Ask me (SpexyAshleigh) any question you want!

HeLovesPorn

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First i just recently rep'd ya posatively twice during my short time back here my dearest Ashley, so I can't rep ya again, but I REALLY love how your stickin' it to (and no bad porn pun fully intended) to those painfully misogynist assholes who are truely to defend our fellow males getting off to super-sick shit such as Meatholes.com and the Facial Abuse.com pricks, ect.

That shit is repulsive, anti-social and more or less anti-human. I'm not even tryin' to kiss anyones' ass when I say I too also greatly worry that guy's who get off on that stuff, I am sure, most certainly aren't of a fairly safe & sound mind. But in a somewhat mild "ah well" category, at least the statistics show that those who view it regularly are actually much more coward-like then many think, and aren't too prune (most of the time) to trying to do that shit in real life. But even still like you, it DOES worry me.

Yeah I like some raunchy stuff personally myself and am NOT close-minded. FAR from it, actually. And I do enjoy dirty talk and some 'rougher' albiet nicely respectable with my few partners in life love making & fucking. But general degradation with forceful slapping, way too horrible name callings, and throat gaggings and super-raunchy dry anal cavity fuckings along with trying to hurt the gals so much that they have emotional break-downs and cry is just plain WRONG, folks. :( And it speaks badly of the on average much worse mental health here in "the west" of North America that I feel many aren't ready to truely speak-up about quite yet. So badly wrong. It's ethically and morally fucked out, and it is the general super sad direction the whole adult film industry as well as adult entertainment industry has headed towards in general over the last few years, and I am glad (if you'll check my last few postings and click on my name) as I stated that I am not the only one very much sick of it. As it turns out many more agree with me who posative rep'd me.

Anyway onto a real Question of the Day:

Q# I was recently in a nice BBW gal's chat room on MyFreeCams (it was http://profiles.myfreecams.com/PinUpKittie 's room, if ya must know and I feel no need for ya to be jealous my love ;)), and a married man admited he was in there, and someone posted "Well then you should not be in here, really". And the model, PinUpKittie was very respectful voice'd but she did say "Yeah, I kinda agree as it's fucked up if your really married that your in here enjoying some good old ass shakin' and tit jiggling ... But I'm also okay with it since it is your business and I try not to judge because of my personal beliefs. Everyone's gotta live they're own lives and it's like like I'm your mother or your wife or some shit".

And then another basic like me posted "Hey, if it isn't sexual penetration then it isn't cheating and as long as no touching or obsession forms, then I feel a guy should be able to look every once 'n a great while".

So why do YOU personally sit on the matter that I just discribed? Was just always sort of curious for some odd reason over the last two weeks. I personally can see both sides of the argument, myself (because I am an open-minded guy with a larger sex drive then some that I greew-up with and who went to school with, ect).

PS: Must say my dear you gotta click on your name and check out some of the threads that I post on as there is A LOT of love goin' on for you from other memebrs who all like me REALLY wanna see you be a Miss Freeones. :D And that is no bullshit at all. Seriously. :)
 

SpexyAshleigh

Official Checked Star Member
What is the sexiest outfit(s) or piece of clothing you own?

Hmmmm....I guess thats all a matter of opinion. I feel sexiest when I'm wearing no makeup, and am in comfy loungewear. But as far as what LOOKS sexiest...probably just a hot cocktail dress, or a sexy lingerie piece. I'm sure everyone has their fav outfit on me though hehe.

Anyway onto a real Question of the Day:

Q# I was recently in a nice BBW gal's chat room on MyFreeCams (it was http://profiles.myfreecams.com/PinUpKittie 's room, if ya must know and I feel no need for ya to be jealous my love ;)), and a married man admited he was in there, and someone posted "Well then you should not be in here, really". And the model, PinUpKittie was very respectful voice'd but she did say "Yeah, I kinda agree as it's fucked up if your really married that your in here enjoying some good old ass shakin' and tit jiggling ... But I'm also okay with it since it is your business and I try not to judge because of my personal beliefs. Everyone's gotta live they're own lives and it's like like I'm your mother or your wife or some shit".

