It's a sad state of affairs when it comes to belittling a woman for being a sex worker. Hey, I'm no progressive feminist here at all but it's a bunch of shit to even question if a porn star, hooker, etc. can really fall in love and live the normal life of a breeder. I think it's been proven that after some legitimately retire, they do move into domesticity and plainness. Hell, I bet if you didn't know some of them because you've yanked off to their films, that if you met them out and about at the grocery store that you would even recognize them.
Yes, some of them are truly screwed up individuals but take a look at this board at all the "normal" people who come here and say some of the stupidest fucking shit, act like the dumbest fucking children, and so on. Just like all the rest of us humans, porn stars aren't these mythological creatures that are held high on the object list and then thrown away when their tits get too saggy or their pussy has taken one too many 10" black dicks, as the OP said. No, they are people with feelings, desires, and lives. They don't sit at home on cam all day and jam a dildo in every orifice just because. That would get a little old, I assume and the holes I imagine would get a little sore. I'm sure there have been a few who've tried it, but again refer to my previous comment about how some people are truly crazy, stupid, fucked up, etc.
I like coming here because I can talk to these so-called "undateable" porn stars about baseball, Star Wars, The Walking Dead, their shitty day at the store, my shitty day at work, other fucking assholes here on the boards who mutually piss us off, and sex and...sometimes they post pics of themselves naked, too. I think that's great. Most of the ladies whom I've had the chance to interact via email one on one, if I weren't married, I'd take out on a date...and since I am married, I'd probably just meet them for a beer and good conversation. After all, porn is their JOB. It is not their life. Some of them use the popularity of their job to advocate for others. Some use it for the monetary gain to go on and do the things that they desire. Hey, if you're a porn star, you can make some decent money and get to travel and get to meet movie/rock/sports stars. If you are into drugs and alcohol, you can most likely get that shit for free. Some get into porn to fill a void because of shit in their childhood, lack of opposite/same sex attention or just to do something completely wild and crazy. It's a long, strange road.
If you won't marry or date someone based on their occupation as a sex worker that speaks as much about them as it does about you and your own insecurity and Puritanical views on sexual health, sexual psychology, and the male-to-female sexual dynamic. Maybe you have the issue? If the porn star has come to you looking to date or be in a relationship, it shows that she's comfortable with who she is as a person and is confident in the fact that she can separate work and desire. It's really that easy. The ability to get past the stigma of sex work and the chastity of our own society is the biggest hurdle. Even after the sexual liberation of the 60s and 70s, we seem to have become over-stimulated to the point that sex is everywhere now. Nudity is so rampant that Playboy felt it was passe to put it in their magazine anymore. What the fuck? In the end, we are all just humans. To call someone undateable or not marriage material just means there is more for someone else to choose from and you, Mr./Mrs. Judgmental to the sex worker/porn star can go fuck yourself to their movies in some other corner of the Internet.
