Condom question

[DarkDeer]

This is a serious topic...I had sex with lots of girls in the past 5 years, and almost all of them asked me to wear a condom...for me it's ok, i don't want STDs or sons, but I **** wearing them. I love the feeling of being inside a pussy, and a condom makes sex cold, only a bit better then masturbation. Some girls took the pill, and I wonder...is the pill enough to prevent pregancy? I read a lot about it, but I want to be sure before using only it. What are the real damages that the pill can do on a girl ( I'm saying that because I don't want to make a girl steryle only for my pleasure )? And other questions: how can I ask a girl to do analysis to be sure that she won't deal me any STD without seeming a germophobe or **** like that? Can I come inside her if she takes the pill? And finally, how I ask her to don't use a condom? She isn't a slut, so it can be difficult to talk to her. I love her so much, and I want to make our union perfect., without a piece of latex between us...Thanks in advice.