And then another basic like me posted "Hey, if it isn't sexual penetration then it isn't cheating and as long as no touching or obsession forms, then I feel a guy should be able to look every once 'n a great while".

So why do YOU personally sit on the matter that I just discribed? Was just always sort of curious for some odd reason over the last two weeks. I personally can see both sides of the argument, myself (because I am an open-minded guy with a larger sex drive then some that I greew-up with and who went to school with, ect).

PS: Must say my dear you gotta click on your name and check out some of the threads that I post on as there is A LOT of love goin' on for you from other memebrs who all like me REALLY wanna see you be a Miss Freeones. :D And that is no bullshit at all. Seriously. :)

Well, my outlook on the situation you described is like this- I'm nobody's babysitter, so at the end of the day, I don't really care if married men watch me or not. Its not my responsibility to make marriages work. Thats up to the gentlemen and the women they marry. BUT...if you're asking my opinion on married men who fap to me...I'm fine with the ones who are open and honest with their spouses about their online use. I have plenty of regulars who actually watch me WITH their partner, and I've had dozens of privates where I watch a married couple having sex while they watch me. I know alot of regs who also inform their wives of their webcam use, and their wives have no problem with it. That, is respectable to me.

HOWEVER...when a married man has to go behind his wifes back, lies to her, spends money without her knowing about it...that is something I don't respect. If a man feels the need to hide something like that, its usually because he's doing something that would hurt his partner, and I don't believe that something like porn/webcamming is worth hurting the person you love. The men who lie, and who decieve and spend money on me without their wifes knowledge or consent, ARE cheating in my opinion because they're being deceptive, and cheating at its core is based on deception. I've been married, and my ex never used camsites because I wasn't ok with it. He respected my wishes, and I thanked him for it. I never had to worry. Porn was different, because its one sided, but camming I think is far more intimate, and more interactive, so I saw it as cheating. But thats just my life and my opinion, every woman has their own level of comfort when it comes to that sort of thing. Its up to every man to respect that comfort level, whether he wants to or not. So the ones who lie and decieve, are ones I don't have respect for, but like I said, I'm no ones babysitter so I won't be selective in who I allow to private chat/spend money on me. Its not a casino's responsibility to refuse people with gambling addictions, and its not a shoe stores responsibility to turn away people who spend beyond their means, so its not my responsibility to turn away horny men because they have a wife sleeping in their bed upstairs. Know what I mean?



Hi Ash,

Have you ever tasted your own ass?

:)

No. Why would I want to? I don't sprinkle shit on my cereal in the morning, so why would I want to taste my own ass?
 
Hey Spexy...

I'm curious to know what your favorite fashion brands and designers are? Also, as an aside, a love of people here love you (me included). Do you have any favorite OSCMs or posters here?
 

SpexyAshleigh

Official Checked Star Member
Hey Spexy...

I'm curious to know what your favorite fashion brands and designers are? Also, as an aside, a love of people here love you (me included). Do you have any favorite OSCMs or posters here?

I try not to pay attention to designers or fashion brands because I can't afford them LOL. I'd kill for an authentic Louis handbag, or Louboutin shoes. But since I don't make a huge living, those are luxuries that are put on the backburner...most of my clothes/bags are just generic cheap stuff.

