I have a girlfriend and we have been together for over a year. No 3-somes over here, my GF is too jealous for that kind of thing and doesn't like to share her guy with any other women...I can't blame her, I wouldn't want to share her with other guys either. Although she does have a smoking cousin that I fantasize a 3-some with...somethings are left better off as fantasies. I would never do anything to hurt my GF or disrespect her in any way.