I ask because I look at the Actual Pic That Made You Cum Today thread and I think if some of the ladies ever logged on to this website and saw that thread and knew that guys were busting to them (and busting often) how would they feel about it. Would a few of them be flattered or just feel disgusted? Yes I admit I've been feeling guilty sometimes after I masturbate unless it was a really good orgasm like yesterday's round. Deep down I don't know what it is but I can't shake the feeling.
Feel Guilty After Masturbating?
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I look at it this way
Ask any woman if she is upset about being carded for potentially being UNDERAGE and 100% of them will say "NO"! 100% of them will say they are upset when they DON'T get carded because it means people don't think they are young. My sister is in her 40s. She has been married for 20+ years. She got carded a few years ago when she was in her 40s. She semi-joked about wanting to hug the person who asked and then take him home and show her appreciation for it
Same thing goes with women in the industry. They are more upset when guys are NOT jerking off to them than when they ARE! Guys jerking off to their pic means they find these women hot. Guys NOT jerking off to them means they don't find them hot. Ask any OCSM here and I guarantee you 100% of them will be more upset when guys don't jerk off to them than when they do. Not in front of them by in private they love it.........or don't mind it. Don't stand in front of someone you jerked off to and tell her you did it because that is creepy but on the internet - I doubt (m)any women mind because the alternative sucks.
Ask any woman if she is upset about being carded for potentially being UNDERAGE and 100% of them will say "NO"! 100% of them will say they are upset when they DON'T get carded because it means people don't think they are young. My sister is in her 40s. She has been married for 20+ years. She got carded a few years ago when she was in her 40s. She semi-joked about wanting to hug the person who asked and then take him home and show her appreciation for it
Same thing goes with women in the industry. They are more upset when guys are NOT jerking off to them than when they ARE! Guys jerking off to their pic means they find these women hot. Guys NOT jerking off to them means they don't find them hot. Ask any OCSM here and I guarantee you 100% of them will be more upset when guys don't jerk off to them than when they do. Not in front of them by in private they love it.........or don't mind it. Don't stand in front of someone you jerked off to and tell her you did it because that is creepy but on the internet - I doubt (m)any women mind because the alternative sucks.
Only if I think my dead grandparents are watching but I usually give a warning shout out so that's on them.
Ace Boobtoucher
Founder and Captain of the Douchepatrol
Only if I think my dog is watching. Or if I find out that the subject of the fantasization has been dead for a while. Then it's a little ewky.
Lolita_Borgia
Official Checked Star Member
Personally if guys are attracted to me & consider that I am fap material I take it as a compliment! If you work in the Adult Industry & are offended by guys jerking off to you - your in the wrong fucking business & should look for a career change... #JustSaying :yesyes:
Nope, I just feel a sudden urge to have yet another round...
Harley Spencer
Official Checked Star Member
We love it. If we didn't want people jerking off to us, we wouldn't be in this business. So keep it up! 
Not what I was expecting but thank you for a giving a female's perspective.
Personally if guys are attracted to me & consider that I am fap material I take it as a compliment! If you work in the Adult Industry & are offended by guys jerking off to you - your in the wrong fucking business & should look for a career change... #JustSaying :yesyes:
Thanks for confirming what I said - Harley, too
Along those lines:
Are you OK with a guy cumming up to you at some show or place where you are making a public appearance and tell you he Faps to you and/or did so last night or a few days ago?
I realize You Might not want to shake his hand (lol) but if someone just says that to you in persona nd is not creepy saying it - is that OK
We love it. If we didn't want people jerking off to us, we wouldn't be in this business. So keep it up!
Will do
Personally if guys are attracted to me & consider that I am fap material I take it as a compliment! If you work in the Adult Industry & are offended by guys jerking off to you - your in the wrong fucking business & should look for a career change... #JustSaying :yesyes:
Great comment.
And Lolita, I just jerk off to your pics right now! ;-)
You are one of my favorite girls! :-*
Little Red Wagon Repairman
MFOMBSoPGA
I feel guilty when I forget to masturbate.
I used to feel guilty in my 20's for reasons I won't get into. In my 30's now and all resemblance of guilt about it has vanished.
Harley Spencer
Official Checked Star Member
Of course. Anyone could come up to me anywhere and let me know they jerk off to me. So long as they're doing it to Harley Spencer, because they saw my content online, and not some random person who maybe saw me on the train, decided I'm pretty and masturbated when he got home. Basically, when I'm in my adult character, whether it's posting on here, at an event, on twitter, or whatever else, then any sort of sexual talk is awesome and exactly what I want. But if I'm on my own time, being my normal human self, and some random person starts acting sexual toward me (i.e. they know nothing about my modeling), that's where the line is drawn.
Lolita_Borgia
Official Checked Star Member
For me it's all about the way you say it - if you look & speak like some creepy ass rapist or flasher I will probably punch in the balls. But if you say it in a manner that 'is' flattering I will be flattered... but if you still have the cum on your hands I'm totally going to bitch slap you!!! :eek:
I never feels guilty. A adult performer knows that guy is going to jerk off to their movies or photos. I say own and be proud that a performer turned you on so much that you needed to jerk off.