My fav OCSM is Alissa, hands down. I love her, and any model who posts just for the sake of interacting and more importantly ENJOYING the conversations going on here. Too many OCSM's only post to spam or advertise their websites, and some only show their faces during times like these, the Miss Freeones contest. Alissa posts all the time, and you can tell she does it because she likes it, and appreciates that the guys here care about her opinions and her brain. And to answer your second part to that question, as far as posters here, I like the ones who listen to people, who aren't all about only talking about porn. I get that this is a porn forum, but I like reading intelligent posts about a variety of topics and I think Freeones offers alot of that..hence why I stay here. If this forum was solely comprised of threads discussing who has the best butthole, or who's swallowed the most loads...I wouldn't be here. So I appreciate the guys who showcase their big brain just as much as their little brain ;) And also ones who treat me like I'm a human being instead of a fuckbag. With me being naked on the internet, its hard for most guys who realize that I eat/sleep/watch tv/run errands and do everything that everyone else does, and its hard for some to wrap their brain around the fact that sometimes I just want to discuss the different types of bacon, instead of what my fav position is, or if I'd ever take it up the ass on cam. I appreciate the posters on here who engage me in actual intelligent conversation...and alot of them can be found in this thread :)
 
As an avid cook and food enthusiast, I'd also like to know if you cook often. If so what do you do well? Do you have any absolute favorite restaurants that you would suggest in your neck of the woods?
 

SpexyAshleigh

Official Checked Star Member
As an avid cook and food enthusiast, I'd also like to know if you cook often. If so what do you do well? Do you have any absolute favorite restaurants that you would suggest in your neck of the woods?

I cook everyday :) I always try to make healthy, but delicious meals every nite for dinner. My biggest expense outside of rent and utilities is food, because its one of my priorities...I spend alot to eat good cuts of organic meat. I am pretty good at working the BBQ, but since I'm inside alot during the winter, do alot of home cooking, like roasted chicken and veggies, or braised beef shanks in red wine..etc. Comfort food!

As far as restaurants here in Nova Scotia, my top ones to recommend are:

Chives Bistro - the chef rotates his menu four times a year based on whats in season. He uses only local ingredients, nothing imported.

Five Fishermen- if you want good Nova Scotian seafood, go here. They do a free mussel and salad bar with a variety of dipping butters if you order an entree and the seafood is five star.

Esquire (bit of a drive outside of Halifax)- if you want comfort food, home cooking or the best chowder in the province, go here. Award winning chowder and you feel at home when you eat. I go here at least once a month for their lobster chowder.
 
What's your favorite word? I have a few particularly the words moist and ridiculous. Have you ever had a moist piece of cake? Are you moist right now?:drool2:
 
BTW Spexy... I really appreciate you taking the time to answer our questions. It feels sorta first date-ish! I don't know if anyone has asked but what does 'Spexy' mean? It sounds like an adjective.
 

HeLovesPorn

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Hmmmm....I guess thats all a matter of opinion. I feel sexiest when I'm wearing no makeup, and am in comfy loungewear. But as far as what LOOKS sexiest...probably just a hot cocktail dress, or a sexy lingerie piece. I'm sure everyone has their fav outfit on me though hehe.



Well, my outlook on the situation you described is like this- I'm nobody's babysitter, so at the end of the day, I don't really care if married men watch me or not. Its not my responsibility to make marriages work. Thats up to the gentlemen and the women they marry. BUT...if you're asking my opinion on married men who fap to me...I'm fine with the ones who are open and honest with their spouses about their online use. I have plenty of regulars who actually watch me WITH their partner, and I've had dozens of privates where I watch a married couple having sex while they watch me. I know alot of regs who also inform their wives of their webcam use, and their wives have no problem with it. That, is respectable to me.

HOWEVER...when a married man has to go behind his wifes back, lies to her, spends money without her knowing about it...that is something I don't respect. If a man feels the need to hide something like that, its usually because he's doing something that would hurt his partner, and I don't believe that something like porn/webcamming is worth hurting the person you love. The men who lie, and who decieve and spend money on me without their wifes knowledge or consent, ARE cheating in my opinion because they're being deceptive, and cheating at its core is based on deception. I've been married, and my ex never used camsites because I wasn't ok with it. He respected my wishes, and I thanked him for it. I never had to worry. Porn was different, because its one sided, but camming I think is far more intimate, and more interactive, so I saw it as cheating. But thats just my life and my opinion, every woman has their own level of comfort when it comes to that sort of thing. Its up to every man to respect that comfort level, whether he wants to or not. So the ones who lie and decieve, are ones I don't have respect for, but like I said, I'm no ones babysitter so I won't be selective in who I allow to private chat/spend money on me. Its not a casino's responsibility to refuse people with gambling addictions, and its not a shoe stores responsibility to turn away people who spend beyond their means, so its not my responsibility to turn away horny men because they have a wife sleeping in their bed upstairs. Know what I mean?


