I had a woman and she and I split after 3 years, and it messed my head up so bad my ****** started to worry about me and thought I might have clinical depression. The girl I was with also struggled with the split too, and we still talk and what not, but for a bunch of reasons, we just decided for the time being we should seperate. So, do you take that **** and move on, or do you need to be put into a psych ward because it's so debilitating?