A ******, her pornstar ******** - what is your take on it?

One person commented:
Why the conditional tense? She is not the ***** you would have raised, she is the ******** you raised. That she is a porn star has no bearing on those other qualities.

I apologise for the strong wording but you just have to tell your ****** to mind her own business. I can't say I'd be thrilled if any of my *****ren made their livings in the porn industry but how I would choose to handle my *****rens' life choices would be "no go" territory with one of my ********, just as it's none of your business to tell her how to handle her *****ren.

I can't believe how pushy relatives can be. You don't sound like you would disrespect the same boundaries wrt your ****** and her ****** so perhaps what is happening with your ****** is part of the dynamic between you....you are more passive and she is very aggressive/opinionated, tells you what to do and judges you. How do you think she would react if you told her how to interact with her ****** members? The answer to that question may help me and others to understand how it is that your ****** feels comfortable criticising your parenting decisions. I think it's quite odd, but evidently you don't. In fact you sound as if you feel guilty that you haven't done exactly as she said.

Problem solved
 

Ace Bandage

The one and only.
Her m-m just sounds like a lonely bitch. I'll bet that if the ******** sent over one of her co-stars to cheer up the ******, she'd be singing a different tune.

Of course the ****** doesn't want her baby girl working in porn. But if that's the career that she chose, then she better start embracing (or at least tolerating) it if she wants a relationship with her. It sounds like the ******** is being responsible about what she's doing. She should at least be proud of her for that. The ****** may not ever be totally comfortable with the idea, but she should learn to accept it over time.
 

LukeEl

I am a failure to the Korean side of my ******
If I had a ******** that did porn and she was of legal age, I would tell her that she's an adult old and wise enough to make her own decisions. However my policy would be simple I don't want to see any of her bodies of work, nor hear about it. Aside from that I would tell her to invest her money wisely from what she makes, don't do *****, find a lucrative and sucessful studio to work for, no gangbangs, get me Jonathan Morgan's autograph and a bumper sticker that reads "My ******** Won The AVN Award For Best Girl/Girl Scene"
 

PlasmaTwa2

The Second-Hottest Man in my ******'s Basement
If I had a ******** that did porn and she was of legal age, I would tell her that she's an adult old and wise enough to make her own decisions. However my policy would be simple I don't want to see any of her bodies of work, nor hear about it. Aside from that I would tell her to invest her money wisely from what she makes, don't do *****, find a lucrative and sucessful studio to work for, no gangbangs, get me Jonathan Morgan's autograph and a bumper sticker that reads "My ******** Won The AVN Award For Best Girl/Girl Scene"

And let's just close the thread here before the weirdos start showing up...
 
I don't know, why any one is not looking at it from the POV of a 14 year old girl, who just had lost her ******, Take care of a devastated ****** and two younger ******.

One fine morning with a single stroke of luck, She was the MAN of the house. What options she had?
 
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