No. Why would I want to? I don't sprinkle shit on my cereal in the morning, so why would I want to taste my own ass?

A big thanks for honestly and in an overly long manner explaining your answer in full, as I feel honestly and intelligent are quite attractive, and like you I wouldn't wish to be anyone's babysitter and I also feel as long as a couple enjoys your together and is fairly honest and doesn't sneak around, then it is perfectly fine. But when any man must lie and sneak around then I begin to quest how over all healthy that is for any relationship.

I also apprechiate how you write about how this place stimulates your mind and you enjoy it's thread. True to form there are sadly many "officially star checked memebers" who I recently wrote about that only DO feel I come here to pimp out they're (dullard) blogs and official pay sites and indeed: what over all fun is that, reguardless of how beautiful then are? But many like you, Alissa and (God bless her and her reent fight with cancer) the Toronto-based webcam sweetie Taylor Stevens, all of you I feel, REALLY put real effort into your replies and having fairly sweet, non-mean spirited and very intellectual discussion on here. Honestly if you had the mentality of a female opposite sexe pimp who only pimped out her (admitedly fine to me, of course ;)) glorious ass and new wonderful enhanced tits, then I would of course spend MUCH less time every other day catching up on you twitters and any new posts on here. I just wouldn't, ya know?

But yeah I do find you respectabe and highly intelligent every bit up ther with be sexy, desirable and havin a nice snow bunny accent as well as being overly nice to us, so please promise you'll never stop being the same Spexy Ashleigh that we all know & love, right? ;) :) I just know you won't let us down.

Anyway onto my Question for the Day 1#:

Even though you've answered simular stories like this one, please to pay attention:

If adult film industry legend Ron "the hedgehog" Jeremy was doin' his stand-up comedy routine in as he has one in Halifax and you and a girlfriend did manage to catch his performance and afterwards, he spots both of you. He and one of the BangBros.com or Brazzers.com guys wants to offer you a whopping $15, 000 and up to $20 grand U.S. dollars for a nice hardcore shot, as in video shoot, for a reality site within two days before they leave. They say it'll be under three hours work and most of the dialogue will be improvised to what you want and that you can also work out how he'll finish on you and rather or not you can bring n your girlfriend that play, but you must work on course with Mr. Jeremy.

He also explains that it'll never be on DVD or Blu-Ray, just a mildly popular site. So what all do you take into consideration? And you also find him very charming and you think about the money. Whatever will you personally do and think over all?

Question of the Day 2#:

While I have no problem with anyne Gay, Lesbian or Bi-Sexual as you might know the Transgendered community has proven to have sadly one of the worst mental health cases in all of the adult film industry as well as any type of people groups in general, namely because of the obvious mental health issues doctors and psychatrists beleive that it takes one to wanna change they're sexe (gender) in the frist place. What all do you think about the Transgendered community and what do you think about they're never talked about memebers of the adult film community and the questionable sexualities of the man who stroke it to Transgendered pornography?

Question 3#:

Recently I was enjoying some time with MYFs member ElectrikStar form your west coast of lovely British Columbia. And I noticed within one night or the next she can use the potentially offensive word "Retarded" at least a good four or five times a night, as well as "weird" to discribe herself or something nine times in one evening (no lie at all). Now for the word "Retarded", I personally find it general ignorance. After all: how would you feel if you had someone on any side of your family with an I.Q. under 80 who needed and required special educatin and assisted living; I wonder if many at all would still use it or find it generally amusing and socially acceptable? Do you agree with me that it is a generally offensive and ignorant word in context and shouldn't be thrown around as liberally?

