Do you remember your first time getting turned on?

Do you remember the first time you felt it and what your reaction was? The earliest I can remember was it happened at a playground and I was maybe 8-9? Me and this girl I would run into went to go play away from the kids and for some reason the topic of underwear came up. She told me she had Barney underwear or something and I told her I didn't believe her. So she tugs her pants down a bit and shows me. Yup, Barney underwear. She giggled and quickly pulled them back up. I told her to do it again but she said no and ran off.

I didn't realize it at the time but I'm pretty sure I got turned on by that. It was a weird feeling I never felt before. Seeing a girl's underwear was something new to me and the fact that she sorta flashed me like that made it fell naughty in a way.

I didn't really like girls yet at 9 but I no longer thought they were icky like you do when you're younger so my body was slowly changing.

Curious to hear everyone else's first time as well.
 
It was maybe not the very first time, but the first I remember - during school, I might have been 12 years old, I catched the view on the boobs of a girl, which later on became a good friend. She wore a shirt with wide sleeves and suddenly I saw them through the sleeves, and I suddenly felt seeing them in my dick, in fact that was the very first time I remember becoming a hard one. Still very close to this girl, we're really good friends, and I once told her that and that from this day (till today) I sometimes wank on her (she said, she is okay with it) (she is now 50 like me and still very hot).

(in a way a close-theme-thread: first girl you masturbated to - in fact in was the girl I told about, but this similar thread is of course about models or actresses):
https://www.freeones.com/forums/threads/first-model-girl-you-ever-masturbated-to.1014719/
 

ban-one

Works for panties
I'm not sure on the exact timing, but I've narrowed it down to 3 possibilities, around 1998 when I was 14:
  1. A smart, blonde, athletic classmate, who I revealed my affection for in a rather embarrassing and unintentionally public way.... :cautious:
  2. Elisha Cuthbert, on Popular Mechanics for Kids. Who is also a smart blonde, but an action-girl. I still have a crush on her 🥰
  3. Samantha Carter / Amanda Tapping on Stargate SG-1. A smart, blond, action-girl who I also still have a crush on 🥰

There's a bit of a pattern there, with me adoring smart, athletic / action-girl blondes 🤤
 
I think it was Bo Derek, in the opening scene of "A Change of Seasons." Growing up we had HBO. I saw in the monthly catalog that it was rated R. I set my alarm to wake up early, overnight, and crept downstairs to watch it. The opening scene is her with Anthony Hopkins, naked in a hot tub, having a heavy make out session. You could basically see my cock pulse with each heartbeat, as I watched the water roll of her tits.
 

Mr. Daystar

In a bell tower, watching you through cross hairs.
I erased all of my "first time" memories at a Pink Floyd concert.
 
I got boners when I was little and was convinced that it was some bizarre, transient mutation that I must keep absolutely private. Nothing in the literature had prepared me for that, up to that point.
 

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Alright, but condensed.

I was setting sideways on my bed, at home, just setting normally and staring into the darkness. someone knocks, Comes in and we talk about the day. The lights are off, but #MoonlightAndNightlights. She nuzzles up behind me, and reverse spooning starts. Yapping continues.

At some point she cuddles up closer and I'm trying to talk but now i have (huge) boobies on my back and her breathing on my neck just overwhelms me, over time. I try to make sense of it and continue the conversation, but it gets.. insane.

I'm a virgin, (obviously) and don't have the nuts to do anything, so at some point i just grab my concrete and start pumping. Right next to her. Like.. i really couldn't stop myself. Those nuts hurt.

she asks me what I'm doing, I answer. Breathily and afraid

She asks me if I'd like her to go. I say no.

(But it seemed like forever, cuz first time admitting to a woman that i needed whatever this was)
in what was.. a tremendous turn of events i grab her hand, put it on my "area" and say please? She complies.

When i realized this was *actually happening* and not fast enough, (30 seconds?)

I turn around at light speed and tongue kiss. When there was no complaint,(30 more?)

(only the first time feels like 30 seconds is an eternity)
I immediately grabbed her tits.

Still.. no stopping me? Wait.. is this SEX?!

IN THE CHEESIEST voice i say "let's do it!" Cuz i really couldn't brain at that point, She laughs and says okay, i hop up and turn the light on, defrock this woman and just.. stare. I study. I take it all in. How... Tf.. did this happen? I don't question it, i just roll with it.

And that's it.
because my first was also my first. Unless you count movies with a flash of tits. Which happened all the time but not long enough to do much. Not like that first time, and it overwhelmed and stayed permanently in my nog.
 
Yes. i was 11, and was in a line to show my homework to the teacher. Right in front of me was a female classmate that i found really cute. Then out of nowhere, she rubbed her butt against my crotch, in front of everyone and started laughing. Later that night, i dreamed about that moment and woke up having an orgasm. I was so scared, and thought about calling my parents, cause i thought i was having a heart attack, then i calmed down. and went back to sleep
 
I got boners when I was little and was convinced that it was some bizarre, transient mutation that I must keep absolutely private. Nothing in the literature had prepared me for that, up to that point.
That's totally understandable. Sex education about erections often comes after the age some guys start having them:

https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/mont...sebastien-proulx-classroom-material-1.4451804
Eleven- and 12-year-olds will learn about homophobia and sexism and about the changes that come with puberty, including vaginal lubrication, spontaneous erections and nocturnal emissions.
 
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