I posted this as a reply elsewhere but thought it deserved its own post here. I've been cuckolding with my wife for around 10 years. I never even heard of cuckolding when we started. We often hear many people who "don't get it". Its deeper and more psychological at times than just "some guy banging your wife or gf". My turn on with cuckolding (and probably with others who are into it) are on many levels during the whole act:
1. Objectifying
She's always considered herself sexually liberated. She wears plunging tops, semi-sheer, short skirts, etc. She also is very busty and attractive. At 5'4 hourglass figure with (now) 38DDDcups she's also been objectified by others her whole life too. Its almost 2 sides of the same coin. While cuckolding is only one aspect of our relationship its like having my own little porn star at home.
2. Picking the Guy
We take turns picking the guy. Though her picking a guy to bed is hot the first level of my turn on is when I find her a guy who has a thing for big tits and is totally going to objectify her in the bedroom. These guys usually fall into three categories each with turn on aspects for me: 1) the guy who couldn't get her otherwise. Watching her fulfill some poor shmo's fantasy is hot. She loves the attention she gets too. 2) a complete douchebag. usually svelt with her as another notch under his belt its very hot to see a pro go to work and her used just for a bang. These guys tend to be more endowed and more confident and tell her what to do. 3) The fun guys. These are the ones who are fun to hang out with too. They are usually laid back and creative too. They dare her to do stuff and enjoy more play. Really hot to see her having fun with them. She usually falls for them too where we/she meets on more than one occasion.
2. The Hook Up
A lot of the hook up part of her back and forth in planning, finding out what they're into, etc is extremely hot. She sends them sexy pics. Sometimes she has me take pics of her as special requests. Its that feeling leading up to christmas.
3. Getting Ready
Now she usually either knows what they want her to wear or they want to be surprised. She goes from barbie doll to goth to club girl to stripper to good girl and everything in between. Half the time I opt to order outfits or she goes shopping for some of the outfits. I can tell if she has a thing for the guy already because she'll go for a manicure/pedicure and get her hair done within that week. I help her get dressed. Panties from boy shorts, frilly, thong, lace. Matching bra usually. Sometimes garters. Thigh highs, leggings, fishnets, knee socks next. Makeup. Hair. Next is either dress, catsuit or tops ranging from corsets, plunging neckline, baby tee, sheer lacy top, tight button down and then the skirts always short, some silky and loose, plaid, frilly, tight leather, pvc, pencil, mini poodle. Then finishing on makeup and hair. The last thing I do is put on her shoes and she has me give her a once over. I usually have a raging hard on at this point.
4. The Meet
There are two kinds of meets, the ones I'm there and the ones I'm not. The ones I'm there are usually the first meet most of the time. If she clicks with a guy after the first meet or its a shy guy she picked she'll go out alone with him. In either case she goes out on a date first or we hang out first.
When she goes out on her own there is a rush and an almost frog in throat feeling. I'm usually home having a fapfest. Most of she'll give me a call just to touch base at the end of the date. She'll tell me what she did, how its going, and what they plan on doing next. These are the hottest calls... the just befores. The times when she doesn't call at all are intense. Not knowing you get a sinking feeling of suspense. I usually fap in anticipation. Time to time she'll call in the middle of sex and leave the phone on. She's a very vocal girl so its the next best thing to being there. She doesn't even respond just hangs up after. I never get a call after or on her way home. I just get to see her when she gets in. When she drinks she usually stumbles in looking like she just got back from a wild romp. Sober she's usually walking in with a smile and a glow but had time to fix herself up. Each time she leaves the guy with a memento of his choice. I tell her its not a big deal since I'll always buy her more outfits.
Going to the meet with her is preferred by far. Either the guy picks of the two of us or we meet somewhere in between. Most of the time when we go out I'm the friend or the brother. That in and of itself is hot. Seeing this woman I see everyday dressed like an escort with another guy flirting with her is a rush. A bigger rush is he's doing the same and we are hanging out with his friends showing her off with none of them knowing our arrangement. Many people don't get cuckolding and acting as a friend or sibling eliminates a lot of useless conversation. Its a fun twist taking roleplaying to the next level. Going out to dinner, clubs, bars, bowling, shooting pool, boating, swimming, and house parties to name a few. Some guys are more comfortable 1on1 and I keep my distance and others enjoy us hanging together. Either way she's usually having a fun time and gets into it. Sometimes it gets hot and heavy too. Felt up, fingering, groping, and making out is usually a sign its time to go.