Also she complained about in her room about how her big, natural breasts are much nicer then salene or silicone-enhanced ones, such as your's natch. What all do you feel about those predjudice towards lovely, enhanced breasts such as your's? Many members of her room of ocurse agree'd with her simply because they were there, I feel, freely hating on other adult cam models with enhanced breasts.
 
Fav Canadian beer- Alexander Keiths
Fav imported- Stella ;)

And yes, if I'm not on cam currently, you'll be taken to the rest of the models listed. If I'm online when you click on the link, you'll wind up in my chatroom :) If you're around twitter tomorrow, check my feed to see when I'm online...I'm going to a movie in the afternoon so I think I'll get on cam in the late evening, just a heads up ;)

thanks for the headsup, will be checking in on my twitter/your twitter, either way will be watching.
hope to see you sooner thatn later :)
 

SpexyAshleigh

Official Checked Star Member
What's your favorite word? I have a few particularly the words moist and ridiculous. Have you ever had a moist piece of cake? Are you moist right now?:drool2:

haha I don't know what my favorite word is...I really enjoy the word douche though.
BTW Spexy... I really appreciate you taking the time to answer our questions. It feels sorta first date-ish! I don't know if anyone has asked but what does 'Spexy' mean? It sounds like an adjective.

Spexy is just my word for sexy. Kinda like Smexy, but Spexy. Lots of cam models put "sexy" in front of their name....ie. SexyAmberly, SexySarah etc (those are just examples) ...I wanted to do something different, so I chose Spexy instead!

A big thanks for honestly and in an overly long manner explaining your answer in full, as I feel honestly and intelligent are quite attractive, and like you I wouldn't wish to be anyone's babysitter and I also feel as long as a couple enjoys your together and is fairly honest and doesn't sneak around, then it is perfectly fine. But when any man must lie and sneak around then I begin to quest how over all healthy that is for any relationship.

I also apprechiate how you write about how this place stimulates your mind and you enjoy it's thread. True to form there are sadly many "officially star checked memebers" who I recently wrote about that only DO feel I come here to pimp out they're (dullard) blogs and official pay sites and indeed: what over all fun is that, reguardless of how beautiful then are? But many like you, Alissa and (God bless her and her reent fight with cancer) the Toronto-based webcam sweetie Taylor Stevens, all of you I feel, REALLY put real effort into your replies and having fairly sweet, non-mean spirited and very intellectual discussion on here. Honestly if you had the mentality of a female opposite sexe pimp who only pimped out her (admitedly fine to me, of course ;)) glorious ass and new wonderful enhanced tits, then I would of course spend MUCH less time every other day catching up on you twitters and any new posts on here. I just wouldn't, ya know?

But yeah I do find you respectabe and highly intelligent every bit up ther with be sexy, desirable and havin a nice snow bunny accent as well as being overly nice to us, so please promise you'll never stop being the same Spexy Ashleigh that we all know & love, right? ;) :) I just know you won't let us down.

Anyway onto my Question for the Day 1#:

Even though you've answered simular stories like this one, please to pay attention:

If adult film industry legend Ron "the hedgehog" Jeremy was doin' his stand-up comedy routine in as he has one in Halifax and you and a girlfriend did manage to catch his performance and afterwards, he spots both of you. He and one of the BangBros.com or Brazzers.com guys wants to offer you a whopping $15, 000 and up to $20 grand U.S. dollars for a nice hardcore shot, as in video shoot, for a reality site within two days before they leave. They say it'll be under three hours work and most of the dialogue will be improvised to what you want and that you can also work out how he'll finish on you and rather or not you can bring n your girlfriend that play, but you must work on course with Mr. Jeremy.

He also explains that it'll never be on DVD or Blu-Ray, just a mildly popular site. So what all do you take into consideration? And you also find him very charming and you think about the money. Whatever will you personally do and think over all?

