Boy-Girl friendship : Is it possible ?

[Johan]

Do you think real deep friendship (like he/she is in your Top 3 for best friends) without any ambiguity, without one having a crush on the other, without one wanting to have sex with the other, ever, is possible between a guy and a girl (asuming both are straight) is possible ?
Have you ever experienced it ?
Or do you think it's imppossible, one day or another friendship will slip to something else ?

 

[Doc Scurlock]

It's possible. I've got female friends and I have no desire to take it any further with them. I just simply don't have those kinds of feelings for them.

 

[FrostyBoy]

Sure. I've had close friendships with attractive women, without any sexual tension. I worked with a stunningly attractive woman for 4 1/2 years, but realized that nothing good would come from taking it further (I'm sure she did too), and left it at that.

 

[dbradford8589]

I would think its possible. I have had female friends in the past that I never thought about taking it further with.

 

[StanScratch]

Absolutely. Some of my best friends have been female, and there has been absolutely no sexual tension between any of us. Of course, it helps I hang around with ugly chicks, and that my face looks like it's been hit with a shovel about a billion times.

 

[blindedinchains]

No.
I don't think so.
I think there are always slight feelings from one or the other, whether they admit it or not.

 

[SpexyAshleigh]

Its possible but I think its very very rare. Usually one party or the other wants to boink the other.

 

[LukeEl]

It has happend, my roomate has been my friend for well over 10 years and I see how she treats guys that she sleeps with and dates, I'd rather perform circumscision with a chainsaw then be more than plutonic with her.

 

[Ace Bandage]

It's only possible if the woman is ugly. No guy hangs around a beautiful girl and doesn't think about trying to get her into bed. If he says otherwise, he's either ugly or lying.

 

[edirons22]

I think it's impossible.

 

[Ulysses31]

It's only possible if the woman is ugly. No guy hangs around a beautiful girl and doesn't think about trying to get her into bed. If he says otherwise, he's either ugly or lying.

:dito: Or you are both gay homosexuals

 

[Member442]

It's only possible if the woman is ugly. No guy hangs around a beautiful girl and doesn't think about trying to get her into bed. If he says otherwise, he's either ugly or lying.

This. I have many male friends. I know they check me out I know at least some of them want more but I'm good with that as long as they are cool with knowing its never going to happen.

 

[Lexi Marie Mayhem]

It happens all the time. I like being BBF with boys!

 

[busaguy79]

It happens, I have a couple of good friends who are girls. As long as you are truthful, one of my friends is really hot and I told her that I like her but don't wanna try and get things going because don't want to make things weird and end up losing a friend. She thought I was a man whore anyways because I was seeing alot of girls at the time lol We are still friends.

 

[lurkingdirk]

This is totally possible. I have a couple of extremely close female friends, and they're no dogs, I can tell you.

The fact that I've noticed they are attractive, does that mean my goal is to get them into bed? Ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm no. It turns out that there are some things I value quite a bit more than sex. These women have been with me through some shit you wouldn't believe. At times I've even shared a bed with them with no issue. It is possible, and it is great.

 

[busaguy79]

And its nice being able to talk to a girl like one of your guy friends!

 

[Ace Bandage]

It turns out that there are some things I value quite a bit more than sex.

Then you have your goddamn priorities out of order. You're a failure as a heterosexual man and as a human being. May you be smited by a lightning bolt from the god of thunder.

At times I've even shared a bed with them with no issue. It is possible, and it is great.

You're doing it wrong.

 

[Member442]

This is totally possible. I have a couple of extremely close female friends, and they're no dogs, I can tell you.

The fact that I've noticed they are attractive, does that mean my goal is to get them into bed? Ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm no. It turns out that there are some things I value quite a bit more than sex. These women have been with me through some shit you wouldn't believe. At times I've even shared a bed with them with no issue. It is possible, and it is great.

Where do you live?? I wanna be good friends.

 

[lurkingdirk]

You're doing it wrong.

I weep for you. I may have to kill you. I'm reserving judgment.

Where do you live?? I wanna be good friends.

As you will see, Mr.... Ry, is it? Being more than a penis has its privileges.

 

[Ace Bandage]

I weep for you. I may have to kill you. I'm reserving judgment.

Bring it, bitch. I'm a level 56 space ninja.