5. The Ride
It could be a check please or some hot and heavy action ready to take elsewhere but I always know that moment where we're about to take the next step. Most of the time I'm in the back seat while she's shotgun with the guy. Sometimes I take the wheel (especially if i'm the designated driver / they were drinking) and they play in the back. There's usually dirty talk at this point. A few times there's been road head. I'm usually quiet and don't like to interfere or comment at this point.
6. The Destination
We pull up to the destination. Sometimes its right there in the car and the guy just stops off in some empty lot or park. The in-public aspect is a turn on but I usually hope this is just round one. Most of the time we go somewhere... motel, hotel, guy's place, his friend's house, boat, rooftop, etc. By this time i'm usually packing a major hard on. If its a room she usually freshens up and I'm on the chair or couch or corner. The guy is usually getting undressed, getting lube prepped, etc. As soon as she comes out I start rubbing through my boxers. They make out and she might do a strip tease, blowjob, tittyfuck, or other foreplay. Like I mentioned most of the guys I hook her up with if its my turn on big tit freaks so its straight to tits out, sucking, jiggling, fondling, slapping, and telling her about her tits. By this time I probably came for the first time of the night. When it comes to fucking she's vocal. She loves riding on top and doggy. Both myself and the guy she's with are usually hypnotized by her tits moving up and down or back and forth. There are some positions I can't do with her because I slip out (i'm packing 5 1/2") so watching her fuck standing up or on her side or other positions I wouldn't be able to hold is a huge turn on (as is seeing her with bigger). Some guys try to fuck as long as they can, some go for multiple rounds, she keeps up with anything and usually has the guy winded. It can go on all night to the morning. If that happens she sleeps with the guy and I nap elsewhere. Other times we part ways and head home. Watching another guy cum on your wifes tits or give a facial is one of the hottest things you can see if you let it be hot.
7. The Afterglow
The ride home if we're with a guy I'm usually quiet while they talk. If I'm riding back with her I'll ask her what she liked most, what turned her on, off, etc. Either way she's got an afterglow and an esteem about her that is 100% sexually gratifying. Things usually continue this way on the way home.
8. The Aftersex
Once we get home (or she gets home from a solo meet) the best thing is the aftersex. She tells me everything she liked, talks about the guy, his technique, etc while banging her. Its usually quick the first round but I often go for a second.
Feel free to ask me anything else on it.
1. Objectifying
She's always considered herself sexually liberated. She wears plunging tops, semi-sheer, short skirts, etc. She also is very busty and attractive. At 5'4 hourglass figure with (now) 38DDDcups she's also been objectified by others her whole life too. Its almost 2 sides of the same coin. While cuckolding is only one aspect of our relationship its like having my own little porn star at home.
2. Picking the Guy
We take turns picking the guy. Though her picking a guy to bed is hot the first level of my turn on is when I find her a guy who has a thing for big tits and is totally going to objectify her in the bedroom. These guys usually fall into three categories each with turn on aspects for me: 1) the guy who couldn't get her otherwise. Watching her fulfill some poor shmo's fantasy is hot. She loves the attention she gets too. 2) a complete douchebag. usually svelt with her as another notch under his belt its very hot to see a pro go to work and her used just for a bang. These guys tend to be more endowed and more confident and tell her what to do. 3) The fun guys. These are the ones who are fun to hang out with too. They are usually laid back and creative too. They dare her to do stuff and enjoy more play. Really hot to see her having fun with them. She usually falls for them too where we/she meets on more than one occasion.
2. The Hook Up
A lot of the hook up part of her back and forth in planning, finding out what they're into, etc is extremely hot. She sends them sexy pics. Sometimes she has me take pics of her as special requests. Its that feeling leading up to christmas.
3. Getting Ready
Now she usually either knows what they want her to wear or they want to be surprised. She goes from barbie doll to goth to club girl to stripper to good girl and everything in between. Half the time I opt to order outfits or she goes shopping for some of the outfits. I can tell if she has a thing for the guy already because she'll go for a manicure/pedicure and get her hair done within that week. I help her get dressed. Panties from boy shorts, frilly, thong, lace. Matching bra usually. Sometimes garters. Thigh highs, leggings, fishnets, knee socks next. Makeup. Hair. Next is either dress, catsuit or tops ranging from corsets, plunging neckline, baby tee, sheer lacy top, tight button down and then the skirts always short, some silky and loose, plaid, frilly, tight leather, pvc, pencil, mini poodle. Then finishing on makeup and hair. The last thing I do is put on her shoes and she has me give her a once over. I usually have a raging hard on at this point.