Question of the Day 2#:

While I have no problem with anyne Gay, Lesbian or Bi-Sexual as you might know the Transgendered community has proven to have sadly one of the worst mental health cases in all of the adult film industry as well as any type of people groups in general, namely because of the obvious mental health issues doctors and psychatrists beleive that it takes one to wanna change they're sexe (gender) in the frist place. What all do you think about the Transgendered community and what do you think about they're never talked about memebers of the adult film community and the questionable sexualities of the man who stroke it to Transgendered pornography?

Question 3#:

Recently I was enjoying some time with MYFs member ElectrikStar form your west coast of lovely British Columbia. And I noticed within one night or the next she can use the potentially offensive word "Retarded" at least a good four or five times a night, as well as "weird" to discribe herself or something nine times in one evening (no lie at all). Now for the word "Retarded", I personally find it general ignorance. After all: how would you feel if you had someone on any side of your family with an I.Q. under 80 who needed and required special educatin and assisted living; I wonder if many at all would still use it or find it generally amusing and socially acceptable? Do you agree with me that it is a generally offensive and ignorant word in context and shouldn't be thrown around as liberally?

Also she complained about in her room about how her big, natural breasts are much nicer then salene or silicone-enhanced ones, such as your's natch. What all do you feel about those predjudice towards lovely, enhanced breasts such as your's? Many members of her room of ocurse agree'd with her simply because they were there, I feel, freely hating on other adult cam models with enhanced breasts.

1. No, I would not do it. Everyone has a set price for doing different things, and doing a hardcore scene with a random man, my price is at least an amount of money that is life-changing. I'm talking like, a million dollars. $20k certainly is a lot of money, and would eliminate most of my debt, but its still not enough to spend a lifetime feeling like I sold out for cash, since I wouldn't be entirely comfortable having sex with a man I didn't know. I only fuck guys who I'm in love with, or have had relationships with. I don't have casual sex, and certainly not for money. There's a reason why I'm a solo camgirl, and thats because I'm not interested in adding dick to my shows.

2. I support the gay and the transgendered community. If one feels conflicted about what sex they are, then I fully support them soul searching and working to achieve whatever level of inner peace they need and deserve. You'd be pretty "mentally ill" if you grew up feeling like God made a mistake and made you a boy instead of a girl. I wouldn't even say that these people are mentally ill, I'd just say they are internally tortured, and for obvious reasons. I hate my thighs - I couldn't imagine the self loathing I would suffer from if I hated feeling like everything about me was wrong.

3. a) I hate the word retarded. I often refer to it as the "r" word in my room that I don't allow. I outright ban anyone who uses that word, because I classify it in the same realm as the "n" word, and the "f" word. (if you don't know what 'f' word I'm referring to, it rhymes with maggot).

b) Any girl who hates on other women for getting plastic surgery is either fucking conceited, or very insecure with herself. Now I don't know this girl, so I can't and won't say personally what her problem is, but obviously she has a big one if she feels the need to blast other women in her chat room. Obviously everyone is entitled to have their opinions on plastic surgery, but to outright belittle those who are for it, just shows her character. And to me, I'd rather have big fake titties than a shitty, mean personality. :dunno:
 

SpexyAshleigh

Official Checked Star Member
thanks for the headsup, will be checking in on my twitter/your twitter, either way will be watching.
hope to see you sooner thatn later :)

I'm hopping on within half an hour, just got home and showered and will be getting ready to play!
 

alexpnz

Lord Dipstick
Has anybody put a boner in between those two lovely, new bombs of yours? :clap:
 
are you thinking about making some new years resolutions?
if so, and you feel like sharing, which ones?
what kind of exercise do you do and do you like to exercise?
what's your favorite jamba juice?
what kind of sandwich do you find to be the most delectable?

also thanxxx for answering my ridiculous questions all the time i try to keep them fun or ridiculous :D
 
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