it's been along time that i have been here.. i hope everyone is doing good and had a happy holiday season. from august on a lot has happen. my *** had a stroke, i went back to full time work and then m *** finds out she has lung cancer. so this holiday season was no fun for me. to much worries.. anyways i have been lurking on the boards and have missed being here.. anyways hope everyone has a happy new year.