4. The Meet
There are two kinds of meets, the ones I'm there and the ones I'm not. The ones I'm there are usually the first meet most of the time. If she clicks with a guy after the first meet or its a shy guy she picked she'll go out alone with him. In either case she goes out on a date first or we hang out first.
When she goes out on her own there is a rush and an almost frog in throat feeling. I'm usually home having a fapfest. Most of she'll give me a call just to touch base at the end of the date. She'll tell me what she did, how its going, and what they plan on doing next. These are the hottest calls... the just befores. The times when she doesn't call at all are intense. Not knowing you get a sinking feeling of suspense. I usually fap in anticipation. Time to time she'll call in the middle of sex and leave the phone on. She's a very vocal girl so its the next best thing to being there. She doesn't even respond just hangs up after. I never get a call after or on her way home. I just get to see her when she gets in. When she drinks she usually stumbles in looking like she just got back from a wild romp. Sober she's usually walking in with a smile and a glow but had time to fix herself up. Each time she leaves the guy with a memento of his choice. I tell her its not a big deal since I'll always buy her more outfits.
Going to the meet with her is preferred by far. Either the guy picks of the two of us or we meet somewhere in between. Most of the time when we go out I'm the friend or the brother. That in and of itself is hot. Seeing this woman I see everyday dressed like an escort with another guy flirting with her is a rush. A bigger rush is he's doing the same and we are hanging out with his friends showing her off with none of them knowing our arrangement. Many people don't get cuckolding and acting as a friend or sibling eliminates a lot of useless conversation. Its a fun twist taking roleplaying to the next level. Going out to dinner, clubs, bars, bowling, shooting pool, boating, swimming, and house parties to name a few. Some guys are more comfortable 1on1 and I keep my distance and others enjoy us hanging together. Either way she's usually having a fun time and gets into it. Sometimes it gets hot and heavy too. Felt up, fingering, groping, and making out is usually a sign its time to go.
5. The Ride
It could be a check please or some hot and heavy action ready to take elsewhere but I always know that moment where we're about to take the next step. Most of the time I'm in the back seat while she's shotgun with the guy. Sometimes I take the wheel (especially if i'm the designated driver / they were drinking) and they play in the back. There's usually dirty talk at this point. A few times there's been road head. I'm usually quiet and don't like to interfere or comment at this point.
6. The Destination
We pull up to the destination. Sometimes its right there in the car and the guy just stops off in some empty lot or park. The in-public aspect is a turn on but I usually hope this is just round one. Most of the time we go somewhere... motel, hotel, guy's place, his friend's house, boat, rooftop, etc. By this time i'm usually packing a major hard on. If its a room she usually freshens up and I'm on the chair or couch or corner. The guy is usually getting undressed, getting lube prepped, etc. As soon as she comes out I start rubbing through my boxers. They make out and she might do a strip tease, blowjob, tittyfuck, or other foreplay. Like I mentioned most of the guys I hook her up with if its my turn on big tit freaks so its straight to tits out, sucking, jiggling, fondling, slapping, and telling her about her tits. By this time I probably came for the first time of the night. When it comes to fucking she's vocal. She loves riding on top and doggy. Both myself and the guy she's with are usually hypnotized by her tits moving up and down or back and forth. There are some positions I can't do with her because I slip out (i'm packing 5 1/2") so watching her fuck standing up or on her side or other positions I wouldn't be able to hold is a huge turn on (as is seeing her with bigger). Some guys try to fuck as long as they can, some go for multiple rounds, she keeps up with anything and usually has the guy winded. It can go on all night to the morning. If that happens she sleeps with the guy and I nap elsewhere. Other times we part ways and head home. Watching another guy cum on your wifes tits or give a facial is one of the hottest things you can see if you let it be hot.
7. The Afterglow
The ride home if we're with a guy I'm usually quiet while they talk. If I'm riding back with her I'll ask her what she liked most, what turned her on, off, etc. Either way she's got an afterglow and an esteem about her that is 100% sexually gratifying. Things usually continue this way on the way home.
8. The Aftersex
Once we get home (or she gets home from a solo meet) the best thing is the aftersex. She tells me everything she liked, talks about the guy, his technique, etc while banging her. Its usually quick the first round but I often go for a second.
Feel free to ask me anything else on it.
