I have been married to a nice Asian lady for 8 years now. I moved her and her mom into my house. I had an idea to equal up the house duties but I ended up getting pushed aside as those two consider it "women work". OK, I was thinking; enjoy the situation but never, ever take things for granted. I took the trash out about 4 months ago but the closest thing I do to house work is to raise my feet so they can be swept under. I keep waiting to hear, "Why don't you get it your own damn self!" yelled into the back of my head but it never happens. My wife is also a great earner bringing home nice benefits too as a nurse.