hygiene

I have been to England, Wales, Eire, Tenerife, San Juan, and all over Southern Africa, yet never have I ever had the poop nightmare actually come true, (the one you have when your system is trying to wake you up to go to the loo), until coming to the States. I cannot, for the life of me...

Is hygiene a big deal when it comes to sex? For example Guy who doesn't shave his balls or around his member. Girl who doesn't shave her legs or armpits or her private area. Would you make that particular person shave it before you even decided to have sex?

is it true that french ones doesn't take a shower everyday? that would be a smelly partner...