I look at it this way. If she gets off, there is a better chance of being a second time. there are a bunch of selfish guys out there who are only concerned about theirs. Heck, I know some women cheat on their hubbies cuz he doesn't take the time to make sure she is getting some fulfillment. Paying a little attention to her needs and wants goes a long way. Plus if you make sure she gets hers, you get a mulligan from time to time.