my toys don't cum and go soft on me. I can use them however long I want, without having to please them, and they will always be hard.
- I'd rather have the real thing. However, sometimes I just want to cum and if I relied solely on a man to give me an orgasm, I would be one sad little lady.

Ummmm...., you need to upgrade to better dicks young lady.

 

[Mr_Stiffy]

Ummmm...., you need to upgrade to better dicks young lady.

:catpopcorn:

 

[SpexyAshleigh]

Ummmm...., you need to upgrade to better dicks young lady.

yeah but thats the thing, in order to find the PERFECT dick, we have to deal with all the other failure dicks that come before it. And unfortunately, we don't know if a dick is a good ride until we're in the middle of it all, and if the dick is a dud, it was time/effort wasted. Why put yourself through that when a Vikskin dildo is better/harder/longer lasting than alot, if not most dicks out there? Like...common sense brah.

 

[Petra]

This was actually pretty serious question...

It's not going to get broken FFS. Will it become less sensitive if you use a vibrator or dildo on it 5 hours straight. But so will your dick if you jerk it 5 hours straight. Take a break and it's all good to go again.

Unless you're going day in and day out for hours on end it'll be OK.

 

[bigwarmload]

yeah but thats the thing, in order to find the PERFECT dick, we have to deal with all the other failure dicks that come before it. And unfortunately, we don't know if a dick is a good ride until we're in the middle of it all, and if the dick is a dud, it was time/effort wasted. Why put yourself through that when a Vikskin dildo is better/harder/longer lasting than alot, if not most dicks out there? Like...common sense brah.

I was in no way implying a female should not masturbate (fingers, dildos, shampoo bottles, whatever ones fancy), choosing to do so even with or without an able dick at hand. And I totally get you concerning the "find", the same goes for women. A beautiful women with a smoking hot body can be a dud just the same when it comes to sex, sadly.

 

[MissHybrid]

This was actually pretty serious question...

I prefer the Sybian, in boxing.

 

[Anonyne#017]

It's not going to get broken FFS. Will it become less sensitive if you use a vibrator or dildo on it 5 hours straight. But so will your dick if you jerk it 5 hours straight. Take a break and it's all good to go again.

Unless you're going day in and day out for hours on end it'll be OK.

What? But you cannot really compare this fuzzing, buzzing, massaging and vibrating high tech beast straight from the future vs. limp dick men to a rough, dirty and hairy manhand vs. dipping the dick inside soft, warm and lovely pussy. If I was a woman and had a beast machine like that, there would be no need to even date men ever again. I could just go and play with that thing happily all day long with endless amount of strong and very intense orgasms without stress. This beast machine has much more horse power than my washing machines together, it's even walking on its own on the floor from the sheer strength. These beast machines will definetly destroy permanently anyone who is brave enough to dare to take a ride...

I prefer the Sybian, in boxing.

Nice magic tricks there! A white light and *boom* and the gloves were gone. Sadly the video finished just when I was about to get slightly turned on from this magic show... But I believe that the next magic trick would have been about getting that pixeled pointy thing to disappear somewhere, maybe tohether with some more clothing...

 

[Briana Lee]

Just think how much men find us hard to cope with now........now imagine if women didn't masturbate and relive some of their tensions.......not pretty right?! :eek:

 

[Maggie Green]

Well sometimes your regular dick is at work or something and you get horny! And the Hitachi is pretty much the best thing in the world : )

 

[Armanaeus]

I can't help but feel she should use a real dick instead of a dildo coz a dildo has no feelings.

I believe that's where some people would probably tell you that you are confusing love with sex. If love is about warmth and intimacy and sex is about fun and spontaneity, then You Might want a dildo for one, but you definitely don't need it for the other. Where one might want a dildo and where it doesn't belong is a crackerjack puzzle for you.

 

[Petra]

Well sometimes your regular dick is at work or something and you get horny! And the Hitachi is pretty much the best thing in the world : )

I still need to buy a hitachi...maybe I'll pick one up while I'm in the US on holiday in October. I'm sure I can find one in Vegas or LA.

 

[sexyjgirl]

Nothing against the high tech gizmos (I've used a few), but for me anymore a couple nicely lubricated fingers get me off quite well. They're always available, cheap, and they take me back to those early times in my life when I would get horny over the cute guy in biology class, go home and live out my fantasy in my bedroom. Those were the days.....

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[BingoTheDingo]

To quote a certain band, "Everybody needs some time, on their own."

 

[Maggie Green]

I still need to buy a hitachi...maybe I'll pick one up while I'm in the US on holiday in October. I'm sure I can find one in Vegas or LA.

Omg I'm sending you one!!!!! It's a must have!!!

 

[FreeOnes_Adam]

Maggie Green[/URL][/B], post: 8401860, member: 346743"]Omg I'm sending you one!!!!! It's a must have!!!

Great, there goes the "Sorry I Tracked Dog Shit in the Office" gift I was gonna get her.


On second thought, go ahead, get her one. It'll keep her busy and maybe she'll forget about Fame Fridays.